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K guess the subject not that long...
Till wat extend will u allow yr bf or gf to mix with his/her opposite sex friends..
Maybe let me start off... to me, i feel that allowing my gf to call or chat is okie.. Going out for meal or walk walk with a guy is okie to me but not ktv, clubbing or even deserted areas such as parks...
How abt u all?
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Originally posted by koshboi:K guess the subject not that long...
Till wat extend will u allow yr bf or gf to mix with his/her opposite sex friends..
Maybe let me start off... to me, i feel that allowing my gf to call or chat is okie.. Going out for meal or walk walk with a guy is okie to me but not ktv, clubbing or even deserted areas such as parks...
How abt u all?you and your stead how old?
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Originally posted by koshboi:K guess the subject not that long...
Till wat extend will u allow yr bf or gf to mix with his/her opposite sex friends..
Maybe let me start off... to me, i feel that allowing my gf to call or chat is okie.. Going out for meal or walk walk with a guy is okie to me but not ktv, clubbing or even deserted areas such as parks...
How abt u all?I guess for me, there's no point in restricting or placing restrictions on your bf or gf.
I don't believe guys will intentionally suprised their gfs by giving free fark to other girls cos they've been programmed to drop their pants and raise their flagpoles and plunder at will at any sightings of a vagina.
And I don't believe girls will intentionally suprised their bfs by providing free entry passes to other guys if that's not part of their job or lifestyle.
They do what they want, and I'll do what I must do.
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I am cool with her going out with other dudes.. i want her to socialise man. Always together become sien. I let her go out with her friends.. i go out with my friends.. so its cool. Coz i always got someone watch her for me so its o.k.. besides..she not so stupid to go out with a guy to some lonely park.. she has to think of her friend's health u know what i mean ?
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hmm.. i guess chatting n going out is pretty normal... but i dun think i can accept only 2 of them going out together, unless they share some kind of special friendship or something... but the more impt thing is that she comes clean with it, otherwise, it makes everything difficult to stomach..
juz a personal opinion.. i feel that by being someone else's bf/gf, itz only our responsibility to our partner that we draw a clear line the extend on how close we associate with other pple... we ought to know wat makes our partner uncomfortable (as each r/s is unique), and we need to exercise discretion accordingly...
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Originally posted by koshboi:K guess the subject not that long...
Till wat extend will u allow yr bf or gf to mix with his/her opposite sex friends..
Maybe let me start off... to me, i feel that allowing my gf to call or chat is okie.. Going out for meal or walk walk with a guy is okie to me but not ktv, clubbing or even deserted areas such as parks...
How abt u all?To the extend of your self-confidence. Guys who limit their own girlsfriends and disallow them to talk to other guys or go clubbing with other guys are simply wimps.
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BRAVO!!!! SOmetimes I wish my boy thinks like that... but he always say "it's not you i dont trust it's them!!" hehehe sigh what can I say... "I'm treating my friends (guys & gals) in front of you, the same way I treat them behind your back."
But yeah. in order for a relationship to work, is TRUST!!!!!
Originally posted by parn:I guess for me, there's no point in restricting or placing restrictions on your bf or gf.
I don't believe guys will intentionally suprised their gfs by giving free fark to other girls cos they've been programmed to drop their pants and raise their flagpoles and plunder at will at any sightings of a vagina.
And I don't believe girls will intentionally suprised their bfs by providing free entry passes to other guys if that's not part of their job or lifestyle.
They do what they want, and I'll do what I must do.
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Originally posted by koshboi:K guess the subject not that long...
Till wat extend will u allow yr bf or gf to mix with his/her opposite sex friends..
Maybe let me start off... to me, i feel that allowing my gf to call or chat is okie.. Going out for meal or walk walk with a guy is okie to me but not ktv, clubbing or even deserted areas such as parks...
How abt u all?So long as bf/gf know what they shld and should not do with the opposite gender friends, I dont see any problem in it or any restrictions need to be impose..
Cos if bf/gf wants to stray.. no point imposing restrictions oso..
I believe the main thing in any releationship is trust and honesty.
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