After a relationship, can the girl & the guy still be frens?
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Well, 2+ months had pass, and i still thinking of her. 2 weeks ago, she told me let's go our separate ways as friends. Why does a relationship ends, the friendship ends too?
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Beacuse it is awkward mostly. But you should get over it
If you dont you will always be thinking that there is a chance to get back together and hurt yourself even more.
best is too move on and forget about it
I mean you can be friends if both know it is completly over but it sounds like ("i am still thinking about her") that you are not over it yet and not ready to move on so i think she is right
2 months man you really need to start getting over it and realising that there is no hope for you now -
it's always best to remain as friends after a break-up but it's very unlikely. as the guys stated above, if they other side wants a clean break-up, she/he won't want you to think that there's a chance for you two to get back together. it's normal for people to react this way, just have to live with it.
2 months? not a lot. 2 years? not comparable. i've been stuck up with a girl i like for 6 years and counting. it's not a good feeling, but i have no choice.
these are some of the things in this world even the geniuses combined, can't explain them. -
really depend ....... i still contact my ex gf until now
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Tis days, i been thinking of the good times we had. No, i not thinking of patching back. Just feel sad, that we were such a good frens b4 that. hhmm,Originally posted by iamsuper:Beacuse it is awkward mostly. But you should get over it
If you dont you will always be thinking that there is a chance to get back together and hurt yourself even more.
best is too move on and forget about it
I mean you can be friends if both know it is completly over but it sounds like ("i am still thinking about her") that you are not over it yet and not ready to move on so i think she is right
2 months man you really need to start getting over it and realising that there is no hope for you now
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well, i'm thinking.. if the separation was acrimonious, and there was a lot of anger, maybe the best way is to go separate ways without looking back?
some manage, but i wonder.. will there be residual yearning that will prevent one or both from moving on?
or worse, cause friction or tension by their presence when the other has a new partner?
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ROfl. Even without a relationship guy and girl can't be friends, because sometimes the moment a guy breathes a word about liking the girl, the girl gets freaked out and won't ever speak to him again.
So what makes you think a failed relationship will result in good friendship? -
Depends on how great is the damage done..
and both parties muz be willing and able to let go of the past and be frens.
Of course, sometimes there are many complications. -
for me is NO WAY to go bk as friend maybe its my character cos i feel it is unfair to 2 of us and it is always better to move on in life no pt ...and quite awkward also if met on the st just pretend to hi and bye can liao
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normally for gals... if they still befriend wif u means they cant realli forget u dats why they chose to haf no friendship no nothing is the best.... understand? if they still be friends wif u ... u will b on their mind most of the time... but some gals realli can still befriend u after u 2 haf broke off... it depends on the gals lah some can take it cool n pretend nothing has happen jus friends some cant... just too emotional liao.Originally posted by universe:Well, 2+ months had pass, and i still thinking of her. 2 weeks ago, she told me let's go our separate ways as friends. Why does a relationship ends, the friendship ends too?
haiz....
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The past ain't called the PAST for NOTHING...Originally posted by universe:Tis days, i been thinking of the good times we had. No, i not thinking of patching back. Just feel sad, that we were such a good frens b4 that. hhmm, -
cannot be friends,because she hurt me deeply....
(bu nen zuo peng you.ying wei shang hai guo)
cannot be enemy,because we love each other truely before....
(bu nen zuo de ren,ying wei xiang ai guo)
only can become familar stranger.....
(zhi nen zuo zhui shou xi de mo sheng ren)
I did try my best to be friend with the girl i love most....It wont works
It juz dun works......
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Yes and No...
depends on the stage where the break-up is caused by wat circumstances wor...
but seldom ppl think that ex bf or gf can continue to be frds de......but also seldom ppl know that ex bf and ex gf can be friends more than lovers better wor......
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Its your choice really,
not easy but possible. u wont be as close though.. but ya ..