I'm a bit lost in your story...so in short, you did somehow managed to let her know that you liked her before. But then....do you really expect her to make the first move? Why didn't you make the first move after that???Originally posted by rammstein619:As some of you might already know , I'll be expecting some competition from a friend a mine in wooing a girl we both have known for a couple of years. She's currently taking her O levels this year....
I don't have the power of gold and I believe that she is someone whom is worth wooing....
Since her first paper are exactly a month away , I thought I would do something special for her , at least make my presence known towards her first. I was thinking of buying a simple good luck greeting card for her before she sits for her first paper. However I feel that I'm lacking in ideas to make my presence known to her. Obviously somewhere along the way , I would also be hinting to her that I'm back alive and kicking because she knows that I liked her a couple of years back but the entire thing simply died down naturally as both of us did not want to make the first move....
So any ideas?
I get what you meant.Originally posted by rammstein619:Well let's just say I was too shy to make the first move at that time and besides even if I had the guts to make the first move , I was busy preparing for my O levels while she was busy preparing for her N levels , so I did not want to go after her at that point in time.
Anyways she's way smarter than me so I don't wish to act professor in front of her...hahahahax
What I would be looking at is doing something before the start of her papers so that at least I can make her acknowledge my presence or better still , my advances....
OMG!!! JUST LEAVE HER ALONE!Originally posted by Sekundes:A very simple method,
Call her up one day for a very short chat.
Just talk to her a few mins or so.. maybe ask her when she's having her first paper.
Then Wish her luck with a simple sms on that day.
AND NEVER ASK HER HOWS THE PAPER UNLESS SHE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT IT.
TALK ABOUT ANYTHING EXCEPT THE PAPER.
Thats all. ^^, Good Luck
That was 2 years ago when we both were in sec 3Originally posted by Entic:let me get something rite here
she is taking her O level now? which mean she is ard 16 or 17 this yr?
then u said she know your feeling couple yr back then tat time she is how old ?
Hmm...fragile in what sense? Care to elaborate on it?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:red alert...
you say during O level...haha....becareful wor...periods before and after O level's are extremely fragile...you must know to handle it rightly....
fragile in the sense...cos Os period...the girl tend to be emotionally dependent..looking for someone to depend on in this stressful period...therefore if you ask to go steady with her...chances are it won't last since it might be due to impulse that she agreed...Originally posted by rammstein619:Hmm...fragile in what sense? Care to elaborate on it?![]()
~WAH...Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Haha! I was wooed once by this guy...also during my exams period. He knew I had to miss my favourite programs on t.v because of exams so...
he taped all e programs I missed, & painstakingly "slotted" himself in some of e commercial periods keke....VERY SWEET ~
I still duno how he did it hehe...hilariously touching ~![]()
hmpt...that guy is damn nice to u...a great idea....now it much easier wif technology...Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Haha! I was wooed once by this guy...also during my exams period. He knew I had to miss my favourite programs on t.v because of exams so...
he taped all e programs I missed, & painstakingly "slotted" himself in some of e commercial periods keke....VERY SWEET ~
I still duno how he did it hehe...hilariously touching ~![]()
Originally posted by R3SsH|n:But her birthday was last month considering the fact that I've already bought her a present and if I buy a present for her now , won't that be a little bit too often?
that she needs..chances are she will take notice of you...
give her surprises...small presents...try to make her feel [b]SECURE...thats the important thing...let her know that you are always there...yet don't be an ass and keep bugging her all the time...she needs her space...you have all the time in the world after Os...
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