How to ask someone out
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we never talk face to face or even on phone before. just sms and chat on net. how am i suppose to ask her out? in what manner? what to do when we are out if i succeed?
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start by talking on the phone first..makes it easier before facing her directly..and after a few conversations ask her via phone..
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Well....u also need luck
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ok i admit i am a introvert like she said but i really didn't have the courage to call her and sort. i am scare that i will not talk properly when i were to call and talk to her, it might be weird and the situation will be so embarassing...
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if u cant even call her, wad makes u think u can face her?
take it slow dude... really, try a phone call first. -
but what can i talk about when i call her? need help badly now...Originally posted by starblue:if u cant even call her, wad makes u think u can face her?
take it slow dude... really, try a phone call first. -
talk about her.Originally posted by Hocklez:but what can i talk about when i call her? need help badly now... here are some questions u can ask to prompt her to talk. that way, u wun have to.
1) do u have pets?? wad pets u like to have?
2) any plans for the hols?
3) i heard gals are (insert wadever u wanna kanow here), is it true?
4) did u watch HP4???
5) hey.. do u like lilies? (no matter wad she says, just say, oh, i thought you sound like a lilies sort of gal. then see where the conversation goes) -
and oh. try to keep the first phone chat less than an hour. or just try to end it whenever u feel u are running out of things to say. dun have to force it. if u called her liao, then gets so nervous u dun even dare to ask her those questions, just tell her, "gee... before i called u i mentally rehearsed wad i wanted to say to you....but... but... hehe.... i'm kinda nervous now."
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can i call u?Originally posted by starblue:talk about her. here are some questions u can ask to prompt her to talk. that way, u wun have to.
1) do u have pets?? wad pets u like to have?
2) any plans for the hols?
3) i heard gals are (insert wadever u wanna kanow here), is it true?
4) did u watch HP4???
5) hey.. do u like lilies? (no matter wad she says, just say, oh, i thought you sound like a lilies sort of gal. then see where the conversation goes)
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hmm, call her now and see how it goes?Originally posted by starblue:talk about her. here are some questions u can ask to prompt her to talk. that way, u wun have to.
1) do u have pets?? wad pets u like to have?
2) any plans for the hols?
3) i heard gals are (insert wadever u wanna kanow here), is it true?
4) did u watch HP4???
5) hey.. do u like lilies? (no matter wad she says, just say, oh, i thought you sound like a lilies sort of gal. then see where the conversation goes) -
actually some girls are rather talkative..soo it makes it alot easier..Originally posted by Hocklez:but what can i talk about when i call her? need help badly now... -
should i call and talk to her now? see how it goes?
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ah... dude.. now wad time??Originally posted by Hocklez:should i call and talk to her now? see how it goes? -
Originally posted by stellazio:can i call u? u need jie jie to be your AA?? wad is bothering you, little brother?
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if the girl is the same age as him,its holidays now..Originally posted by starblue:ah... dude.. now wad time?? -
arrr my elder sister cockroach..finally you acknowledge me..Originally posted by starblue: u need jie jie to be your AA?? wad is bothering you, little brother? -
YesOriginally posted by Hocklez:should i call and talk to her now? see how it goes? 
Give it a shot dude, and all e best -
Now almost sleep time?Originally posted by starblue:ah... dude.. now wad time??
Should not try too late also wad
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actually the closer to her bedtime the better..can wish goodnight,sweet dreams etc..Originally posted by deathscythe99:Now almost sleep time?
Should not try too late also wad -
actually, at night not good time for first phone call... dun make me elaborate.Originally posted by stellazio:actually the closer to her bedtime the better..can wish goodnight,sweet dreams etc.. -
Originally posted by stellazio:arrr my elder sister cockroach..finally you acknowledge me.. i'm speaking as an elder sister nia... when it comes to giving advice, i dun look at the race. or the species.
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ohh, but i know she sleep late. well, sort of scare leh... nervous? mix feeling...Originally posted by deathscythe99:Now almost sleep time?
Should not try too late also wad -
huh? can't? why?Originally posted by starblue:actually, at night not good time for first phone call... dun make me elaborate. -
erm... not my recommendation anyway. u can try like... 6-7. that way, if things get awkward, u can always excuse yourself for dinner.Originally posted by Hocklez:huh? can't? why? -
likewise can say u tired wana sleep..but don't say its her voice that make u sleepy la..Originally posted by starblue:erm... not my recommendation anyway. u can try like... 6-7. that way, if things get awkward, u can always excuse yourself for dinner.