whats ur view on long distance dating and courtship?

• olala

  27 Jul 06, 13:38

  As the above
  am curious
• Gwangetto

  27 Jul 06, 13:41

  it won't work. trust me.
• olala

  27 Jul 06, 13:42

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  it won't work. trust me.

  but if the gal have a grandmother in ur country and is chinese but a PR there
  ?
• HENG@

  27 Jul 06, 13:43

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  it won't work. trust me.

  its working for me so far?
• Gwangetto

  27 Jul 06, 13:43

  Originally posted by olala:

  but if the gal have a grandmother in ur country and is chinese but a PR there
  ?

  nothing to do with grandmother or whoever.
  
  what matters is u and the gal. how long u guys are gonna be apart?
• missqi

  27 Jul 06, 13:44

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  its working for me so far?

  
• missqi

  27 Jul 06, 13:44

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  its working for me so far?

  
• olala

  27 Jul 06, 13:45

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  nothing to do with grandmother or whoever.
  
  what matters is u and the gal. how long u guys are gonna be apart?

  few yrs?mayb close to 10?
• Gwangetto

  27 Jul 06, 13:47

  Originally posted by olala:

  few yrs?mayb close to 10?

  omg... break up then. sorry. but let's be practical. u can't stay apart for more than 2 years without physical contact and other thing as well.
• olala

  27 Jul 06, 13:48

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  omg... break up then. sorry. but let's be practical. u can't stay apart for more than 2 years without physical contact and other thing as well.

  so wats the best way to have a good fundemental ground for long distances dating?
• newcomer

  27 Jul 06, 13:54

  Originally posted by Gwangetto:

  nothing to do with grandmother or whoever.
  
  what matters is u and the gal. how long u guys are gonna be apart?

  1 week see once? considered long distant dating anot?
• olala

  27 Jul 06, 14:51

  Originally posted by newcomer:

  1 week see once? considered long distant dating anot?

  since when did anyone said onces a week meetup
  she visits her grandma onces in 2 yrs or once in a yr
• Devil1976

  27 Jul 06, 14:52

  Originally posted by olala:

  few yrs?mayb close to 10?

  How long have you known each other and been together...?
• Devil1976

  27 Jul 06, 14:53

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  its working for me so far?

  That's because you're still at the cream of it...
• olala

  27 Jul 06, 15:08

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  How long have you known each other and been together...?

  shes a penpal and have known her for 3 yrs?
  but i cant say i really know her alot
  what are the pointers for long distance friendship?
• Devil1976

  27 Jul 06, 16:47

  Originally posted by olala:

  shes a penpal and have known her for 3 yrs?
  but i cant say i really know her alot
  what are the pointers for long distance friendship?

  I'm a little lost.
  
  So are you in any form of BGR now?
  
  Ever met before?
  
  So now you're talking about a long distance BGR or friendship?
  
  Have you been attached previously? If so, how many times and how long?
  
  What is the distance like for you and that girl now?
• ben1406

  27 Jul 06, 16:50

  Originally posted by olala:

  so wats the best way to have a good fundemental ground for long distances dating?

  trust.. i'm having a long distance r/s and it's been working well for me so far.
• Mospeada

  27 Jul 06, 17:07

  Originally posted by olala:

  shes a penpal and have known her for 3 yrs?
  but i cant say i really know her alot
  what are the pointers for long distance friendship?

  penpal?
  
  u kidding me
• olala

  27 Jul 06, 17:24

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  I'm a little lost.
  
  So are you in any form of BGR now?
  
  Ever met before?
  
  So now you're talking about a long distance BGR or friendship?
  
  Have you been attached previously? If so, how many times and how long?
  
  What is the distance like for you and that girl now?

  im nt in any r/s
  shes a nice friend
  and im thinking shes a good friend and companion
  
  regarding r/s wise,im only curious abt long distance r/s
• HENG@

  27 Jul 06, 18:33

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  That's because you're still at the cream of it...

  no i think we've come out of the cream already
• BadzMaro

  27 Jul 06, 18:51

  Trust , love and commitment.
  
  These 3 values and no matter where.. can work. Same goes for courtship.
• alexkusu

  27 Jul 06, 18:53

  works for some
• Advante_101

  27 Jul 06, 19:17

  Constant contact is important..buy plenty of calling cards (some allow u to talk up to 2hrs depending on the country) Send each other photos often..cute pillow with ur own perfume tat u r using so tat she/he can think of u & miz u during sleep..Roses or item by airmail etc..Since u cant be there for her..Help her out by sending some pocket money once per week
  
  Meet up once a month or two for sex..No matter how u all deny this is very important in a long distance relationship..It will be the memory of it tat keeps u two together strong..If cant..use phone or photos to fu-ck each other fondly hehehe
  
  Until when both are ready..Then marry if fate permits..
  
  Most importantly is tat BOTH of u must realli LOVE each other TRUST and TALK..If not it wont worked out
  
  What else..? If still have other ideas i cant remember liao..Thanks you & Good luck to u buddy..
• Devil1976

  28 Jul 06, 13:44

  Originally posted by olala:

  im nt in any r/s
  shes a nice friend
  and im thinking shes a good friend and companion
  
  regarding r/s wise,im only curious abt long distance r/s

  It's on a different form of arena.
  
  The main reason why most long-distance friendship could work more readily than a long distance BGR is because they are often less demanding... The form(s) of commitment(s) required can also be much more different... A friend's love can sometimes be much more embracing than a partner's one...
• Devil1976

  28 Jul 06, 13:46

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  no i think we've come out of the cream already

  Then it's probably not the same 'cream' we're talking about here...