Scared of meeting up the gal i like
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There is this for gal I like in my school for quite some time liao. She get to know my interest in her after my friend told her. She show some interest to me too. But since tat day when she knows that i like her. We exchange MSN (somehow i managed to get ur hp no from her, we SMS and MSN chat often) The problem now is i start to feel scared finding her around in school. Wshen we saw each other i tend to pretend not to see her it like pai seh (she also ab. Cos of this fear i wasted like 2 mth liao....she told my friend that i keep avoiding her, and i guess i hurt her too as she told her friends like i no longer interested in her. She still try hinting me, we managed still to keep contact in MSN and occasionally SMS, (call her only once), She suggest that we meet up in sch and chat I agree but still this fear put me back....i was afraid that after that meeting things may go bad for me, low confident, but that was not me years ago with my first love....what's more, i start to feel the very same thing as the author of this thread http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=192435
Can someone help? I guess as i grow older i become more and more humji liao
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how old are you? teens tend to be more humji
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if u r humji, then nothing we all say will help u. i'm serious.
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what you need to do is to take it easy...dun make it feel like you are meeting your prospective girlfren...take it like meeting a fren...
when you meet her...don't think her as someone you like...instead...approach as a good fren... -
Can i just say something?Originally posted by Texcoco II:There is this for gal I like in my school for quite some time liao. She get to know my interest in her after my friend told her. She show some interest to me too. But since tat day when she knows that i like her. We exchange MSN (somehow i managed to get ur hp no from her, we SMS and MSN chat often) The problem now is i start to feel scared finding her around in school. Wshen we saw each other i tend to pretend not to see her it like pai seh (she also ab. Cos of this fear i wasted like 2 mth liao....she told my friend that i keep avoiding her, and i guess i hurt her too as she told her friends like i no longer interested in her. She still try hinting me, we managed still to keep contact in MSN and occasionally SMS, (call her only once), She suggest that we meet up in sch and chat I agree but still this fear put me back....i was afraid that after that meeting things may go bad for me, low confident, but that was not me years ago with my first love....what's more, i start to feel the very same thing as the author of this thread http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=192435
Can someone help? I guess as i grow older i become more and more humji liao
If this whole thing is about your balls.
Then i suggest, you spare the gal of her time and effort.
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just be normal, and go and chat up with her....go to movies together, etc...
dont later, cuz you humji and shy and dont dare this and that...later regret...
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i couldnt agree more ! The trick is to approach her as a normal friend .Originally posted by R3SsH|n:what you need to do is to take it easy...dun make it feel like you are meeting your prospective girlfren...take it like meeting a fren...
when you meet her...don't think her as someone you like...instead...approach as a good fren... -
if you like someone show her a condom lor...........no need to feel pai seh one........ the last time i was overseas and someone liked me.......she showed me a condom.....hahahahaha
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i not teen liao.Originally posted by alexkusu:how old are you? teens tend to be more humji
i oso humji. -
in GTO, showing a condom means I Love You.Originally posted by gohkatkat:if you like someone show her a condom lor...........no need to feel pai seh one........ the last time i was overseas and someone liked me.......she showed me a condom.....hahahahaha
anyway, what happened to her? -
Actually my REAL fear is tat i might talk or do something silly that might make her think that i am not actually whatever she had of me in her mind. This fear is very intense that i could not focus watever i am doing when in front of herOriginally posted by M©+square:Can i just say something?
If this whole thing is about your balls.
Then i suggest, you spare the gal of her time and effort. -
anyway, showing a condom means I Love You.
yeah 
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If u r shy still easy to solve the problem,just treat her as a human being will do
But if u r hurt b4,then it will be difficult to open up -
dude.. she likes u, u like her.
and thats confirmed.
you dont have to do any courting and u already have it so much better than most guys.
just ask her out once and everything will flow. -
x2..Originally posted by M©+square:Can i just say something?
If this whole thing is about your balls.
Then i suggest, you spare the gal of her time and effort. -
then this girl will not appreciate what you truly are...you think a relationship like that will work out?Originally posted by Texcoco II:Actually my REAL fear is tat i might talk or do something silly that might make her think that i am not actually whatever she had of me in her mind. This fear is very intense that i could not focus watever i am doing when in front of her
if you do silly things...fine...take it is you trying to make her laugh...if you behave like a fren...act normal...even if you do silly things...she will probably just laugh it away...
its not fear...its just that you are hoping to be somebody you are not...be natural..and act like yourself... -
Be thick-skinned like me !!!
DARE to do whatever you want.
Don't be scared od being malu, people laugh at you, you kao bei them say you all don't understand whats l-o-v-e. -
eh just be yourself k ? No point acting infront of her and only to let her know you are not the one she had in her mind after months of being together .Originally posted by Texcoco II:Actually my REAL fear is tat i might talk or do something silly that might make her think that i am not actually whatever she had of me in her mind. This fear is very intense that i could not focus watever i am doing when in front of her -
we all stumble and fall. In this life, is either u do something or you dont.
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and how long can you act ? 1 mth ? 1 yr ? You will eventually still give yourself away . Just be yourself .
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i not acting....i just scared that she won accept what i am.....sounds illogical but i stillOriginally posted by forfun_cash:eh just be yourself k ? No point acting infront of her and only to let her know you are not the one she had in her mind after months of being together .
dun understand why i fear this so much -
Chances are, she'll just think your cute when you do silly stuff... Cmon, you won't know if you never try
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Originally posted by Texcoco II:
The way you wrote it only reminded me of two friends of mine during our secondary school time.
One handsome young man and one beautiful girl..Like your case, pei sai, pei sai..at the end the girl could give anymore hints until she gave all up. Then the guy started to regret for never react.
Why act..just do it. Else it will become a memory only later of your life. -
*Slaps my own foreheadOriginally posted by Texcoco II:Actually my REAL fear is tat i might talk or do something silly that might make her think that i am not actually whatever she had of me in her mind. This fear is very intense that i could not focus watever i am doing when in front of her
U are so close already to getting the gal... Pls treasure ur opportunity and have courage as a man, simple as tat!!! -
if you are afraid of asking her just because of your ego...
i have only one word to say - BALL-LESS
i said my piece...i rest case...