how do you pursue your ex girlfren again?
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is it true that usually past r'ships never get revived?
i broke up wiv her 3 yrs ago... but i just realised what a perfect girl she has been...
i hate to say this.. but i learnt to treasure her onli after losing her..
anibody here has ani experiences on r'ships happenin a 2nd time? -
tough. real tough... it may even tend towards an on-off r/s, which can be very devastating. my take is, go slow. see if she still has feelings for you. if not, learn to let go. find another perfect gal else where.
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Unless of cos if the girl is abt to be stabbed by a robber but the guy managed to get in front of her in time for him to get stabbed instead..maybe got chance....BUT I guess this happens only in movies.Originally posted by The Twins:For us women...once the heart is dead, not matter how much u try we wont turn
Hard to rekindle past relationships I guess. It depends on how it ends previously lah..if a lot of quarrelling, then difficult lor..Make use of this opportunity to know others. -
Relationship is just like a mirror...
Once broken... no matter how u paste back all the borken part, there will e crack lines here and there..
Wat i suggest is move on.. search for another relationship... Its always so sad that people only cherish wat they lost... well u can just only regret it... -
Originally posted by tgost:is it true that usually past r'ships never get revived?
i broke up wiv her 3 yrs ago... but i just realised what a perfect girl she has been...
i hate to say this.. but i learnt to treasure her onli after losing her..
anibody here has ani experiences on r'ships happenin a 2nd time?
You may experience regrets and seek to return.
But she may experience enlightenment and has moved on.
Even if you seek to return back, she might not be there anymore, for she has already walked far away.
How far she walked?
How far do you think three years could bring her?
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not me I never look back.
In fact I was super glad that I left her, cos now she likes someone else husband. Was wondering, what was I thinking when I fall in love with her at that time. -
You'll never know untill you try......... again....
and no matter what we say here.... if u don't try you'll always think "What if?"
sieze the moment and try! but if it doesn't work out don't kick yourself cos you have done your best and it's just not meant to be. -
dun bother to pursue your ex gf...... especially if you are the one to initiate the break up
in the first place..... once heart dead thats no turning back....
my ex actually stalk me by waiting for me at my void deck...luckily with current bf so he dare
not approach.... totally piss off when he wrote me a letter telling me how much he miss me!
that BASTARD!
YOU KNOW wat....... he is already married and wife pregnant with his child when he was stalking me
....wat a creep!
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tsk tsk... wat took u sooo long 2 realize?? 3 years after break up is too long lah....
forget it pal. move on. other babes around. -
aiyo... so jiat liak! married with pregnant wife still stalk you!!! wunder how his poor wife feels if she knew....Originally posted by pinkygal76:dun bother to pursue your ex gf...... especially if you are the one to initiate the break up
in the first place..... once heart dead thats no turning back....
my ex actually stalk me by waiting for me at my void deck...luckily with current bf so he dare
not approach.... totally piss off when he wrote me a letter telling me how much he miss me!
that BASTARD!
YOU KNOW wat....... he is already married and wife pregnant with his child when he was stalking me
....wat a creep!
did he break up with u to be with her? -
ya ya...... broke up with me becoz of her... that jerk ...
pity the wife thou'.....will really break her heart if she knew wat he did...
tell me how he miss me and the good times we have togather....machim i care like
that.... told me he still got keep the emails/ cards that I have sent him blah blah blah....
so tempted to call her to let her know wat he did.... but do not want to
cause her to go into early delivery lar
i was really glad that I did not end up marrying him....GOD BLESS !
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Why did u realise now then? Its too late. As much as u hate to say those words, I hate to say these words to u also:Originally posted by tgost:is it true that usually past r'ships never get revived?
i broke up wiv her 3 yrs ago... but i just realised what a perfect girl she has been...
i hate to say this.. but i learnt to treasure her onli after losing her..
anibody here has ani experiences on r'ships happenin a 2nd time?
ITs over and pls get on with life and stop thinking abt the past and how u regret it. Oh and its true that past relationships usually dun get revived.
U did not treasure her then, wat makes u think u can treasure her again?
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Great decision there! What a jerk he is! Married still wana stalk ppl. I think mayb u shld wait for the rite chance to call and let the wife know.Originally posted by pinkygal76:ya ya...... broke up with me becoz of her... that jerk ...
pity the wife thou'.....will really break her heart if she knew wat he did...
tell me how he miss me and the good times we have togather....machim i care like
that.... told me he still got keep the emails/ cards that I have sent him blah blah blah....
so tempted to call her to let her know wat he did.... but do not want to
cause her to go into early delivery lar
i was really glad that I did not end up marrying him....GOD BLESS ! -
3 yrs a pretty long time. She sure to have changed & may not be avail. anymore.Originally posted by tgost:is it true that usually past r'ships never get revived?
i broke up wiv her 3 yrs ago... but i just realised what a perfect girl she has been...
i hate to say this.. but i learnt to treasure her onli after losing her..
anibody here has ani experiences on r'ships happenin a 2nd time?
Have u kept in contact with her all these yrs.? Are u aware of what's happening in her life? Also what's the reason for break-up? -
True story- A girl broke up with her bf cos cannot cope with both studies/ r/s cos very young, only 17.
The guy was heartbroken but he remained a friend. Still calls her regularly, showed his concern, listen to her problems. He didn't get jealous even though he knew many guys were wooing her. Managed to get her to slowly go out with him. In the meantime, he started getting involved in other activities so he don't get so obsessed with her. They have fun together & she realise what a caring guy he was.
It took him almost a yr. to win her back.
This case senario can only happen if the breakup is mutual & both remains as friends. Very unlikely to win back yr ex gf. if u have treated her badly. -
Originally posted by drx:not me I never look back.
In fact I was super glad that I left her, cos now she is likes someone else husband. Was wondering, what was I thinking when I fall in love with her at that time. -
Its.. quite impossible... Relationship its not what we all watch in mushy sentimental romance movies with things like "... and they get back again and live happily ever after".....
Once u breakup or she/he initiates breaking up... Each of u have no more respect on each other. What's left maybe images of her/him naked.. sex.. gettin intimate...thats why broken up couples still can miss each other..... but at the end.. even if get together again, also wont last longer... And more things will come out when there are arguments like "if u do that again or if i see u doing things like last time... we'll break up again!" So there will be more black mails and anger as both has lost their respect towards each other.
I got some friends case who broke up.. then get together again.. then broke up again.. then get together again... like no ends after their first breakup... things keep coming up everytime there're minor little problems. -
"hao ma bu chi hui tou cao"
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Threaten to die lor... last resort... always works to help in getting anything done... but then I dun dare try it...
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1st n foremost..Originally posted by tgost:is it true that usually past r'ships never get revived?
i broke up wiv her 3 yrs ago... but i just realised what a perfect girl she has been...
i hate to say this.. but i learnt to treasure her onli after losing her..
anibody here has ani experiences on r'ships happenin a 2nd time?
r u even frds w/ her now? -
yes... i am still friends wiv her...
we'll both like occasionally meet up once a mth?
n we'll send each other like gdnite msges once in a few days?... -
so what's de problem?...at least she agree 2 meet u .. n sms..wow....Originally posted by tgost:yes... i am still friends wiv her...
we'll both like occasionally meet up once a mth?
n we'll send each other like gdnite msges once in a few days?... -
chinese idoms: good horse dun eat grass that is left behind. bro, move on...take it as a learning lesson and a memory to cherish..
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hate to break it to you, but you're too late mate... 3 years too late.