How would you feel if you found out ..
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one day that your bf is only with you for the sex?
I know a poor girl like this. He is also with her cuz she's rich.
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Originally posted by foxwalk:one day that your bf is only with you for the sex?
I know a poor girl like this. He is also with her cuz she's rich.
What would you do if you were her and you found out?
It's for mutual benefits.
Man for sex; woman for cash.
The basic... primitive... biological... natural... thing both sexes would seek for.
We all choose our relationship base on certain mental and emotional calculation. This is the reason why we don't jump into any relationship with any tom on the street. Regardless of how surface or little consideration, we still do, subconsciously.
Cheers -
In singapore, a girl would choose a guy with greater social standing than another, even though the girl love the latter more.
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leaveOriginally posted by foxwalk:one day that your bf is only with you for the sex?
I know a poor girl like this. He is also with her cuz she's rich.
What would you do if you were her and you found out? -
i ain't a girl but it would be dumb to continue being used and abused like that...
heck.. roles reversed, if some girl were using me for sex and money, i'd walk too... -
My advice to the girl: dump that prick...... pronto.
I have no respect for guys who think using their d**ks instead of their heads and their hearts.
In addition, love for someone else's money is not love at all.....
And using someone else's body to satisfy your own desire is called lust. -
I tot this is a no brainer ....Originally posted by the Bear:i ain't a girl but it would be dumb to continue being used and abused like that...
heck.. roles reversed, if some girl were using me for sex and money, i'd walk too...
Unless the girl like to get her heart trampled on, her money syphoned out and her body treated like a common whor3.... I find the whole picture sick.
I had an ex-colleague who married a rich China girl for her $ hoping to become towkay and also for her "slim" body which he would praise her all the time. After she had a kid, she lost her shape.. and look like a typical china woman with their china face. So he was no happy. Worse is that his child is a boy. The China wife's father decided that the grandson will inherit all the $ and the father will not be given a cent. Hahahaha!!!! Revenge!!!!! Never marry for $, Never marry for looks!!!! Never marry for all the wrong reasons!!!!! -
He get free sex. Why not? It's free anyway. and She's rich. Even get the both of both world. Who don't want?
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Jerk
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Is it really the duty for a gf to satisfy the sexual needs of the bf before marriage?
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No he is with her cuz she's rich and loves him. She simply loves him. I think you mis-read, Yunhaier.Originally posted by Yunhaier: It's for mutual benefits.
Man for sex; woman for cash.
The basic... primitive... biological... natural... thing both sexes would seek for.
We all choose our relationship base on certain mental and emotional calculation. This is the reason why we don't jump into any relationship with any tom on the street. Regardless of how surface or little consideration, we still do, subconsciously.
Cheers -
Juz to bed & get $$??
I'll probably go find a pair of scissors... *snips*
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Case : Man after sex and money. Victim: Rich girl. Verdict : The district court has no rights to criminalise the person as both parties are willing. Although this is morally upsetting, nothing can be done.
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I'm Looking 4 Trouble, where are you? -
Learn from this guy. He's a good player.
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Leave him lor. Isn't the choice obvious enough? Unless there're some misunderstandings...?Originally posted by foxwalk:one day that your bf is only with you for the sex?
I know a poor girl like this. He is also with her cuz she's rich.
What would you do if you were her and you found out? -
so i assume u`re say she`s rich and pretty and the man is after both sex and money??Originally posted by foxwalk:No he is with her cuz she's rich and loves him. She simply loves him. I think you mis-read, Yunhaier.
i`ll say....
what`s the problem then??
if the gal can satisfy the guy w his physical needs and
the guy can satiate the gal`s emotional needs
i mean both of them are selfish ya?
but they do get something in return
the guy got his pie and eat it
so does the gal ya? -
Leave as soon as possible. That's what I did...it hasn't gotten to the level that he wanted me for just sex yet, but I know the love wasn't there in his part, so even though I have grown to love him, I chose to leave rather than stay and prolong the agony.
Trust me, there will be nothing good coming out from this kinda parasitic relationship. People ought to go into a r/s because of love and when they truly care about each other, not just because of some ulterior motive. It kinda cheapens the word "relationship" if you go into it for those reasons, no matter how practical it might be...
So even if it will hurt her, it is the best thing if she can gather the courage and take a big step away from him. Don't let her make use of her anymore le.
Happiness lies in the decision we make for ourselves.
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Oh yes I think I did.Originally posted by foxwalk:No he is with her cuz she's rich and loves him. She simply loves him. I think you mis-read, Yunhaier.
But it still applies.
In Third Law of Love states: though together, we each chose our current relationships for our personal and specific reasons.
There is a prevailing fantasy that somehow there is some commonality between us and our partners that is more important than our personal reasons for being with them. Some of us undoubtedly believe that there are some 'special' reasons for being together that are more important than our personal feelings and issues. I am not denying that there are some couples that comes together and achieve great things in life, but you can also bet that each of them is getting each and every one of their personal needs and desires fulfilled at the same time.
Your relationship is for YOU, not your partner or for those other people in your life. If it wasn't giving you something that you wanted, you wouldn't be there. The exchange of Love for Love is the simplest needs the relationship had to produce. We always hear people saying 'takes two to clap.' and how unrequited love ends up one sided. The reason is simple, the other party requires nothing from the one loving him/her. If principles were strong, he/she wouldn't want the money nor the sex either. And in the simplest state: love wasn't brew and exchange, there is no way you could end up a relationship because he/she cannot fulfill whatever needs/desire you are seeking.
Love is inmeasurable.
She gives Love and Cash.
And he gives Love.
There is a exchange of subconscious mutual benefits. A relationship could take place.
It could also be anything else.
She gives sex.
He gives cash.
A relationship could still be born. An example of one that cannot begin:
He gives love and cash.
She doesn't need/want his love nor his cash
A clash.
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hmm...one day the girl will realize that she will need something more than what she can get from a man who only wants her for sex and money...I mean, he doesn't love her so how can he satiate her emotional need? Maybe temporarily but once she comes to her senses...it won't be a pretty situation...Originally posted by BaByBoY:so i assume u`re say she`s rich and pretty and the man is after both sex and money??
i`ll say....
what`s the problem then??
if the gal can satisfy the guy w his physical needs and
the guy can satiate the gal`s emotional needs
i mean both of them are selfish ya?
but they do get something in return
the guy got his pie and eat it
so does the gal ya?
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Mate of HENG@?Originally posted by Camellias4me:Juz to bed & get $$??
I'll probably go find a pair of scissors... *snips* 
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haha.. i'm juz imagining how i'll react.Originally posted by foxwalk:Mate of HENG@?
Anger 1st... den hurt..
So in love with him but love's not reciprocated. Instead betrayed.. shattered.
I'll try to pull myself away. Tuff but dats where my frens comes in helpful!
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for all of us to say most will say that to leave or break off... but in reality with all relationships, there's the involvement of emotional feelings...
it's easy to tell ppl to break off but when it comes to urself then u'll understand how painful it is... what thew guy is doing is wrong, but den if the girls knows it, and she loves him no matter the fact that he's indeed after sex and money, would u guys say that girl is dumb??
they say love is blind, at the end of the day it's for her to decide to stay or leave, we can onli say so much to her of course there's tons of good guys around, but when u have emotions attached to a certain person, u'll hold that person so very close... no matter wat u hear or see, to u that person is right...
therfore like i said the obvivous choice would to leave that jerk, den again it's up[ 2 her to decide -
I would not say she is dumb. Cos I can sort of understand how she might feel. And yea it is hard to make the decision to leave. It was one of the hardest decisions I have made in my life, and it was one of the most painful too.Originally posted by Kagari:for all of us to say most will say that to leave or break off... but in reality with all relationships, there's the involvement of emotional feelings...
it's easy to tell ppl to break off but when it comes to urself then u'll understand how painful it is... what thew guy is doing is wrong, but den if the girls knows it, and she loves him no matter the fact that he's indeed after sex and money, would u guys say that girl is dumb??
they say love is blind, at the end of the day it's for her to decide to stay or leave, we can onli say so much to her of course there's tons of good guys around, but when u have emotions attached to a certain person, u'll hold that person so very close... no matter wat u hear or see, to u that person is right...
therfore like i said the obvivous choice would to leave that jerk, den again it's up[ 2 her to decide
Well, you can't tell her to leave, like I said happiness lies in the decision we make for ourselves, and only we can make that decision. Others can advise and make us see some light but if she closes her eyes to it, then it is true others can't really do much...
Maybe one day she will realize that the guy is wrong for her...we can only pray for her so that day will come faster...
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I think at the end of the day, the problem is she thinks he loves her like she does, but he doesn't. He's just a spineless dump who wants not only her body, but her money. I despise men like these.
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Leave him n never ever keep in contact....what else then?