Guys, no pre marital sex pls
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I just survived a real scare. We had sex and my gf missed her period for more than 2 weeks. (It came few days ago.) This 2 weeks is really hell for us as both of us are still students and i doubt that we can afford a child right now; even if we could, the stress from parents, wagging tongues from relatives and friends will give us a nervous breakdown. Trust me, we truly love each other and we are planning to get married as soon as we graduate, but a having a child was no planned for and would seriously ruin everything.
I am sharing my story just because i don't want more people to go through whatever I've just been through. A word of warning. If you are not ready for the consequences, don't even try it. -
Nice gesture - I am referring to your post, not your act.Originally posted by twenty47:I just survived a real scare. We had sex and my gf missed her period for more than 2 weeks. (It came few days ago.) This 2 weeks is really hell for us as both of us are still students and i doubt that we can afford a child right now; even if we could, the stress from parents, wagging tongues from relatives and friends will give us a nervous breakdown. Trust me, we truly love each other and we are planning to get married as soon as we graduate, but a having a child was no planned for and would seriously ruin everything.
I am sharing my story just because i don't want more people to go through whatever I've just been through. A word of warning. If you are not ready for the consequences, don't even try it. -
Are you trying to stop people from having fun after you did? haha joking joking...yep its bad..so kids don't try it at home!! Or anywhere elseOriginally posted by twenty47:I just survived a real scare. We had sex and my gf missed her period for more than 2 weeks. (It came few days ago.) This 2 weeks is really hell for us as both of us are still students and i doubt that we can afford a child right now; even if we could, the stress from parents, wagging tongues from relatives and friends will give us a nervous breakdown. Trust me, we truly love each other and we are planning to get married as soon as we graduate, but a having a child was no planned for and would seriously ruin everything.
I am sharing my story just because i don't want more people to go through whatever I've just been through. A word of warning. If you are not ready for the consequences, don't even try it.
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Yes. I am really regretful for putting my love through all that stress.Originally posted by ellisbeck:Nice gesture - I am referring to your post, not your act. -
protection used?Originally posted by twenty47:I just survived a real scare. We had sex and my gf missed her period for more than 2 weeks. (It came few days ago.) This 2 weeks is really hell for us as both of us are still students and i doubt that we can afford a child right now; even if we could, the stress from parents, wagging tongues from relatives and friends will give us a nervous breakdown. Trust me, we truly love each other and we are planning to get married as soon as we graduate, but a having a child was no planned for and would seriously ruin everything.
I am sharing my story just because i don't want more people to go through whatever I've just been through. A word of warning. If you are not ready for the consequences, don't even try it. -
unfortunately its human nature...
no matter hw much u say...these stuffs still bound to happen to ppl who read ur thread...
if ppl will get ur meanin frm these simple threads...
life wld b so much different... -
it's a phase we go thru. u just went thru it. some of us have.
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Nope. Pulled out. Not a good method at all, after I did some research. Best is not to try at all. There is a chance even if it's 1%. The stress after that outweighs the short period of enjoyment you get.Originally posted by UandMe:protection used? -
Agreed. In the end the smartest thing to do is to remember what our elders have been telling us about the birds and the bees - save sex for marriage.Originally posted by twenty47:Nope. Pulled out. Not a good method at all, after I did some research. Best is not to try at all. There is a chance even if it's 1%. The stress after that outweighs the short period of enjoyment you get.
I know of this 17 year old girl who had missed her period for several days. She had told me that she had sex with her ex a few weeks before and was now frantic. Her home pregnancy test kit gave negative results, but she was still under extreme stress until her period finally came. That was a few days of sheer terror for her.
The bottom line is pretty simple - it's tempting to have sex before marriage, but the ultimately, it's a lot wiser to save that 'first time' for your wedding night. -
Well said.Originally posted by twenty47:Nope. Pulled out. Not a good method at all, after I did some research. Best is not to try at all. There is a chance even if it's 1%. The stress after that outweighs the short period of enjoyment you get.
The problem with guys is that when it comes to sexual gratification, their heads below become so much stronger than their heads above. -
pls, if u want to play but refuse to use protection, u deserve this kind of scare man... be responsbile and think of ur gf.Originally posted by twenty47:Nope. Pulled out. Not a good method at all, after I did some research. Best is not to try at all. There is a chance even if it's 1%. The stress after that outweighs the short period of enjoyment you get. -
protection..
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I also advised not to have pre-marital sex ... really very stressful.
But you know hard to control, so plz always put 2 condom in your wallet . . -
Yea... but it's not because of not wanting to use. It's more of the non availability of condoms at the time when passion brings you over the line. But protection or not, better not.Originally posted by UandMe:pls, if u want to play but refuse to use protection, u deserve this kind of scare man... be responsbile and think of ur gf. -
Passion brings you over the line = Reliance of the little head down there instead of thinking with the head with the brain up there.Originally posted by twenty47:Yea... but it's not because of not wanting to use. It's more of the non availability of condoms at the time when passion brings you over the line. But protection or not, better not. -
u r not mature enough to think
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Shall we not bring up the maturity issue again?
This is what every person will experience. It's a phrase.
Let's us share the experience.
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Yes. I agree. This is the main reason i post this. There will be times when it will happen. Just wanted to knock this idea into the head of the people here a little more so that, probably you guys won't commit the same mistake as me.Originally posted by ellisbeck:Passion brings you over the line = Reliance of the little head down there instead of thinking with the head with the brain up there. -
dont get marry immediately after ur gf n u graduate otherwise u haf a hell time trying to feed ur gf and urself =D
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I believe Fatherhood will make a guy more matured.Originally posted by ellisbeck:Well said.
The problem with guys is that when it comes to sexual gratification, their heads below become so much stronger than their heads above.
I am not saying that pre- marital sex is acceptable but I think there is such a circumstances, I think we guys should stand up and bear the responsiblity.
Bringing up a child is tough in Spore, and it is a challenge.
Face it and fatherhood is such a wonderful thing.
Imagine u will haf another day to celebrate. And that's Father's Day!!! -
i hope ill have a cute kid in the future.
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it is not that easy.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I believe Fatherhood will make a guy more matured.
I am not saying that pre- marital sex is acceptable but I think there is such a circumstances, I think we guys should stand up and bear the responsiblity.
Bringing up a child is tough in Spore, and it is a challenge.
Face it and fatherhood is such a wonderful thing.
Imagine u will haf another day to celebrate. And that's Father's Day!!!
What if the guy is still in school? Most youngsters nowadays are having sex earlier and earlier...
So this is not really a good way to make them grow up..at the expense of the baby. The couple's might not be mature enough emotionally to handle having a child. -
I am making references to people who are 21 and above.Originally posted by rainee:it is not that easy.
What if the guy is still in school? Most youngsters nowadays are having sex earlier and earlier...
So this is not really a good way to make them grow up..at the expense of the baby. The couple's might not be mature enough emotionally to handle having a child.
I agree youngsters nowadays are having early sex. What has the world become to? -
maybe in the future, kids do it and when they grow up.. den they realise.. "so that was sex? i did it already!"Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I am making references to people who are 21 and above.
I agree youngsters nowadays are having early sex. What has the world become to? -
Actually even when they are 21 and above, they might still not have the emotional maturity to handle a child in the household. Esp an unplanned child.Originally posted by AnimalArmy:I am making references to people who are 21 and above.
I agree youngsters nowadays are having early sex. What has the world become to?