x2Originally posted by CannyOng:Guys tend to be a big mouth a bit.... U shall ask the guy to personally apologise to the gal.
i think the issue is abt insensitivity. zzzzz!Originally posted by losers.inc:eh ? who shallow mind ?? the girl or the boy ?
if someone says u ugly means u ugly meh ? use brain la . didn't know smu students so insecure . zzzzz .
dats not criticism.. dats insensitive & totally uncalled for. He could haf b.itch abt it when she's OUT of sight if he has such a big problem with the people his frens r hanging around with.Originally posted by stellazio:wtf..well the guy is a real big idiot..maybe next time he fall in love with one himself den he noe..
but erm the girl also poor thing,though i hate to point out that if she can't handle mild criticism about her size..wait till she enter the corporate world..lagi jialat..
criticism be it cynical or not..is a part of insensitivity..Originally posted by Camellias4me:dats not criticism.. dats insensitive & totally uncalled for. He could haf b.itch abt it when she's OUT of sight if he has such a big problem with the people his frens r hanging around with.
I dun think I wanna continue being the friend of such an immature and insensitive personOriginally posted by ironoxideman:erm...one more thing...that dude who blew his mouth,if he is genuinely sorry then you should forgive him...unless you dont believe in 2nd chances
To criticize is to find fault/merits, analyse & evaluate on room for improvement openly. In dis case.. he made a biased remark against dat gal behind her. Anyway, who does he think he is? Wat makes him think he can act a critic?Originally posted by stellazio:criticism be it cynical or not..is a part of insensitivity..
if u wana to criticize also can put it in a nice way de to not hurt the person feelings..
Send sms.. apologise & move on to other subject. Try not to harp on the issue. Don't think she wants to be reminded of dat incident?Originally posted by Delta 5:I dun think I wanna continue being the friend of such an immature and insensitive person
I'm really worried for the gal now...Apparently her good fren whom I also know cannot contact her![]()
Originally posted by Delta 5:Today at my campus I was finishing up a presentation report with my gal classmate at the study area near the carpark at around 5 plus, while waiting for my friend from SMU to fetch me back home. He arrived 10 minutes early, but another of my guy friends happened to tag along too. My gal classmate was feeling thirsty at this point, so she excused herself to go to the vending machine just around the corner. That loudmouth who happened to tag along assumed wrongly that she went to the washroom further down the corner and just blurted out loudly: " Wah that gal is so FAT, look at her I think she can squash a full-grown man... Wah I din noe u like to hang aroung fat gals nowadays haha"
Of course, needless to say, she overheard everything. She came over, packed up and ran off with wet eyes.
I was stunned. Really stunned. Because of that a nice friendship and working relationship may be lostI called her just now intending to apologize on that guys's behalf but she did not answer. This is really terrible. I am ashamed of that loudmouth who has hurt and shattered a perfectly nice gal's self confidence. Of course I shouted at him to get lost and that I din wan to see him around my faculty again. He tired to apologize to me but i jus shrugged it off. I loathe shallow people like that.
Now I feel terribly sad for her. Hopefully I will get to see her and apologize to her on that jerk's behalf soon
i understand how the girl feels.. but its not your fault. you were not the one who said it.Originally posted by Delta 5:Today at my campus I was finishing up a presentation report with my gal classmate at the study area near the carpark at around 5 plus, while waiting for my friend from SMU to fetch me back home. He arrived 10 minutes early, but another of my guy friends happened to tag along too. My gal classmate was feeling thirsty at this point, so she excused herself to go to the vending machine just around the corner. That loudmouth who happened to tag along assumed wrongly that she went to the washroom further down the corner and just blurted out loudly: " Wah that gal is so FAT, look at her I think she can squash a full-grown man... Wah I din noe u like to hang aroung fat gals nowadays haha"
Of course, needless to say, she overheard everything. She came over, packed up and ran off with wet eyes.
I was stunned. Really stunned. Because of that a nice friendship and working relationship may be lostI called her just now intending to apologize on that guys's behalf but she did not answer. This is really terrible. I am ashamed of that loudmouth who has hurt and shattered a perfectly nice gal's self confidence. Of course I shouted at him to get lost and that I din wan to see him around my faculty again. He tired to apologize to me but i jus shrugged it off. I loathe shallow people like that.
Now I feel terribly sad for her. Hopefully I will get to see her and apologize to her on that jerk's behalf soon