14 Oct, 06:20AM in sunny Singapore!
Home → Aunt Agony →

Age is definitely a problem..

Subscribe to Age is definitely a problem.. 250 posts

Please Login or Signup to reply.
  • lonestar86
    lonestar86's Avatar
    1,151 posts since Feb '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:36PM

      This posting is merely my personal opinion..

      I used to think that age is never a problem when comes to r/s..
      I’ve changed my mind now..
      So why exactly did I say that??

      Imagine u r a 20 yr old guy who has just grad from poly and waiting to be enlisted..
      Currently working part-time and earning merely peanuts..
      U can’t possibly be with a woman (in her late 20s) who has a career and is of cus financially very stable..

      Think abt it..
      What ppl might think?? (they might think u r living off her..)
      How would ur parents feel?? (I doubt they would agree in the 1st place..)

      Pls never say that we dun have to care abt what other ppl think (cus that’s bull****!!)
      More or less, we are affected by ppl’s opinions..

      My conclusion:
      It is practically wrong to be with a gal who is much older than u..
      I just feel that it’s not right..

  • mhcampboy
    mhcampboy's Avatar
    23,451 posts since Feb '06
  • M©+square
    M©+square's Avatar
    22,881 posts since Nov '02
  • lonestar86
    lonestar86's Avatar
    1,151 posts since Feb '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:40PM
      Originally posted by M©+square:
      I felt the opposite.

      Having a gf that's older is definitely good!

      Laughing

      of cus it's gd..
      but it's not right..
      tt's how i feel..

  • mistyblue
    mistyblue's Avatar
    11,393 posts since May '04
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:41PM

      Your personal opinion only.

      You must be realistic.

      And your already have defeatist attitude and you are not ready for r/s

  • lonestar86
    lonestar86's Avatar
    1,151 posts since Feb '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:41PM
      Originally posted by mhcampboy:
      my ex was 6 years older than me... Laughing Laughing

      ok we didnt last long.... just 3 years... hahhha

      3 years..
      hey, tt's long mah..

  • aRcTiC_sTaR
    aRcTiC_sTaR's Avatar
    2,964 posts since May '04
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:43PM

      If you’re the only child in a rich family, there’s nothing wrong. It also depends on the material needs of the woman.

  • lonestar86
    lonestar86's Avatar
    1,151 posts since Feb '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:43PM
      Originally posted by mistyblue:
      You must be realistic.

      realistic??
      in what sense??
      pls elaborate..

  • M©+square
    M©+square's Avatar
    22,881 posts since Nov '02
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:44PM
      Originally posted by lonestar86:
      of cus it's gd..
      but it's not right..
      tt's how i feel..

      You can do the right things then. Wink

  • MosPosterior
    MosPosterior's Avatar
    2,016 posts since Jun '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:45PM

      I like a younger gf...

      So next time when I am old (e.g. 40), she only 20+.

      Got more years to enjoy.. Very Happy

  • M©+square
    M©+square's Avatar
    22,881 posts since Nov '02
    • 12 Jul `06, 2:49PM
      Originally posted by MosPosterior:
      I like a younger gf...

      So next time when I am old (e.g. 40), she only 20+.

      Got more years to enjoy.. Very Happy

      You haven't consider the part where, she doesn't enjoy you anymore? And she's looking around for other guy at her age. Laughing

  • R3SsH|n
    R3SsH|n's Avatar
    9,362 posts since Apr '05
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:10PM

      if you are someone who needs other people to take care of you...need to remind you to pay the utilities bill...remind you to eat dinner...then you probably more suited to have a girl a couple of years older than you...

      if you are the other type...independent...like to take care of people...then maybe a younger girl will be more suited...

      agree?

  • lonestar86
    lonestar86's Avatar
    1,151 posts since Feb '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:18PM
      Originally posted by R3SsH|n:
      if you are someone who needs other people to take care of you...need to remind you to pay the utilities bill...remind you to eat dinner...then you probably more suited to have a girl a couple of years older than you...

      if you are the other type...independent...like to take care of people...then maybe a younger girl will be more suited...

      agree?

      yup, make sense..

  • laoda99
    laoda99's Avatar
    5,247 posts since Dec '00
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:19PM
      Originally posted by MosPosterior:
      I like a younger gf...

      So next time when I am old (e.g. 40), she only 20+.

      Got more years to enjoy.. Very Happy

      less yrs to enjoy la....haha

  • MosPosterior
    MosPosterior's Avatar
    2,016 posts since Jun '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:21PM
      Originally posted by M©+square:
      You haven't consider the part where, she doesn't enjoy you anymore? And she's looking around for other guy at her age. Laughing

      Omg... hmm... den every year change 1 can??? Laughing Laughing

      (pei du ma ma) Mr. Green

  • MosPosterior
    MosPosterior's Avatar
    2,016 posts since Jun '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:22PM
      Originally posted by laoda99:
      less yrs to enjoy la....haha

      Haha.. during teenage, find your age one...

      After 35, dump her and marry a 18~19 one...

      when you 40, she only 20+.. woot! Laughing Laughing JK.. Mr. Green

  • M©+square
    M©+square's Avatar
    22,881 posts since Nov '02
  • lonestar86
    lonestar86's Avatar
    1,151 posts since Feb '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:28PM
      Originally posted by M©+square:
      how about rights and wrongs? Laughing

      here comes the difficult part.. Confused

  • M©+square
    M©+square's Avatar
    22,881 posts since Nov '02
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:29PM
      Originally posted by lonestar86:
      here comes the difficult part.. Confused

      I think you should sort out your personal opinions. Laughing

  • aRcTiC_sTaR
    aRcTiC_sTaR's Avatar
    2,964 posts since May '04
  • NotFromVenus
    NotFromVenus's Avatar
    1,042 posts since Jun '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 3:40PM
      Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:
      There are no rights or wrongs.

      It depends on how do you want it , if r/s already have an ending that's been foreseen, then why start it ?

      It will definitely hurt both parties.

  • Bontakun
    Bontakun's Avatar
    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • 12 Jul `06, 7:03PM
      Originally posted by lonestar86:
      here comes the difficult part.. Confused

      How about this: You wait another 5 years then pm me or post here see your views will change or not.

  • M©+square
    M©+square's Avatar
    22,881 posts since Nov '02
    • 12 Jul `06, 8:18PM
      Originally posted by Bontakun:
      How about this: You wait another 5 years then pm me or post here see your views will change or not.

      Laughing

  • gohkatkat
    gohkatkat's Avatar
    700 posts since May '06
    • 12 Jul `06, 8:34PM

      Originally posted by lonestar86:
      This posting is merely my personal opinion..

      I used to think that age is never a problem when comes to r/s..
      I’ve changed my mind now..
      So why exactly did I say that??

      Imagine u r a 20 yr old guy who has just grad from poly and waiting to be enlisted..
      Currently working part-time and earning merely peanuts..
      U can’t possibly be with a woman (in her late 20s) who has a career and is of cus financially very stable..

      Think abt it..
      What ppl might think?? (they might think u r living off her..)
      How would ur parents feel?? (I doubt they would agree in the 1st place..)

      Pls never say that we dun have to care abt what other ppl think (cus that’s bull****!!)
      More or less, we are affected by ppl’s opinions..

      [b]My conclusion:
      It is practically wrong to be with a gal who is much older than u..
      I just feel that it’s not right..[/b]

      i sense a chauvanistic feeling here........you probably have your ego.......

  • Bontakun
    Bontakun's Avatar
    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • 12 Jul `06, 8:36PM
      Originally posted by M©+square:
      Laughing

      You luff simi lah! 5 yrs later you oldie liao...

      Pls dun kill me! I still young and pweety~~~!

Please Login or Signup to reply.