hmmm..
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okk I don't know whether I should write my situation here..
I came to know this girl from my school and we got along well for the first few months this year..
and eventually I began to fall for her..
I once got cheated?..I don't know whether I should call it cheated or what..but doesn't matter..got hurt by a girl before
but this new girl..her smile and everything..really pulled me through and I am glad that I know her
and so you know..
I was really excited to see her each day in school..I guess you guys know how it feels to see the girls whom you all admired right? so I don't wish to describe it haha..
but anyway..
I told her that I like her before..think it was around February that time..hmmm..and she told me too..was really happy that time..
but aiyahh.. she told me that she is a Christian and it happens that I am a Buddhist..and she said we might have difficulities getting into a relationship or something
I didn't really think about it cos I thought it is fine..so I just continued to chat and get along with her..didn't really get into a relationship lah cos it is rather ambigious that time
it was until we got seperated into our different classes..cos jc mah..and I started to miss her a lot..a lot a lot a lot..I was hoping she would chat with me on msn everyday cos she really brightens up my day..but I think it was fading cos maybe because we are in different classes? hmmm
so you know..days went pass very fast..July liao..I couldn't control and I went to tell her how I feel..then the shock came
she told me the same thing again..that we are from different religions and she hopes that I can understand..that she views religion very importantly and so we cannot get into the same relationship..haii.....
I mean ok..I am a Buddhist or what but it's my mother's choice not minee..I am a freethinker inside and Buddhist is just my identity you guys know what I mean
really dashed my hope..couldn't pull myself together cos it is the second time I got hurt..she really hurts me but I don't blame her or what cos I got to respect her view right? haha..
but I still miss her a lot!!..
I told her we still can be friends but we kind of lost that level of intimacy as before..
I really miss her a lott and up till now I still like her
call me a weakling or what I don't really care..cos it is really a pity for me I guess
mann what should I do..
now I am hoping to enter NS as soon as possible and forget about everything
but it is like one more year or so?
so long and tough for me
I hope she won't see this
she told me she thinks she has hurt me and that I hate her
yeapp she has hurt me
but no
I don't hate her
I just feel soo ARRGGHH..
I hope she won't see this bah
cos I told her I am fine just that I need time to recover
but I lied..not fine though haha..
hmmm
I don't think there will be another girl like her who would appear in my life again..
and I cannot imagine her holding hands with another man..a Christian? haha.....
hmmm...
sorry guys..I am a bit long-winded..and you may think it's a small problem..but to me it's really devastating..I've lost a good chatting partner who is in Canada now and now I have lost her haii..
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well normal for tis to happen... its quite hard to change her mind cos those into religion are lead to believe to onli get together with same religion... well, go for a buddhist gal at temple... more chance leh...
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Personal advice.Originally posted by Diehard_89:okk I don't know whether I should write my situation here..
I came to know this girl from my school and we got along well for the first few months this year..
and eventually I began to fall for her..
I once got cheated?..I don't know whether I should call it cheated or what..but doesn't matter..got hurt by a girl before
but this new girl..her smile and everything..really pulled me through and I am glad that I know her
and so you know..
I was really excited to see her each day in school..I guess you guys know how it feels to see the girls whom you all admired right? so I don't wish to describe it haha..
but anyway..
I told her that I like her before..think it was around February that time..hmmm..and she told me too..was really happy that time..
but aiyahh.. she told me that she is a Christian and it happens that I am a Buddhist..and she said we might have difficulities getting into a relationship or something
I didn't really think about it cos I thought it is fine..so I just continued to chat and get along with her..didn't really get into a relationship lah cos it is rather ambigious that time
it was until we got seperated into our different classes..cos jc mah..and I started to miss her a lot..a lot a lot a lot..I was hoping she would chat with me on msn everyday cos she really brightens up my day..but I think it was fading cos maybe because we are in different classes? hmmm
so you know..days went pass very fast..July liao..I couldn't control and I went to tell her how I feel..then the shock came
she told me the same thing again..that we are from different religions and she hopes that I can understand..that she views religion very importantly and so we cannot get into the same relationship..haii.....
I mean ok..I am a Buddhist or what but it's my mother's choice not minee..I am a freethinker inside and Buddhist is just my identity you guys know what I mean
really dashed my hope..couldn't pull myself together cos it is the second time I got hurt..she really hurts me but I don't blame her or what cos I got to respect her view right? haha..
but I still miss her a lot!!..
I told her we still can be friends but we kind of lost that level of intimacy as before..
I really miss her a lott and up till now I still like her
call me a weakling or what I don't really care..cos it is really a pity for me I guess
mann what should I do..
now I am hoping to enter NS as soon as possible and forget about everything
but it is like one more year or so?
so long and tough for me
I hope she won't see this
she told me she thinks she has hurt me and that I hate her
yeapp she has hurt me
but no
I don't hate her
I just feel soo ARRGGHH..
I hope she won't see this bah
cos I told her I am fine just that I need time to recover
but I lied..not fine though haha..
hmmm
I don't think there will be another girl like her who would appear in my life again..
and I cannot imagine her holding hands with another man..a Christian? haha.....
hmmm...
sorry guys..I am a bit long-winded..and you may think it's a small problem..but to me it's really devastating..I've lost a good chatting partner who is in Canada now and now I have lost her haii..
No point holding too tight to it if you don't have much confidence of developing things further... -
whoa religous descrimination arghz...
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Originally posted by S@mz_Rev0LuT|on:whoa religous descrimination arghz... kidding
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wah.. you read all...Originally posted by Devil1976:Personal advice.
No point holding too tight to it if you don't have much confidence of developing things further...
its so long I gave up... -
He moderator mah,,,,,,must have patience to read if anything is amissOriginally posted by mistyblue:wah.. you read all...
its so long I gave up... -
i do have some issues abt the thinkings of some christians but i guess this ain't the right platform for me to say so.
it's indeed a pity mate, that 2 mutual parties cannot develop because of an external issue. well, old fashioned to say this but it's true, you'll meet someone else as good, or even better, later on in your life.