Regret
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I really regretted a dicision i made yesterday. Both my GF and I had our first time. We didn't actually do it. It was only a few seconds. I penetrated her 2-3 times. Before that we were heavy petting. After that few seconds we stopped.. No ejaculation wadso ever. We felt really bad. It was ouyr first and our last. I really regretted the decision we made. Now my Gf is really afraid. We did this 3 days after her period. What are the chances of her getting pregnent. I was told that 7 days after a girl's period are the safest. But we didn't really have sex. She's very worried and sad. What can i do. I noe it was a wrong decision. I really need help.
What are her chances of getting preg and wad can i do to cheer her up. I really love her and dun wish to see her in this state. plz help.
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why go into it in the first place? dun tell me you forced it on her just because "you couldnt stop" after the heavy petting... -_-"" how typical of guys...
anyway, you wun be able to tell anything before her next period hits (or rather, if it doesnt hit at all). so tell her that there is no point in worrying about it now.
on another note, IF you really did force her into it, do try to keep away from heavier intimacies for the time being. i think the girl is the conserevative kind. -
wat's done is done, just hope it will be a girl or a boy lor
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Gong Xi GOng Xi!!! Need recommendation on diapers??
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Haiz... no it wasn't force... it was 2 sided... but after tat we realised we shouldn't have done it. Haiz... She's afraid.. So am I.. What are the chances of she getting preg. Really worried now... Haiz...
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it's another 3 weeks to her nxt period.. Is there anyway we can tell earlier?
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Actually, the 7 days BEFORE a girl's period are the safest. If she's on a regular 28-day cycle, her ovulation will be on day 14, where day 1 is the start of her period. The egg will be alive for 24 hours, but your sperm can live inside her for a max of 5 days.
So, if you take 14 days, plus when you penetrated her:
DDDDDDDDDDDDDO
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You're still in the "safe" zone, so you shouldn't worry.
And the best place to learn about your gf's fertility cycle:
www.google.com -
What is done is done. Pray that she doesn't get pregnant. Anyway if you can't stop yourself from having sex when you're engaged in heavy petting, then don't even start at all. See her virginity as a form of respect to her, maybe that will stop you...?
But I advice you to refrain from such actions again... Dangerous and scary. -
thnx for your info. Safest but there's still a possibility.. So i'll pray hard. It's really big mistake both of us made. She's still afraid.. Is there any way in which i can cheer her up. As i said.. it's a mistake. But ireally love her still.. I dun wan her to be sad every morning she wakes up.
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There's no turning back now!
Be the responsible man! -
I agree with mistyblue...Originally posted by mistyblue:There's no turning back now!
Be the responsible man!
If it so happens tt U all gt a child...
Be a man and take responsibility for Ur actions... -
from ur description, the risk shd be very low... so dun worry.
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u cfm nvr ejaculate?? u reminded me of me n my gf last night... we have been heavy petting each other for the past weeks, last night we nearly lost ctrl and did it, we were both virgin.. but luckily we din do anything, but i know as long as u din ejaculate, shd be alright..Originally posted by wadstat123:I really regretted a dicision i made yesterday. Both my GF and I had our first time. We didn't actually do it. It was only a few seconds. I penetrated her 2-3 times. Before that we were heavy petting. After that few seconds we stopped.. No ejaculation wadso ever. We felt really bad. It was ouyr first and our last. I really regretted the decision we made. Now my Gf is really afraid. We did this 3 days after her period. What are the chances of her getting pregnent. I was told that 7 days after a girl's period are the safest. But we didn't really have sex. She's very worried and sad. What can i do. I noe it was a wrong decision. I really need help.
What are her chances of getting preg and wad can i do to cheer her up. I really love her and dun wish to see her in this state. plz help.
stick to heavy petting lo, like my gf.. sometime she knows i want it so she did those so call hand job on me.. -
2 days after period?
90% kena.
You like boy or girl leh? -
Pregnancy Test Kit, kiddo....Originally posted by wadstat123:it's another 3 weeks to her nxt period.. Is there anyway we can tell earlier? -
Whether u ejaculate is not the question. She still CAN get pregnant. For further details, ask renoreal.
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another scum... sometimes i wonder u guys bitching n complaining... if so worry.. THEN DONT DO IT ! Read instructions carefully before doing anything. Its like some dude forcing his donger into ur ass...u tell me u like it or not.
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no worries mate. u'll be fine.
but next time, pls apply safety precaution. -
Yess Yess.. I really deserve the scolding.. I really love her still and told her not to worry. She went to catch a movie with her friends today. It was a both sided thing and we promised each other tat we won't do it again. and confirm no ejaculation. It's a really a huge mistake we made.
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No ejaculation = no sperm = no chance of pregnancy.
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premature ejaculation = chance of pregnancy...
pregnancy kit... and pray hard... and be responsible... -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:wat's done is done, just hope it will be a girl or a boy lor
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just curious.. how old r u and ur gf?
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May still leak out....Originally posted by Quinsy:No ejaculation = no sperm = no chance of pregnancy.
Good luck to the poster and may you never do anything like this again.... -
Congrats, who knows - it may be twins! Cool!!