I really do, love her.
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There is a girl I knew, only for maybe like 3 months or so(I mean like actually start talking to her , making friends) . Although the time is really short, but the time we spent together is really a lot. At first, it was just a typical group going out thing. But after awhile, I began to find myself looking forward more and more to this kinda of outing we had, or rather I find myself looking forward to seeing her everyday. Some of you might think, Oh Its just the kind of love at first sight, or appearance love. But its not, everytime i see her. Im so happy, just merely looking at her makes me happy. And when she talks to me, her smile, Kindest. Touch, warmest. Everyday was like a happy day for me. We even talked on the phone almost everyday, we were really close. I wanted to remain the kind of Good friend relationship we had, because im afraid of rejection. Why am i afraid? Because its just so painful, that i actually could'nt get back on my feets everytime i got rejected, the thought of living was meaningless . In my life, I've only loved two girls, And when i said love. I really mean it, after my second rejection I thought that i did'nt wanted to love again, Like whoa how many setbacks can a man take? But then, i've found love again. This time , a greater one, so much that I could really die for the girl. You know in dramas when they said "I love her so much that i would really die for her" . Normally, its only bragging. But this time i really would boldy say, I would really die for her, i would do anything for her.
I find myself extremely devoted to this kind of love i had for her, I actually think about her every single second. Every where i go, i would think about her. Even when i went into a shop, if i see something cute or lovely, i would think of buying it for her, and i did.
And i love her not because she has the most beautiful face i've ever seen, Nor do i love her because of her never failing sunshine smile that she brought upon me. But I love her because i truely love her.
The problem now is, this love i had for her is too overwhelming, its overflowing, And i can't control it. I have to do something about it, I have to confess. But how? Im not trying to make myself sound pathetic or anything, but i would really not love again if this girl dies or anything, because i really cant find myself having feelings for anyone anymore because they are not her. I wanna ask her out one day, some day special. And i would wanna confess to her on that day, But how? How can i do it to make a sucessful one? -
you in love...
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so u wan the advice from the pool of experts here
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Is the price of possible rejection or fear of confession too big for your love? Seems to me you are not willing to take that next step for a greater cause.
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"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage."
Lao Tze You only have the courage to think. You lack the doing...then what use is the courage and love?
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what is that phrase in chinese?Originally posted by M©+square:"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage."
Lao Tze You only have the courage to think. You lack the doing...then what use is the courage and love?
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i know my gf for 1 week plus and i confess her and we are together until now...
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Ren2 Ai4 Zhe3 You3 Li4, Ai4 Ren2 Zhe3 You3 Yong3.Originally posted by JLennon:what is that phrase in chinese?
http://www.yilin.com/cn/book/details.asp?id=2339 -
Souded like big breast great lover..can give me that line?Originally posted by M©+square:
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You go and ask Laozi and give you that line or not.Originally posted by king108:Souded like big breast great lover..can give me that line?
Ai4 Ren2 You3 Yong3
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My brother alway tell me something likeOriginally posted by M©+square:You go and ask Laozi and give you that line or not.
It's Ai Ren Zhe You Yong.
You Yong Ni Da
Got Courage Breast Big - I tried looking at China Yahoo..cannot find the word leh..My brother pro in Mandarin cannot be wrong.. -
I lack the courage indeed. Not exactly actually, i did try to ask her out. That is always the first step, if its possible , 30% is done.
But then again, What am i gonna do? If it fails? Its hard ya, to even find a meaning to live. Its just that, I really do love her. Bo si gong wei nia, si jin eh. =\ -
i know its gonna come sooner or later..
i wanna ask.
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asking her out is a good start. start dating until you more or less have an idea whether she will reciprocate to your feelings. if you still get any further hints, i suggest you make your feelings known to her. at least give yourself chance by asking.Originally posted by rikki:I lack the courage indeed. Not exactly actually, i did try to ask her out. That is always the first step, if its possible , 30% is done.
But then again, What am i gonna do? If it fails? Its hard ya, to even find a meaning to live. Its just that, I really do love her. Bo si gong wei nia, si jin eh. =\
you said 'But this time i really would boldy say, I would really die for her, i would do anything for her.'. if you can do anything for her, she may just be waiting for you to make that first move so just do it. -
I was thinking of confessing to her when i asked her out again. We went out a lot of times , but never solo.
Im thinking of getting her orange roses(As its her favorite colour) and maybe something else to go along with it. Im not sure what i could get too though. -
don't have to jump into it.... go solo and see how.....Originally posted by rikki:I was thinking of confessing to her when i asked her out again. We went out a lot of times , but never solo.
Im thinking of getting her orange roses(As its her favorite colour) and maybe something else to go along with it. Im not sure what i could get too though.
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Lol, really? =\ I thought it'll be a really great idea to actually give her a rose of her favorite colour. I was wrong? Someone told me that I could also get something from her wishlist. But apparently the things from her wishlist, were items like "that bag", "That slipper", "That t-shirt" Its hard you know -.-
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its of cos nice to be able to provide, but let's be realistic in this context. making your feelings known with roses increases your chances than giving a t-shirt.
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You can claim to die for her.
Yet you couldn't decide what to do with her. Men fears rejection more than death. Irony indeed.
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I think he haven't even hold her hand yet..."Kan Kan"..Else forget about it..Simple as that..
Don't "love me, love me no"..ended the park got no flower lefted on the branches. While their remaining around a hiden staircase...
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tts a crush
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don push ur self too hard or there will be a price to pay. she also has to play her part to make this work. i suggest that since u hv strong feelings for her, ask her how she feels abt you. if she can give a straight spontaneous answer, she is yours to kep for a long time. if not ......
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You're funny.Originally posted by rikki:There is a girl I knew, only for maybe like 3 months or so(I mean like actually start talking to her , making friends) . Although the time is really short, but the time we spent together is really a lot. At first, it was just a typical group going out thing. But after awhile, I began to find myself looking forward more and more to this kinda of outing we had, or rather I find myself looking forward to seeing her everyday. Some of you might think, Oh Its just the kind of love at first sight, or appearance love. But its not, everytime i see her. Im so happy, just merely looking at her makes me happy. And when she talks to me, her smile, Kindest. Touch, warmest. Everyday was like a happy day for me. We even talked on the phone almost everyday, we were really close. I wanted to remain the kind of Good friend relationship we had, because im afraid of rejection. Why am i afraid? Because its just so painful, that i actually could'nt get back on my feets everytime i got rejected, the thought of living was meaningless . In my life, I've only loved two girls, And when i said love. I really mean it, after my second rejection I thought that i did'nt wanted to love again, Like whoa how many setbacks can a man take? But then, i've found love again. This time , a greater one, so much that I could really die for the girl. You know in dramas when they said "I love her so much that i would really die for her" . Normally, its only bragging. But this time i really would boldy say, I would really die for her, i would do anything for her.
I find myself extremely devoted to this kind of love i had for her, I actually think about her every single second. Every where i go, i would think about her. Even when i went into a shop, if i see something cute or lovely, i would think of buying it for her, and i did.
And i love her not because she has the most beautiful face i've ever seen, Nor do i love her because of her never failing sunshine smile that she brought upon me. But I love her because i truely love her.
The problem now is, this love i had for her is too overwhelming, its overflowing, And i can't control it. I have to do something about it, I have to confess. But how? Im not trying to make myself sound pathetic or anything, but i would really not love again if this girl dies or anything, because i really cant find myself having feelings for anyone anymore because they are not her. I wanna ask her out one day, some day special. And i would wanna confess to her on that day, But how? How can i do it to make a sucessful one? -
just ask her out alone.
go to somewhere u like to hang out in and then engage her in ur favourite activities.
do this for a while before confessing to her.
or if u like, can just on the spot hold her hands while u're all in the middle of some things?? i dunno.. but there's got to be some ways u can show her that u like her. first thing is to hold her hands. maybe can give excuse like, taking her hands up and tell her that she's got nice hands and u'd love to hold them.
can try many things. just dun be too straightforward in confessing can liao.
for me ar, when i first wooed my gf, i held her hands too. no words spoken at all. just ask her whether did she feel anything anot. she said yes. so that means, i'm in liao lor.
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Fat People RulezOriginally posted by rikki:There is a girl I knew, only for maybe like 3 months or so(I mean like actually start talking to her , making friends) . Although the time is really short, but the time we spent together is really a lot. At first, it was just a typical group going out thing. But after awhile, I began to find myself looking forward more and more to this kinda of outing we had, or rather I find myself looking forward to seeing her everyday. Some of you might think, Oh Its just the kind of love at first sight, or appearance love. But its not, everytime i see her. Im so happy, just merely looking at her makes me happy. And when she talks to me, her smile, Kindest. Touch, warmest. Everyday was like a happy day for me. We even talked on the phone almost everyday, we were really close. I wanted to remain the kind of Good friend relationship we had, because im afraid of rejection. Why am i afraid? Because its just so painful, that i actually could'nt get back on my feets everytime i got rejected, the thought of living was meaningless . In my life, I've only loved two girls, And when i said love. I really mean it, after my second rejection I thought that i did'nt wanted to love again, Like whoa how many setbacks can a man take? But then, i've found love again. This time , a greater one, so much that I could really die for the girl. You know in dramas when they said "I love her so much that i would really die for her" . Normally, its only bragging. But this time i really would boldy say, I would really die for her, i would do anything for her.
I find myself extremely devoted to this kind of love i had for her, I actually think about her every single second. Every where i go, i would think about her. Even when i went into a shop, if i see something cute or lovely, i would think of buying it for her, and i did.
And i love her not because she has the most beautiful face i've ever seen, Nor do i love her because of her never failing sunshine smile that she brought upon me. But I love her because i truely love her.
The problem now is, this love i had for her is too overwhelming, its overflowing, And i can't control it. I have to do something about it, I have to confess. But how? Im not trying to make myself sound pathetic or anything, but i would really not love again if this girl dies or anything, because i really cant find myself having feelings for anyone anymore because they are not her. I wanna ask her out one day, some day special. And i would wanna confess to her on that day, But how? How can i do it to make a sucessful one?