shy guy = no gf?

• nerfz

  25 Apr 06, 11:03

  Hi everyone, i dunno why i am i always so nervous and shy around girls... is it a turn off to girls..? i also have low self-esteem and low confidence about myself because i have an unattractive phyisque.. and i have quite a broad shoulders so i look kind of weird... and its always hard to buy new clothes for myself..
  
  btw anyone know where to cut a presentable and new hairstyle for guys.. and where to get comfortable and presentable clothes for ppl like me..
  
  i really hope i can change myself.. i really hate myself
• duotiga83

  25 Apr 06, 11:06

  you need to have confidence.....
• coffeeortea

  25 Apr 06, 11:06

  shy guy = no guts
• Herroin

  25 Apr 06, 11:09

  See ah, you shy she shy who do the action?
• BrUtUs

  25 Apr 06, 11:14

  improve urself physically n socially n this can increase ur chances... the basic thing u need is to communicate more with friends n females... chill...
• choco B

  25 Apr 06, 11:15

  Broad shoulders are an asset
• BrUtUs

  25 Apr 06, 11:16

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Broad shoulders are an asset

  yup agree wif tat...
• choco B

  25 Apr 06, 11:23

  Hair - Go to a salon. They usually have student rates. Far East Plaza is good place to start
  
  Clothes - Heeren.
  

  Originally posted by nerfz:

  btw anyone know where to cut a presentable and new hairstyle for guys.. and where to get comfortable and presentable clothes for ppl like me..

• nerfz

  25 Apr 06, 11:28

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Hair - Go to a salon. They usually have student rates. Far East Plaza is good place to start
  
  Clothes - Heeren.
  

  thanks for your help..
• borgkilla

  25 Apr 06, 11:33

  shy guy = no gf ???
  
  nahh i dun think so
  just be yourself sure find someone sometime
  
  
• Inzaghi

  25 Apr 06, 11:35

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Hair - Go to a salon. They usually have student rates. Far East Plaza is good place to start
  
  Clothes - Heeren.
  

  Heeren got good clothes meh??....hmm
  
  try raoul....
• choco B

  25 Apr 06, 11:36

  LOL I'm guessing he's around 16 years old
  

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  Heeren got good clothes meh??....hmm
  
  try raoul....

• nerfz

  25 Apr 06, 11:37

  Originally posted by borgkilla:

  shy guy = no gf ???
  
  nahh i dun think so
  just be yourself sure find someone sometime
  
  

  i think i'm like a shadow nobody notice me.. while i know a guy ..who flirt with every girl he see.. had many relationships even though he is not really good looking..
• BrUtUs

  25 Apr 06, 12:28

  Originally posted by nerfz:

  i think i'm like a shadow nobody notice me.. while i know a guy ..who flirt with every girl he see.. had many relationships even though he is not really good looking..

  u wan to get gf, at least must be open enuff so they know who u are n wat kind of person u are... jz cannot expect get together with a stranger who they duno... they also wan a man, not a mouse... tats y ur friend can hook more gals cos he is open to all kind of contact... tink abt it, if u gal u who would u wan?
• photo_seeker

  25 Apr 06, 15:06

  Originally posted by Herroin:

  See ah, you shy she shy who do the action?

  I got steady with a girl who's shy too. And I'm pretty shy.
• alexkusu

  25 Apr 06, 15:34

  Im shy guy
  
  
• rathcycle

  25 Apr 06, 15:47

  Shy guy finds shy girl !
• alexkusu

  25 Apr 06, 15:49

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  Shy guy finds shy girl !

  lau shu ai da mi
• Tier

  25 Apr 06, 15:51

  do something to make you love yourself.
  
  You have to know how to love yourself first before you can allow other people to love you too.
• forfun_cash

  25 Apr 06, 16:40

  Originally posted by Tier:

  do something to make you love yourself.
  
  You have to know how to love yourself first before you can allow other people to love you too.

  lol ? how to love urself ?? buying clothes for urself and etc ??
• Herroin

  25 Apr 06, 16:51

  Originally posted by photo_seeker:

  I got steady with a girl who's shy too. And I'm pretty shy.

  Bo Wei Gong you lucky person haha
• browniebaobao

  25 Apr 06, 22:25

  Train up ur muscles lah.
  
  Then wear sleeveless.
  
  
• Parka

  25 Apr 06, 22:28

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Broad shoulders are an asset

  Broad wallets are a plus.
  
  
• thoreldan

  25 Apr 06, 22:33

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  Train up ur muscles lah.
  
  Then wear sleeveless.
  
  

  Go for some tanning too
• ne0matrix

  25 Apr 06, 22:41

  Are you skinny and have broad shoulders?
  
  Go gym lift weights to make yourself proportionate.
  
  I also very shy one.