Perhaps..Originally posted by wisefool83:I think with regards to gay issue, we are currently at the "we don't ask, you don't say stage". Lots of room for improvement, but at least we are way beyond prosecuting them.
Perhaps in our life-time, we might get to see a civil-union sort of arrangement for the homosexual community in Singapore.
*The Civil Union is a arrangement similar to a marriage for gays.
This line is funnyOriginally posted by Meat Pao:The government is just a group of people representing the wider group of people, the populace.
juz curious...how the SAF "progressively " deal wif homosexuals in camps? kindda interesting...havn't came across gays during my ns...Originally posted by LazerLordz:Perhaps..
However, I must say that our SAF is quite progressive when it comes to homosexuals serving in the Army.![]()
I believe the ones that "came out" are still segregated, to prevent dropped soap incidents I suppose ...Originally posted by urbanmonkey:juz curious...how the SAF "progressively" deal wif homosexuals in camps? kindda interesting...havn't came across gays during my ns...
"dropped soap incidents"...dat phrase brings a lot of memoriesOriginally posted by Fatum:I believe the ones that "came out" are still segregated, to prevent dropped soap incidents I suppose ...
last I hear that's under review ... but one shouldn't mistake that as a sign that's it's a free for all now ... singapore society is still deeply conservative at heart, that is why till now, we still don't have a Singapore edition of playboy or penthouse or whatever ...Originally posted by LazerLordz:That last post was quite uncalled for. It's likening homosexuality with promiscuity.
If you're homosexual, you still serve according to your PES status. There is less segregation these days.
As for the infringement of rights, let me just put it this way. If the government won't enforce Section 377A and publicly says it will not do so to intrude into the private lives of homosexuals, for goodness sake, scrap that piece of legislation and not make a mockery of the Penal Code or the laws of Singapore for that matter.
They still think they can have their cake and eat it.
Your average ah pek can be free to denounce homosexuality in the streets, but moral opposition to something does not make that very thing a crime. This issue is not that advanced a concept to understand actually.
I oppose smoking, so do many people. Smoking is not a crime though. So why is sexual orientation a crime? Sexual abuse and orientation are two different things. Rapists of either orientation are criminals, because they rape and force themselves on others by force and without consent.
Orientation is not a crime, let's get that straight people. I am straight, but I've seen GLBTs suffer for far enough, for issues beyond their control.
Everyone could do with some simple logic now and then, especially the witch-hunting ones who are in fact, more extremist in their counter-advocacy and are simply dripping with scorn.
If we're focusing solely on the exhibition itself, I might be able to accept your line of argument about what other segments might find tasteless.Originally posted by Fatum:last I hear that's under review ... but one shouldn't mistake that as a sign that's it's a free for all now ... singapore society is still deeply conservative at heart, that is why till now, we still don't have a Singapore edition of playboy or penthouse or whatever ...
yes, orientation is not a crime, but pushing your orientation into the face of others is infringing upon their liberties. Certain things are best left in the privacy or one's own bedrooms, just because one's kinked that way doesn't mean one has the right to parade it in front of people ... let's have other examples, what if the exhibition was about beastiality ? ... people bonking animals ? ... or nacrophillia ? ...... would you agree or welcome an "artistic" exhibition of people engaged in the above fetishes ? ...
liberties is not a personal concept, but the choice of the majority of a society to decide upon the conduct and the permissible boundaries of society. If the silent majority is to be held hostage by the demands of a minority, then something is wrong, no ? ...
I'm not concerned about the legal morass surrounding that issue, if a piece of legislation is never going to be enforced, then it doesn't really matter, eh ? ... there's a 500 dollar fine attached to not flushing the toilet, but why is the toilet habits of Singaporeans, judging from the state of public toilets, still as dismal ? ... people are not idiots, no brokebacker's going to get charged for sodomy or whatever if they do it in their bedrooms ... same thing with that silly oral sex legislation, I'm sure many of us enjoy that in private too (oral sex that is, not brokebacking)Originally posted by LazerLordz:If we're focusing solely on the exhibition itself, I might be able to accept your line of argument about what other segments might find tasteless.
Still, there was no need to ban the thing. Exhibitions are private. No one forces children or the public to view the exhibits. If it offends you, don't go and see it. It is a private, personal choice isn't it. People should learn to take responsibility for their own likes and dislikes, and stop asking the government to rule their lives by proxy. Perhaps they've gotten too used to that I suppose..
Though it may take time for the rest of the population to realise that being different isn't wrong, the chance that certain extremist elements on the other side of the fence may use this to advance their very own ultra-conservative agenda is very real as well.
Secondly, decriminalising homosexuality does not equate to pushing one set of sexual mores into the bedrooms of others. It is merely cleaning up the legal mess surrounding what orientation means, and how to differentiate it from active application.
unfortunately, it's mostly the case....Originally posted by LazerLordz:That last post was quite uncalled for. It's likening homosexuality with promiscuity.
The social impact notwithstanding, if something is limited to the private space in its activity, and not in the public, like parading naked in the street as opposed to parading naked in a studio where people who share the same interests have to make the effort to find and enter that private space, away from the public space, that itself is a fairly decent distinction made to allow vastly different interests to co-exist together without too much spilling over.Originally posted by Fatum:I'm not concerned about the legal morass surrounding that issue, if a piece of legislation is never going to be enforced, then it doesn't really matter, eh ? ... there's a 500 dollar fine attached to not flushing the toilet, but why is the toilet habits of Singaporeans, judging from the state of public toilets, still as dismal ? ... people are not idiots, no brokebacker's going to get charged for sodomy or whatever if they do it in their bedrooms ... same thing with that silly oral sex legislation, I'm sure many of us enjoy that in private too (oral sex that is, not brokebacking)
you know, I can almost agree with you on your second argument, that's certainly very persuasive, but then let's picture this, why would a naked man, or woman, parading down the streets, be arrested and covered up ? ... after all, if anyone's going to be offended by their nakedness, they can always look away, no ? ... there's the answer there.
choice choices ... yes, it's easy to think that ultimately, one's life, and lifestyle choices is up to oneself alone, but it's not as simple as that. Why do we ban drugs for instance ? after all, it's up to us to destroy or live our own lives, no ? ... because not everyone is equipped enough to live their lives with discipline, or equipped enough to make all the choices in life. Every wondered why pedophilia is outlawed ? ... why is sex with girls below 16 considered rape, even if it's with a willing one ? ... after all, they reach puberty at 12, neh ? ... because they are not yet equipped to make the right choices in life, hence society has to step in. Same thing with a myriad of other examples, juvenile delinquency, family violence, etc, would you call these having your lives lived by proxy ? ...
Originally posted by royston_ang:Is holding a private exhibition considered promotion?
Actually, nobody really care if you are gay or not. And it's not a crime to be gay. It's just that we don't want to [b]promote gay. So what's all the fuss? [/b]
Originally posted by royston_ang:singapore ultimately is still a conservative-minded country...an asian country..to be given the "alright to be gay" by our government does not constitute the general feelings of most singaporeans..
Actually, nobody really care if you are gay or not. And it's not a crime to be gay. It's just that we don't want to [b]promote gay. So what's all the fuss? [/b]
well, I believe the exhibition was supposed to be held in conjunction with the Gay Pride Festival, the IndigNation, no ? ... you know, that's pretty big news, around the world, I had a friend who happens to be a member of the LBGT group in school ask me about that before. I didn't even knew it existed then, nor was I interested, since I like women very much. I'm not sure if it was something I should be proud of, but I remember telling him that Singapore was not what he'd imagine it to be.Originally posted by LazerLordz:The social impact notwithstanding, if something is limited to the private space in its activity, and not in the public, like parading naked in the street as opposed to parading naked in a studio where people who share the same interests have to make the effort to find and enter that private space, away from the public space, that itself is a fairly decent distinction made to allow vastly different interests to co-exist together without too much spilling over.
Your example of people not having enough discipline to make life choices, is more likely to represent the underaged segment of the population. I feel, if you're an adult, you should make your own choices and not have someone or the state "nanny" you around.
If you make mistakes that harm yourselves, you should be taking responsibility for yourself.
Let's not mix both public and private space more than it has already been mixed..
How would an exhibition disturb people? If you don't like it then don't see it. Some people, however, are interested in art dealing with homosexuality and they should get to see it.Originally posted by Fatum:you win a right for yourself, you're infringing on the right of another ....
simple analogy ... you have a right to blast your radio at night, it's your radio ... but you're disturbing other people in your neighbourhood, no ? ...
same thing with this issue .... no body cares if you're a brokebacker in private .... but keep it private ! ... it's not like brokebackers are being jailed or what not in Singapore ...
this is sticking the middle digit up in the face of the rest of society ... I think this is the right decision, even when it's crouched as "Art" ...
that's the same thing LL asked, read my post above again.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:How would an exhibition disturb people? If you don't like it then don't see it. Some people, however, are interested in art dealing with homosexuality and they should get to see it.
hard to read when you phrase all your sentences in questionsOriginally posted by Fatum:that's the same thing LL asked, read my post above again.