well its no wonder
Have you even wondered? How some ugly guys have super pretty girlfriends? Or how some jerks that abuses their girlfriends have girlfriends that love them so much? Or how some interacial relationship started? I most, if not all of them starts with rejection
This is the 213235347468967078456353th times this question came up.Originally posted by Big Bot:Sometimes, you ask a boy/girl out or message a boy/girl out and he/she doesn't reply do you all consider other things that might be hindering them before deciding its a reject? Sometimes, it really depends on the personality and workload of the person. A rejection might not be one and sometimes we might get the wrong idea.
For example:
You ask someone out, there's no reply, do you consider the following?
1 ) Busy, but doesn't know how to as replying busy might be seen as a form of reject if you don't know his/her schedule well.
2 ) Shy, sometimes he/she might not dare to reply or dare to go out with you alone as he/she is quite shy and doesn't dare show that he/she likes you.
3 ) Sometimes, you might not seen that person for a long time and you suddenly ask he/she out. He/she might be afraid of how the both of you have changed.
I think, sometimes, no reply might be better than a negative reply right? As least you can ponder... Sometimes, he or she even answer personal question such as "Where are you?" "What are you doing?" and yet won't go out with you? Don't you think there's a little thinking to be done.
I know reality is harsh but please do consider all possible senarios before giving up, sometimes you never really know. Asking for opinions here is not a really good thing as I can see any declining of sort results in people thinking its a rejection but they do not know that person's personality well enough to judge things clearly.
Have you even wondered? How some ugly guys have super pretty girlfriends? Or how some jerks that abuses their girlfriends have girlfriends that love them so much? Or how some interacial relationship started? I most, if not all of them starts with rejection.![]()
this is because it is part of the girls' genes, they have to be attracted to people like that, no choice. Girls don't go for looks.Originally posted by Big Bot:Have you even wondered? How some ugly guys have super pretty girlfriends? Or how some jerks that abuses their girlfriends have girlfriends that love them so much? Or how some interacial relationship started? I most, if not all of them starts with rejection.![]()
Your reality is harsh indeed.Originally posted by Big Bot:Sometimes, you ask a boy/girl out or message a boy/girl out and he/she doesn't reply do you all consider other things that might be hindering them before deciding its a reject? Sometimes, it really depends on the personality and workload of the person. A rejection might not be one and sometimes we might get the wrong idea.
For example:
You ask someone out, there's no reply, do you consider the following?
1 ) Busy, but doesn't know how to as replying busy might be seen as a form of reject if you don't know his/her schedule well.
2 ) Shy, sometimes he/she might not dare to reply or dare to go out with you alone as he/she is quite shy and doesn't dare show that he/she likes you.
3 ) Sometimes, you might not seen that person for a long time and you suddenly ask he/she out. He/she might be afraid of how the both of you have changed.
I think, sometimes, no reply might be better than a negative reply right? As least you can ponder... Sometimes, he or she even answer personal question such as "Where are you?" "What are you doing?" and yet won't go out with you? Don't you think there's a little thinking to be done.
I know reality is harsh but please do consider all possible senarios before giving up, sometimes you never really know. Asking for opinions here is not a really good thing as I can see any declining of sort results in people thinking its a rejection but they do not know that person's personality well enough to judge things clearly.
Have you even wondered? How some ugly guys have super pretty girlfriends? Or how some jerks that abuses their girlfriends have girlfriends that love them so much? Or how some interacial relationship started? I most, if not all of them starts with rejection.![]()
Originally posted by Big Bot:Sometimes, you ask a boy/girl out or message a boy/girl out and he/she doesn't reply do you all consider other things that might be hindering them before deciding its a reject? Sometimes, it really depends on the personality and workload of the person. A rejection might not be one and sometimes we might get the wrong idea.
For example:
You ask someone out, there's no reply, do you consider the following?
1 ) Busy, but doesn't know how to as replying busy might be seen as a form of reject if you don't know his/her schedule well.
2 ) Shy, sometimes he/she might not dare to reply or dare to go out with you alone as he/she is quite shy and doesn't dare show that he/she likes you.
3 ) Sometimes, you might not seen that person for a long time and you suddenly ask he/she out. He/she might be afraid of how the both of you have changed.
I think, sometimes, no reply might be better than a negative reply right? As least you can ponder... Sometimes, he or she even answer personal question such as "Where are you?" "What are you doing?" and yet won't go out with you? Don't you think there's a little thinking to be done.
I know reality is harsh but please do consider all possible senarios before giving up, sometimes you never really know. Asking for opinions here is not a really good thing as I can see any declining of sort results in people thinking its a rejection but they do not know that person's personality well enough to judge things clearly.
Have you even wondered? How some ugly guys have super pretty girlfriends? Or how some jerks that abuses their girlfriends have girlfriends that love them so much? Or how some interacial relationship started? I most, if not all of them starts with rejection.![]()
No matter what, it still works EVERYWAY and ANYWAY, because I do believe all those jerks/ugly/fatass/interracial/age relationships starts with a 999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 times of rejection before they are accepted.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Erm
Sorry to pour cold water, but at least for my group of girl friends, if we don't answer a person, it means we can't even be bothered to reply.
If you mean something to us, we'll at least bother to answer you with a "Sorry, Not available/Not free/busy".
Or, even a "Sorry, you're just Not my type".
But No answer? Well, we won't even waste the time on you, because if we tell you that you're Not our type, you'll just ask why to a question that we can't answer.Girls' perspective, at least from my group of friends. Paiseh
FeowFeow
Originally posted by Big Bot:Sometimes, you ask a boy/girl out or message a boy/girl out and he/she doesn't reply do you all consider other things that might be hindering them before deciding its a reject? Sometimes, it really depends on the personality and workload of the person. A rejection might not be one and sometimes we might get the wrong idea.
For example:
You ask someone out, there's no reply, do you consider the following?
1 ) Busy, but doesn't know how to as replying busy might be seen as a form of reject if you don't know his/her schedule well.
2 ) Shy, sometimes he/she might not dare to reply or dare to go out with you alone as he/she is quite shy and doesn't dare show that he/she likes you.
3 ) Sometimes, you might not seen that person for a long time and you suddenly ask he/she out. He/she might be afraid of how the both of you have changed.
I know reality is harsh but please do consider all possible senarios before giving up, sometimes you never really know. Asking for opinions here is not a really good thing as I can see any declining of sort results in people thinking its a rejection but they do not know that person's personality well enough to judge things clearly.
Wow, bro i tod tis another philosophical, boring ole' thread on life. But this one rely struck a chord...
I get discouraged easily & always wondered why i get rejected? Like when i msg this gal & she doesn't reply, i wld feel rely down... thinkin she doesn't like me.
Have you even wondered? How some ugly guys have super pretty girlfriends? Or how some jerks that abuses their girlfriends have girlfriends that love them so much? Or how some interacial relationship started? I most, if not all of them starts with rejection.
Yeah this is rely a F_U_C_K_E_D up but common phenonemon.... It rely IRKS me like crazy... why is heaven so unfair??!!!
Must i be a lying, cheating b-astard before i can find myself a decent, pretty devoted GF??
Being honest, humble & sincere seems to get me nowhere! Rely drives me to the DARK SIDE![]()
Yeah. Don't let it backfire..Originally posted by Big Bot:No matter what, it still works EVERYWAY and ANYWAY, because I do believe all those jerks/ugly/fatass/interracial/age relationships starts with a 999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 times of rejection before they are accepted.
All I want to say is, try not to give up so easily... keep trying till someone new comes along for you/her/him. As least you know you give it all and definately won't regret.
Originally posted by Big Bot:No matter what, it still works EVERYWAY and ANYWAY, because I do believe all those jerks/ugly/fatass/interracial/age relationships starts with a 999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999 times of rejection before they are accepted.
All I want to say is, try not to give up so easily... keep trying till someone new comes along for you/her/him. As least you know you give it all and definately won't regret.
I think you got it wrong... he doesnt mean continuos harrassment of that same girl but that he shouldnt let one rejection make him give up looking for loveOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Ohmigawd, so many 9999999999999999999999999999999999999 times?! I'm gonna seek protection order from some psychos out there
Sorry, I know it sounds cruel, but people should know when to stop
FeowFeow
Originally posted by DriftingGuy:I think you got it wrong... he doesnt mean continuos harrassment of that same girl but that he shouldnt let one rejection make him give up looking for love![]()