how long does it take for your other half to accept you

• twenty47

  1 Aug 05, 20:09

  officially as a BF/GF after you told them "i love/like you"?
• twenty47

  1 Aug 05, 20:23

  huh? all instant on one? no need to go through courtship?
• newmanmback

  1 Aug 05, 21:01

  depends on how fast and hard i get a how fast calm wet and at ease she gets
• BeEtHoVeN

  1 Aug 05, 21:04

  like about 10 days ?
  mine was like she need to affirm my feelings for her as she was hurt before
• twenty47

  1 Aug 05, 22:02

  Originally posted by newmanmback:

  depends on how fast and hard i get a how fast calm wet and at ease she gets

  huh? no idea what are you talking about...
• twenty47

  1 Aug 05, 22:26

  Originally posted by BeEtHoVeN:

  like about 10 days ?
  mine was like she need to affirm my feelings for her as she was hurt before

  mine told me she isn't ready to get into a r/s now it's ok anyway, i'll be with her till she is finally ready.
• SMAPLionHeart

  2 Aug 05, 00:36

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  mine told me she isn't ready to get into a r/s now it's ok anyway, i'll be with her till she is finally ready.

  same.
  
  
• starblue

  2 Aug 05, 08:07

  i told a guy i like him the other time. he took 2 months to reply. by then, i was doubting whether he really likes me or not. and i took 2 months to reply him. by then he also withdrew liao. then.... haiz.. our timing never correct one... that's why never really get attached before.. hahaha...
• FeowFeow

  2 Aug 05, 11:04

  Please.
  
  If a person doesn't reciprocate your feelings, No matter how many times you tell them you like/love them, they're just Not going to respond.
  
  You have to tell us whether the girl/guy is responsive or Not 1st.
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  officially as a BF/GF after you told them "i love/like you"?

• spencer99

  2 Aug 05, 11:22

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  officially as a BF/GF after you told them "i love/like you"?

  For me... after i told her i like her... i asked her to be my gf... she agreed.... and we are bf/gf..... she didn't say "i like you" back... i guess she is shy... but since she agree to be my gf it is "implied" right?
  
• Kenashi

  2 Aug 05, 11:29

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  mine told me she isn't ready to get into a r/s now it's ok anyway, i'll be with her till she is finally ready.

  mine worse, she told me that she just want to be friends forever.
  don't even give me a chance to woo her
• choco B

  2 Aug 05, 11:35

  !! Sorry to hear that..
  
  

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  mine worse, she told me that she just want to be friends forever.
  don't even give me a chance to woo her

• Kenashi

  2 Aug 05, 12:07

  Originally posted by choco B:

  !! Sorry to hear that..
  
  

  thanks for the concern but I will continue to wait for her n shower her with concern.
  I hope to move her with my sincerity.
• Devil1976

  2 Aug 05, 13:13

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  huh? all instant on one? no need to go through courtship?

  I don't like courtship. Rather spend quality time knowing each other.
• FeowFeow

  2 Aug 05, 16:41

  Dev,
  
  Erm
  
  Isn't spending quality time knowing each other = courtship?
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  I don't like courtship. Rather spend quality time knowing each other.

• SMAPLionHeart

  2 Aug 05, 16:51

  Originally posted by starblue:

  i told a guy i like him the other time. he took 2 months to reply. by then, i was doubting whether he really likes me or not. and i took 2 months to reply him. by then he also withdrew liao. then.... haiz.. our timing never correct one... that's why never really get attached before.. hahaha...

  It's not a sin to be ugly
  
  
• OldAhPek

  2 Aug 05, 16:54

  
  4 yrs consider long? lolx....
  so long, till i'm beginning to doubt myself
• Devil1976

  3 Aug 05, 11:40

  Originally posted by FeowFeow:

  Dev,
  
  Erm
  
  Isn't spending quality time knowing each other = courtship?
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Nope. Why invest the kinda time in things only to have nothing come out of it?
  
  Unless you're talking about friendship and love just happens to bloom out of it, that would be a different story altogether....
• FeowFeow

  3 Aug 05, 11:55

  Ah? You mean a girl isn't worth your time & energy to invest in her meh?
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Nope. Why invest the kinda time in things only to have nothing come out of it?
  
  Unless you're talking about friendship and love just happens to bloom out of it, that would be a different story altogether....

• Zelkeraious

  4 Aug 05, 10:21

  Originally posted by twenty47:

  mine told me she isn't ready to get into a r/s now it's ok anyway, i'll be with her till she is finally ready.

  Hmm... Have you ponder over ... that when she is finally ready, she thinks that the person is not you ... ?
• Devil1976

  4 Aug 05, 12:07

  Originally posted by FeowFeow:

  Ah? You mean a girl isn't worth your time & energy to invest in her meh?
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Worth only when in a relationship...
  
  She has got her worth, I've got mine... If we don't see the same way, it might just end up an empty effort chase..?