Waiting....
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Just a thought that has always.. always been on my mind....
To wait.. might not give u the outcome which u hoped for.... but if u didnt wait... then... the outcome which u hoped for... comfirm will not happen... 
was wondering if anyone has any opinions to this?
Some say "waiting is foolish... y not move on and seek a better one?"
... but if u choose to give up the wait... then... could it be tat.. u r actually missing out on the one more chance tat could make it all happen? IF.. tat one person is really worth the wait... vibes so strong which u felt tat he/she could be the very one... then...... wait?? -
sometimes that person that you love can never be replaced ***
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Then you should ask: What exactly do you want to achieve?Originally posted by tir4misu:Just a thought that has always.. always been on my mind.... To wait.. might not give u the outcome which u hoped for.... but if u didnt wait... then... the outcome which u hoped for... comfirm will not happen...
was wondering if anyone has any opinions to this?
Some say "waiting is foolish... y not move on and seek a better one?"
... but if u choose to give up the wait... then... could it be tat.. u r actually missing out on the one more chance tat could make it all happen? IF.. tat one person is really worth the wait... vibes so strong which u felt tat he/she could be the very one... then...... wait??
Any other pro active actions other than waiting? -
If forever theres only waiting without actions, there will never be an outcome.
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Hmm...I used to feel that way...actually last time I was very convinced he was the one for me, so I waited, and waited and waited...for the day when he would come to love me...
But it never happened
So I guess you can wait but do keep your options open...dun forego other opportunities just because you can't let go of something that might not happen in the future... -
Every choice made has opportunity cost.
The point is not to regret your decision and appreciate whatever outcome you get. -
We have spoken alot about this yesterday, during our shopping spree, so I will skip lengthy post.Originally posted by tir4misu:Just a thought that has always.. always been on my mind.... To wait.. might not give u the outcome which u hoped for.... but if u didnt wait... then... the outcome which u hoped for... comfirm will not happen...
was wondering if anyone has any opinions to this?
Some say "waiting is foolish... y not move on and seek a better one?"
... but if u choose to give up the wait... then... could it be tat.. u r actually missing out on the one more chance tat could make it all happen? IF.. tat one person is really worth the wait... vibes so strong which u felt tat he/she could be the very one... then...... wait?? Time will make you see everything.
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You do the 'MATHS'Originally posted by tir4misu:Just a thought that has always.. always been on my mind.... To wait.. might not give u the outcome which u hoped for.... but if u didnt wait... then... the outcome which u hoped for... comfirm will not happen...
was wondering if anyone has any opinions to this?
Some say "waiting is foolish... y not move on and seek a better one?"
... but if u choose to give up the wait... then... could it be tat.. u r actually missing out on the one more chance tat could make it all happen? IF.. tat one person is really worth the wait... vibes so strong which u felt tat he/she could be the very one... then...... wait?? 
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Rubs chin...Originally posted by Yunhaier:We have spoken alot about this yesterday, during our shopping spree, so I will skip lengthy post. Time will make you see everything.
Cheers
This guy is one of your understudy?
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hahhaha hmmm well.... u could put it tat way lolzOriginally posted by M©+square:Rubs chin...
This guy is one of your understudy?
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Hmm....Originally posted by tir4misu:hahhaha hmmm well.... u could put it tat way lolz
so how much did you learn from yun? -
well... of course.. its not just a wait wait and do nutting wait... but maybe stuff like maintaining friendship ties... be there for him/her and such when there is a need to...Originally posted by Tier:If forever theres only waiting without actions, there will never be an outcome.
then maybe... 3-4yrs down the road... who knows eh?... be there when he/she ever nids u... -
maybe.... and like choco B said... nvr regret decisions made....Originally posted by rainee:Hmm...I used to feel that way...actually last time I was very convinced he was the one for me, so I waited, and waited and waited...for the day when he would come to love me...
But it never happened
So I guess you can wait but do keep your options open...dun forego other opportunities just because you can't let go of something that might not happen in the future...
wonder if its true.... some says that if a person aims to wait for a person to long.. he/she tends to close their doors for others... -
how much??.... hmmm i guess i cant use a normal standard of measure to explain that... but thru talks and all... and after some experiences and his explainations... i felt tat i grew up alot ha~ learnt to see things wif diff. perspective...Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm....
so how much did you learn from yun?
ya... some credit to yun hahahhaha -
Understudy sounds so funny... known friend lar.Originally posted by M©+square:Rubs chin...
This guy is one of your understudy?
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I will send my bills to your house.Originally posted by tir4misu:how much??.... hmmm i guess i cant use a normal standard of measure to explain that... but thru talks and all... and after some experiences and his explainations... i felt tat i grew up alot ha~ learnt to see things wif diff. perspective...
ya... some credit to yun hahahhaha
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if he's meant to be yours, he will be yours
whatever you do, however you do it, he will be.
if he isnt meant to be, all that waiting is not going to make it be.
and you would have wasted all that time waiting. -
wat if wait untill dying .how.
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first off... im a guy =) haha and... how would u actually know if someone is meant to be urs or not? if u think its not.. so u give up the wait... but doesnt tat mean giving up the chance as well??Originally posted by nuchio:if he's meant to be yours, he will be yours
whatever you do, however you do it, he will be.
if he isnt meant to be, all that waiting is not going to make it be.
and you would have wasted all that time waiting.
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I agreed that waiting is foolish cos waiting has to be mutual but nobody will mutually do it.Originally posted by tir4misu:Just a thought that has always.. always been on my mind.... To wait.. might not give u the outcome which u hoped for.... but if u didnt wait... then... the outcome which u hoped for... comfirm will not happen...
was wondering if anyone has any opinions to this?
Some say "waiting is foolish... y not move on and seek a better one?"
... but if u choose to give up the wait... then... could it be tat.. u r actually missing out on the one more chance tat could make it all happen? IF.. tat one person is really worth the wait... vibes so strong which u felt tat he/she could be the very one... then...... wait??
IF that person is worth the wait as he/she is the ONE for you, then ask yourself this question. Are you also the ONE for he/she? Is he/she also treating you as the ONE for him/her when waiting is suggested?
Common excuses such as "I'm too young to start a relationship now" to "I wanna concentrate on my studies" to "I wanna build up my career first" are all clear signs of NO and it actually meant "You're still not good enough for me yet, maybe next time ok?"
Requests to wait could also be interpreted as "Hey...please don't catch up with me and do better than me in your relationship-learning studies-career life. So please wait here for me while I'll do better than you and find someone better than you so that you'll get my hint stronger and get away from me"
If both liked each other, then there's no need to wait further...the love deal would've already been closed and the relationship would've began.
So don't wait for anything as nobody will wait for no one...cos eventually it's the person who actually waited will be the one who'll get all the heartpain and sadness at the receiving end of this cruel waiting game.
Don't wait if someone else better comes along, keep your options open while waiting.
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u can wait, but pls set a time limit, eg. 6 months.
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Originally posted by parn:I agreed that waiting is foolish cos waiting has to be mutual but nobody will mutually do it.
IF that person is worth the wait as he/she is the ONE for you, then ask yourself this question. Are you also the ONE for he/she? Is he/she also treating you as the ONE for him/her when waiting is suggested?
Common excuses such as "I'm too young to start a relationship now" to "I wanna concentrate on my studies" to "I wanna build up my career first" are all clear signs of NO and it actually meant "You're still not good enough for me yet, maybe next time ok?"
Requests to wait could also be interpreted as "Hey...please don't catch up with me and do better than me in your relationship-learning studies-career life. So please wait here for me while I'll do better than you and find someone better than you so that you'll get my hint stronger and get away from me"
If both liked each other, then there's no need to wait further...the love deal would've already been closed and the relationship would've began.
So don't wait for anything as nobody will wait for no one...cos eventually it's the person who actually waited will be the one who'll get all the heartpain and sadness at the receiving end of this cruel waiting game.
Don't wait if someone else better comes along, keep your options open while waiting.
Good luck. Are you also the ONE for he/she? 
this has nvr come cross my mind...
.............*ponders*........
think im gonna haf a long nite tonite again.....
thx.... hlps me re-evaluate my tots -
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hey?? grew alot??Originally posted by tir4misu:how much??.... hmmm i guess i cant use a normal standard of measure to explain that... but thru talks and all... and after some experiences and his explainations... i felt tat i grew up alot ha~ learnt to see things wif diff. perspective...
ya... some credit to yun hahahhaha
well i guess you still growing.. lol..
look at wat you've done to yourself on sat!!
That will be the one and the last time you gonna get into such sh!t
again.. ok??
this is not the right way to do it.. If you think you have grown up
then please know your path.. do things you think is right..
Regret?? i believe everyone here.. at least once in a lifetime, regretted once too..
Don't get too depressed over it.. though i may not know exactly wat happen..
But i should be able to guess lah.. huh.. =P
Boy.. Wat you said on that day... hopefully you can remember.. and i hope that
you can do it.. alright.. You'll be fine...
Waiting or not to wait.. i will not say.. you should be the one that decides whether you should..
all you need actually is to hear our opinions.. but after all you will still be the one deciding.. not us!
Cheers..
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Wo deng ni, ban nian wei qi, yu qi jiu hen hen ba ni wang ji.Originally posted by browniebaobao:u can wait, but pls set a time limit, eg. 6 months.