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  • wadstat123's Avatar
    11 posts since Oct '05
    • I really regretted a dicision i made yesterday. Both my GF and I had our first time. We didn't actually do it. It was only a few seconds. I penetrated her 2-3 times. Before that we were heavy petting. After that few seconds we stopped.. No ejaculation wadso ever. We felt really bad. It was ouyr first and our last. I really regretted the decision we made. Now my Gf is really afraid. We did this 3 days after her period. What are the chances of her getting pregnent. I was told that 7 days after a girl's period are the safest. But we didn't really have sex. She's very worried and sad. What can i do. I noe it was a wrong decision. I really need help.

      What are her chances of getting preg and wad can i do to cheer her up. I really love her and dun wish to see her in this state. plz help. Crying or Very sad

  • starblue's Avatar
    21,973 posts since Jun '04
    • why go into it in the first place? dun tell me you forced it on her just because "you couldnt stop" after the heavy petting... -_-"" how typical of guys...

      anyway, you wun be able to tell anything before her next period hits (or rather, if it doesnt hit at all). so tell her that there is no point in worrying about it now.

      on another note, IF you really did force her into it, do try to keep away from heavier intimacies for the time being. i think the girl is the conserevative kind.

  • sgboy2004's Avatar
    43,907 posts since Dec '02
  • BlUe G@rF|eLd's Avatar
    1,844 posts since Aug '05
  • wadstat123's Avatar
    11 posts since Oct '05
    • Haiz... no it wasn't force... it was 2 sided... but after tat we realised we shouldn't have done it. Haiz... She's afraid.. So am I.. What are the chances of she getting preg. Really worried now... Haiz... Sad

  • wadstat123's Avatar
    11 posts since Oct '05
  • Shad_666's Avatar
    63 posts since Oct '05
    • Actually, the 7 days BEFORE a girl's period are the safest. If she's on a regular 28-day cycle, her ovulation will be on day 14, where day 1 is the start of her period. The egg will be alive for 24 hours, but your sperm can live inside her for a max of 5 days.

      So, if you take 14 days, plus when you penetrated her:

      DDDDDDDDDDDDDO
      ________P

      You're still in the "safe" zone, so you shouldn't worry.

      And the best place to learn about your gf's fertility cycle:

      www.google.com

  • seraphsigma's Avatar
    25 posts since Oct '03
    • What is done is done. Pray that she doesn't get pregnant. Anyway if you can't stop yourself from having sex when you're engaged in heavy petting, then don't even start at all. See her virginity as a form of respect to her, maybe that will stop you...?

      But I advice you to refrain from such actions again... Dangerous and scary.

  • wadstat123's Avatar
    11 posts since Oct '05
    • thnx for your info. Safest but there's still a possibility.. So i'll pray hard. It's really big mistake both of us made. Sad She's still afraid.. Is there any way in which i can cheer her up. As i said.. it's a mistake. But ireally love her still.. I dun wan her to be sad every morning she wakes up.

  • mistyblue's Avatar
    11,236 posts since May '04
  • Simple_Bear's Avatar
    15,180 posts since Feb '05
    • Originally posted by mistyblue:
      There's no turning back now!
      Be the responsible man!

      I agree with mistyblue...

      If it so happens tt U all gt a child...

      Be a man and take responsibility for Ur actions...

  • UandMe's Avatar
    1,416 posts since Oct '02
  • starlightz's Avatar
    109 posts since Jan '05
    • Originally posted by wadstat123:
      I really regretted a dicision i made yesterday. Both my GF and I had our first time. We didn't actually do it. It was only a few seconds. I penetrated her 2-3 times. Before that we were heavy petting. After that few seconds we stopped.. No ejaculation wadso ever. We felt really bad. It was ouyr first and our last. I really regretted the decision we made. Now my Gf is really afraid. We did this 3 days after her period. What are the chances of her getting pregnent. I was told that 7 days after a girl's period are the safest. But we didn't really have sex. She's very worried and sad. What can i do. I noe it was a wrong decision. I really need help.

      What are her chances of getting preg and wad can i do to cheer her up. I really love her and dun wish to see her in this state. plz help. Crying or Very sad

      u cfm nvr ejaculate?? u reminded me of me n my gf last night... we have been heavy petting each other for the past weeks, last night we nearly lost ctrl and did it, we were both virgin.. but luckily we din do anything, but i know as long as u din ejaculate, shd be alright..

      stick to heavy petting lo, like my gf.. sometime she knows i want it so she did those so call hand job on me..

  • HafizulKMS's Avatar
    472 posts since Nov '04
  • alfagal's Avatar
    14,838 posts since Sep '05
    • Originally posted by wadstat123:
      it's another 3 weeks to her nxt period.. Is there anyway we can tell earlier? Sad

      Pregnancy Test Kit, kiddo....

  • alexkusu's Avatar
    37,982 posts since Jan '05
    • Whether u ejaculate is not the question. She still CAN get pregnant. For further details, ask renoreal.

  • Dreams can turn into nightmares... lol
    BadzMaro's Avatar
    20,299 posts since Apr '04
    • another scum… sometimes i wonder u guys bitching n complaining… if so worry.. THEN DONT DO IT ! Read instructions carefully before doing anything. Its like some dude forcing his donger into ur ass…u tell me u like it or not.

  • mink77's Avatar
    73 posts since Apr '05
  • wadstat123's Avatar
    11 posts since Oct '05
    • Yess Yess.. I really deserve the scolding.. Sad I really love her still and told her not to worry. She went to catch a movie with her friends today. It was a both sided thing and we promised each other tat we won't do it again. and confirm no ejaculation. It's a really a huge mistake we made.

  • Quinsy's Avatar
    9,221 posts since Sep '04
  • seraphsigma's Avatar
    25 posts since Oct '03
    • premature ejaculation = chance of pregnancy...

      pregnancy kit... and pray hard... and be responsible...

  • mumof2's Avatar
    69 posts since Sep '05
    • Originally posted by sgboy2004:
      wat's done is done, just hope it will be a girl or a boy lor

      Laughing Laughing Laughing

  • Striker83's Avatar
    92 posts since Jul '03
  • seow's Avatar
    12,133 posts since Dec '04
    • Originally posted by Quinsy:
      No ejaculation = no sperm = no chance of pregnancy.

      May still leak out....
      Good luck to the poster and may you never do anything like this again....

  • mumof2's Avatar
    69 posts since Sep '05
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