Can I ask u a question? Is this lady a forumite here too?Originally posted by social_misfit:Hi.
I have been trying to date this gal out. So far she has gone out with me once about 2 weeks ago. And this week, I have tried asking her out again.
I realise that she always have to take some time to decide; she just cannot give me an instantenous answer on the spot whether she wants to go out or not. However, if I SMS her about something else, she reply quite fast within an hour or two. Thus I believe it's not the case that she seldom checks her SMS.
For example, the first time when I asked her out by sending her a SMS on early Friday evening around 6pm, she only replied the next morning around 10am. The 2nd time, I SMSed her last night around 9pm, until now, I have not received any affirmative reply whether it's a go or no-go.
I do wonder if such a behaviour by female signal disinterest and I should tone down a bit on asking her out. If a gal needs time to decide whether to go out with a guy, does this mean disinterest or interest? What's the normal/typical behaviour?
Originally posted by social_misfit:...however, if I SMS her about something else, she reply quite fast within an hour or two. Thus I believe it's not the case that she seldom checks her SMS.
Originally posted by social_misfit:Ok liaoz... For me a few gals I asked out took around 10 hrs plus to reply
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she reply quite fast within an hour or two. Thus I believe it's not the case that she seldom checks her SMS.
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Hi. Not sure if she frequents this forum too. Btw, who do you suspect her to be?Originally posted by Manager433:Can I ask u a question? Is this lady a forumite here too?
Hmm. She did. But never gave me a reason though.Originally posted by alexkusu:Depends if she apologize for replying later or not