Problem with my gal
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hi
just want to ask for some advise
i met this gal in the internet, she tells me all her family problems
and says she need money etc
we share some stories , mostly about hers
then we went out , i always pays for the outing
when on her birthday i bring her go clubbing
she is very happy, after that because i spend too much
i need to work in bars to be bartender
i did not keep her company
slowly she becomes dissatisfied with me
want me to buy her many things
because i love her so i give in to her
now i am broke , but she still complains
want to join contest to win some money
and says she likes older man
cos they are financially more better than me
she threatens to break with me
if i dont give her monthly allowance
should i give her or not?
i also broke now, i am working very hard
today my off day, cos i work weekends
and weekdays i got another job -
Yoz...Originally posted by bartenderx:hi
just want to ask for some advise
i met this gal in the internet, she tells me all her family problems
and says she need money etc
we share some stories , mostly about hers
then we went out , i always pays for the outing
when on her birthday i bring her go clubbing
she is very happy, after that because i spend too much
i need to work in bars to be bartender
i did not keep her company
slowly she becomes dissatisfied with me
want me to buy her many things
because i love her so i give in to her
now i am broke , but she still complains
want to join contest to win some money
and says she likes older man
cos they are financially more better than me
she threatens to break with me
if i dont give her monthly allowance
should i give her or not?
i also broke now, i am working very hard
today my off day, cos i work weekends
and weekdays i got another job
Its pretty obvious wats she wans in the relationship...
Cheers... -
Not an advise but my suggestion to you is to read your own post. Pretend you are not the author but you found this thread while browsing this forum. What will your reaction be? What advise will you give to the writer? I think you will find the answers then.
It doesn't look too promising, right?
Good luck with your relationship. I hope it can be built on a solid foundation and not on $$$$. -
u sounds like a long friend are you adrian
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either u are blind or ur post is biased.Originally posted by bartenderx:hi
just want to ask for some advise
i met this gal in the internet, she tells me all her family problems
and says she need money etc
we share some stories , mostly about hers
then we went out , i always pays for the outing
when on her birthday i bring her go clubbing
she is very happy, after that because i spend too much
i need to work in bars to be bartender
i did not keep her company
slowly she becomes dissatisfied with me
want me to buy her many things
because i love her so i give in to her
now i am broke , but she still complains
want to join contest to win some money
and says she likes older man
cos they are financially more better than me
she threatens to break with me
if i dont give her monthly allowance
should i give her or not?
i also broke now, i am working very hard
today my off day, cos i work weekends
and weekdays i got another job
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WAKE UP!!!
She's with you for the sake of your mouth, didn't you realize it?
Why be so hard on yourself? Materialistic girl like her, even if you have money now, some day, if you go bankrupt or whatever, she will also leave you.
What she sees in you is your MONEY.
So, why make your life so miserable because of her? -
Dump her, she is only after money.
U can't buy her love. -
yea.. worse still... she'll leave u for a richer man..
if u r really rich and can afford.. we have nth to say
but no point working out ur heart and lungs jus to satisfy her rite?? next time.. she leave u, u'll end up with nth!! so... yea... open ur eyes..
All The Best -
Hi bartenderx
Among my ranks for hardworking man, you are surely one of the top. However I hope you doing mind me saying this, among my ranks for stupidest man, you are also among the top.
From your message, I believe you already know what she is after and yet you still fall for it. I wont be surprise in the end you not only lost many things (money, time, feeling) but hurt yourself as well. To my amusement, you seem enjoy living in this kind of life.
Frankly if you will to further hurt yourself, I wont pity you and I believe nobody will. You are old enough to think for yourself and responsible for your own life. Dont blame her for being heartless and such. You had given her the chance. Remember it also take two to tango.
RegardsOriginally posted by bartenderx:hi
just want to ask for some advise
i met this gal in the internet, she tells me all her family problems
and says she need money etc
we share some stories , mostly about hers
then we went out , i always pays for the outing
when on her birthday i bring her go clubbing
she is very happy, after that because i spend too much
i need to work in bars to be bartender
i did not keep her company
slowly she becomes dissatisfied with me
want me to buy her many things
because i love her so i give in to her
now i am broke , but she still complains
want to join contest to win some money
and says she likes older man
cos they are financially more better than me
she threatens to break with me
if i dont give her monthly allowance
should i give her or not?
i also broke now, i am working very hard
today my off day, cos i work weekends
and weekdays i got another job -
either blind or simply ignorant
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pass her to me i teach her a lesson a good one seriously no joke .
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A friend of mine said that "Love has reasons reason can never understand".
But I would think that this man, is slowly realising that he is being had. And is looking for a straw to grasp.
I do hope that he comes to his senses.
Perhaps, he may actually love her? But sometimes, love demands that he walk away and never see her again.
We can only hope.Originally posted by varatare:Hi bartenderx
Among my ranks for hardworking man, you are surely one of the top. However I hope you doing mind me saying this, among my ranks for stupidest man, you are also among the top.
From your message, I believe you already know what she is after and yet you still fall for it. I wont be surprise in the end you not only lost many things (money, time, feeling) but hurt yourself as well. To my amusement, you seem enjoy living in this kind of life.
Frankly if you will to further hurt yourself, I wont pity you and I believe nobody will. You are old enough to think for yourself and responsible for your own life. Dont blame her for being heartless and such. You had given her the chance. Remember it also take two to tango.
Regards -
She has already told you in your face. What's so difficult in understanding that? The breakup is gonna happen sooner or later, it's just a matter of time and who's gonna initiate it.
Two words: Ditch her. -
I echo that. Just dump her and get on with your life. Don't be her slave, for all you know, she maybe with some richer guy(s) already. Since you work in the bar, I'm sure you can find someone better right?Originally posted by shadowlunar:She has already told you in your face. What's so difficult in understanding that? The breakup is gonna happen sooner or later, it's just a matter of time and who's gonna initiate it.
Two words: Ditch her. -
dude.u're dumb.
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i'd drop her faster than you can say,"doh!"
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obviously,she is just after you money...give her up and stop being a cai tao~Originally posted by bartenderx:hi
just want to ask for some advise
i met this gal in the internet, she tells me all her family problems
and says she need money etc
we share some stories , mostly about hers
then we went out , i always pays for the outing
when on her birthday i bring her go clubbing
she is very happy, after that because i spend too much
i need to work in bars to be bartender
i did not keep her company
slowly she becomes dissatisfied with me
want me to buy her many things
because i love her so i give in to her
now i am broke , but she still complains
want to join contest to win some money
and says she likes older man
cos they are financially more better than me
she threatens to break with me
if i dont give her monthly allowance
should i give her or not?
i also broke now, i am working very hard
today my off day, cos i work weekends
and weekdays i got another job -
Hello Mr Robert Head.Originally posted by bartenderx:hi
just want to ask for some advise -
F liao
dump liao
siam liao
u still want love? haha even five year boy also laugh at you.
True love? Are you a man btw? You got no more pride is it ?
Sorry man looks like a boys to wimps case !!
wah another super sad example of a man kena con by gal.
Hope this is a warning to guys out there never to believe in true love! -
you need to reexamine why you're in this relationship in the first place. are you attracted to the girl because of her looks? or are you falling for her because of her hardship coming from a difficult background...on the one hand you want her for her physical attributes and on the other you pity her because of her circumstance...
you need to reconcile within yourself why continuing in this relationship would provide you greater happiness...she's already told you as much that she thinks you will be financially unable to support her spendthrift habits...what she needs is someone who can fulfil her financially...given your work situation, you will need to put in extra effort to fulfil her material needs...but by fulfilling her material needs you are not fully developing the emotional side of the relationship...
a relationship should be mutually supportive...if one party is constantly giving without the other party reciprocating you're being treated no better than an automated teller machine...
you should be firm with her and tell her your reservations about meeting her every materialistic whim...she'll never be satisfied until she's drained you and sucked you dry...in this case you need to tell yourself that you'd be better off breaking off with her and to allow your emotional needs to be fulfilled by someone who gives as much as she receives... -
wa first time i see mahai said so much, i wonder if you are his clone
i.c.y -
she wants your money.
You are using money to buy her love. A girl who truly loves you will never mind you without money. -
I ll pray for u.... Hopefully u will dump her.. Dun even b with her if she return to ur side..
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Wow! Is this mahai making sense??!! Amazing!Originally posted by mahai102:you need to reexamine why you're in this relationship in the first place. are you attracted to the girl because of her looks? or are you falling for her because of her hardship coming from a difficult background...on the one hand you want her for her physical attributes and on the other you pity her because of her circumstance...
you need to reconcile within yourself why continuing in this relationship would provide you greater happiness...she's already told you as much that she thinks you will be financially unable to support her spendthrift habits...what she needs is someone who can fulfil her financially...given your work situation, you will need to put in extra effort to fulfil her material needs...but by fulfilling her material needs you are not fully developing the emotional side of the relationship...
a relationship should be mutually supportive...if one party is constantly giving without the other party reciprocating you're being treated no better than an automated teller machine...
you should be firm with her and tell her your reservations about meeting her every materialistic whim...she'll never be satisfied until she's drained you and sucked you dry...in this case you need to tell yourself that you'd be better off breaking off with her and to allow your emotional needs to be fulfilled by someone who gives as much as she receives...
Anyway, putting all emotions aside, do you seriously think this relationship will work out?
Think of yourself 5 years later from now, do you think you'll be making enough to support her, who will bolt at the drop of a pin for older men who has more money?
And while you're working your ass out, she'll be taking your money and spending on her prada, versace, etc.
And what happens when she eventually leaves you say, 10 years down the road?
What will you be left with? -
support her, give her what she want! i can believe u such a moron!