things are getting serious
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ok the girl that i like alot says that she don't love anyone now. she did say that there is a little feeling for me but then it's like not enough for her to fall in love, aka get into a relationship that kind of standard.
i told her love can be nurtured, and no couple started out loving each other fully at 100%.
what's holding her back now is that she is too logical and believes that she have to really love someone before commiting.
what to do now? can anyone advise? how to let her fall in love with me? is she correct that she have to love you deeply before getting into a r/s?
for your case, did you love your other 1/2 b4 getting into a r/s or starts to fall in love after u are in that r/s?
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and also, what do you think love is?
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where are all the aunties when u need them ...*sobsob
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Yes, love can be nurtured, but right now you may be bugging her to the extent of pissing her off. To put it bluntly, it seems she may not be interested in you or attracted to you, but does not want to hurt you with a point blank rejection.
If you have to love someone deeply in order to begin a relationship with him or her, then many couples wouldn't even come together in the first place.
Help yourself first, be a friend. Don't push it. Bide your time.
Don't think you could ever be 'just a friend' to her? Better let go then. -
"go with the flow"...
being overly anxious about being together with a person without knowing well how that person is doesnt do gud... its always better to let that person feel comfortable being with u and unless both are willing parties to engage in a r/s... is two way traffic but too much causes traffic jam.... -
Originally posted by twenty47:ok the girl that i like alot says that she don't love anyone now. she did say that there is a little feeling for me but then it's like not enough for her to fall in love, aka get into a relationship that kind of standard.
i told her love can be nurtured, and no couple started out loving each other fully at 100%.
what's holding her back now is that she is too logical and believes that she have to really love someone before commiting.
what to do now? can anyone advise? how to let her fall in love with me? is she correct that she have to love you deeply before getting into a r/s?
for your case, did you love your other 1/2 b4 getting into a r/s or starts to fall in love after u are in that r/s?
help help help!
What's 100%?
Only a phenomenon.
What she meant is that: She likes you, but you are not giving her enough reason to enter a relationship with you. Something is still missing and it is up to you to find it.
Have you encounter a situation when a salesman talks ALOT of stuff, in hoping that you would buy his product. You are interested, but not exactly convince to take out your cash to purchase them. He keep talking and talking and talking... but fail to strike the correct chord in you. You listen everything, but eventually still keep that cash inside your wallet.
P.S: Work harder?
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thank you! thank you! got it.
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hey, what do you mean i'm an aunty???
she just's saying you got to work harder... no one is "logical" when it comes to love... you hit the right buttons, you'll land yourself a girl. but you have to find those buttons yourself.. aunty here is not going to teach you how.
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hmmm... i dunno if this will work in real life.. but saving her from an oncoming bus and hence landing urself in ICU should do the trick.
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aunties? i think..... the best 'aunties' here would be Tuatau n Yunhaier...but I dont think they are females...i may be wrong
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Love can be nutured, but it cannot be forced.Originally posted by twenty47:ok the girl that i like alot says that she don't love anyone now. she did say that there is a little feeling for me but then it's like not enough for her to fall in love, aka get into a relationship that kind of standard.
i told her love can be nurtured, and no couple started out loving each other fully at 100%.
what's holding her back now is that she is too logical and believes that she have to really love someone before commiting.
what to do now? can anyone advise? how to let her fall in love with me? is she correct that she have to love you deeply before getting into a r/s?
for your case, did you love your other 1/2 b4 getting into a r/s or starts to fall in love after u are in that r/s?
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take one step at time......
take what she says seriously...let her know u are sincere
remember every little things she likes or hates...
go all out to help her whenever she needs it..
let her feel relaxed and safe whenever she is with you.
hope it helps.
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Actions speaks louder than words.
To convince her, u need to show her how caring u are- the little things u do etc -
i think the problem lies with you..........
you are not able to accept the fact that she rejected you and that you dont get what you want.
just accept that we cannot win all in our lives and someone we have to let go.
just let go -
how to explain what goes inside the mind of a girl? 90% daydreaming 10% realistic...nabeh..best thing for the sucker is totally ignore the chick & walk away from her...skarli you tell a girl she's lower than whale shi.t she'll re-evaluate her outlook of herself & you...she'll think, "fark, why is the guy so arrogant?" this perversely makes him more interesting in her eyes...Originally posted by Devil1976:Love can be nutured, but it cannot be forced.
should tell him to b.itch slap her a few times to wake up her idea of ideal romance...
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How old is the gal??? Been in any relationship before???...... maybe she is just waiting for her "Knight in shining armour" to knock her off her feet.....Originally posted by twenty47:ok the girl that i like alot says that she don't love anyone now. she did say that there is a little feeling for me but then it's like not enough for her to fall in love, aka get into a relationship that kind of standard.
i told her love can be nurtured, and no couple started out loving each other fully at 100%.
what's holding her back now is that she is too logical and believes that she have to really love someone before commiting.
what to do now? can anyone advise? how to let her fall in love with me? is she correct that she have to love you deeply before getting into a r/s?
for your case, did you love your other 1/2 b4 getting into a r/s or starts to fall in love after u are in that r/s?
help help help!
Most young gals will love for that to happen..... which gal dun???..... been there done that !!!
But she is at least not rejecting you....so means you still got chance....
Work harder to win over her affections....gals can be rather Xing ruan when affairs of the heart are concern..... she dun dislike you is already to your advantage.......
GO ! GO! GO!
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Be sweet to her as sincerely as you can. Don't keep your hopes too high. Just be yourself. Fate always plays weird games but when you least expect it, you'll be blessed. Believe me. Happened to me. Different situation though.
