wat do u mean....wat mistake have i done..bein wit S?Originally posted by www:u know what you want, now it all about executing it.
divorce need not be done with mutual agreement.
u have made a mistake, u should decide if you want to continue with this mistake or learn from it.
Without mutual consent will take 4 years..... talk to your hubby to convince him to let you go.... dunOriginally posted by www:u know what you want, now it all about executing it.
divorce need not be done with mutual agreement.
u have made a mistake, u should decide if you want to continue with this mistake or learn from it.
already did...our parents wld always interfere...Originally posted by pinkygal76:Without mutual consent will take 4 years..... talk to your hubby to convince him to let you go.... dun
waste 4 years of yr precious time....
if i wanna get a divorce...it's not bcoz of S....Originally posted by gypises:ashtina82,
Let's put aside the issue that u wanna divorce ur husband.
I would like to ask u... How well u know S ? Juz becoz u are not happy in ur relationship with ur husband & S comes to ur life and sweet talk to u, u wanna be 2gether with him?
Are u sure that history will not repeat itself?
I took up all d courage & strength i have...to tell dem i wanna divorce...Originally posted by jOhO:sometimes, we don't need to wish for a happy life.
we just need the strength and courage to make certain decisions.
and then MAYBE happiness will fall on our laps.
unfortunately the converse is true too. unhappiness will not fall OFF our laps just by itself.
so as www mentioned, you have decided.Originally posted by ashtina82:I took up all d courage & strength i have...to tell dem i wanna divorce...
all i got was hostility...lots of verbal words...especially frm my mum
i dun understand....She knws d sHiT my hubby does....
& i'm her daughter....y can't she let me b happy....
thx....Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:I think a woman who is old enough to be married and have a children
should be old enough to make her own decisions regardless of what
other things are there
Right now what you need is not ANOTHER candidate for a husband (you already have one) but to solve the problem you face with your OWN husband. As for whether S will be able to fulfill your expectations, well, nobody will know would they? And if things don't work out, who do you have to blame?
I suggest it is about time you think very very carefully what you want with your own life. You are old enough to make a decision of your own
so that whatever the consequences, you can't blame it on anyone else.
Even if your decision is not to divorce COS your parents keep trying to influence you - it is your decision to be influenced. You can't blame them for it anymore.
So be strong AND cool for your baby's sake. Don't jump into things you are not sure of. The floating log you think will save you, might just be a crocodile. Maybe you should just learn how to swim.
Wat if i already filed....but he doesn't approve of it...Originally posted by jOhO:so as www mentioned, you have decided.
well, straight to the point, if u haven't executed your decision, u haven't been strong enough.
so i do hope you gather what u need to go thru with this.
u of course know that you can still file for divorce without his consent (or ur parents' for that matter), right?
I can't bear to do it....guess it's true...Originally posted by shinta:hmm
the next time he hits u, go file a police report. Family violence.
with that as teh case, u dun hav to wait the full 3 years to divorce.
i'm no expert.. but i believe there will be a seperation period of 3 years first, then a divorce.Originally posted by ashtina82:Wat if i already filed....but he doesn't approve of it...
wat happen next...
ok....thx...dat will do...Originally posted by jOhO:i'm no expert.. but i believe there will be a seperation period of 3 years first, then a divorce.
and as shinta mentioned, next time he hits u, give it to him nicely. as in show him the police report.
better still.. install spy cams in your home to tape him being a bastard. see how he run.
u have no guts to fight for your happiness? or.. wat?Originally posted by ashtina82:I can't bear to do it....guess it's true...
I have no guts.....![]()
in other words,i give up....in everythin....Originally posted by jOhO:u have no guts to fight for your happiness? or.. wat?
Originally posted by ashtina82:in other words,i give up....in everythin....
hahaha....Originally posted by choco B:I think you need a change in attitude, starting with your signature
Maybe that's the problem, you're not mad enough.
if u've given up u wouldn't even bother posting here.Originally posted by ashtina82:in other words,i give up....in everythin....
i juz needed advice.....i'm at lost....Originally posted by jOhO:if u've given up u wouldn't even bother posting here.