Some problem with my girlfriend Yesterday..
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Has a girlfriend for the past 3 months. She live very far. So normally i will either meet her up at central or go to school which is at west side to see her. No matter how tired I am I will still travel down to see her once a week. Sometime even just accompany her for just 4hrs looking at her doing her project make me quite happy. Even though sometimes she don't want to go out on Saturday (actually is most of the time. She want to stay at home and watch Tv. By the way her parents don't know about our relationship.) I also never really say anything. Yesterday wanted to meet her up, But she told me she wanted to watch tv becos last episode. So I say ok loh, if you wanna stay home just stay home. So she say since we meeting on Saturday. Then ended up she came home at 11pm and told me she was having fun with her friends and forget about the time. I really sometime don't understand her. I never been spending much quality time with her since she doing her school project. After she finished her project, the first thing she want is to watch tv or go out with her friends which she see almost everyday. I feel frustrated, she say i am didn't concern about her and just want to see her only. I think she taking me for granted. I feel i'm more inferior to a TV. She rather watch TV at home then to meet me up. I seriously don't know what goes wrong. What is wrong of wanted to meet her up which i almost meet her up sometimes not EVEN A BLOODY 1 once a week. I have been with her for 3 months. I meet her only like 12 times. I can EVEN COUNT. WHAT THE HELL. Seriously why do girls sometimes like to take things for granted. All the girls around me since to be like that. Is it because I'm always give in in things that they see I'm quite tasty to eat. By the way this is my 1st girlfriend. So please advise on that. Thank you.
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IMHO, I think long dist r/s doesnt last long.
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well..did u talk to her about it yet?
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not counted!Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:IMHO, I think long dist r/s doesnt last long.
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huh?
long distant r/s in singapore? west and east of singapore?
your kidding me right? -
Long distance? I don't think both of you are long distance since both are in Singapore
Dude. I think you should talk to your GF. Maybe there's some problem and she's trying to avoid you or something?
Communication is very important in a relationship. Try talking to her. Good luck.
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maybe she doesnt want to commit to a relationship. I mean since to everyone she's single right?
and since she's your first girlfriend, you on the other hand wants to give it your best shot! commit 100%... maybe you guys should talk things out...
be sure of what you want... btw there's lotsa other girls out there lolx -
ya! commit 100% or forget itOriginally posted by orange88:maybe she doesnt want to commit to a relationship. I mean since to everyone she's single right?
and since she's your first girlfriend, you on the other hand wants to give it your best shot! commit 100%... maybe you guys should talk things out...
be sure of what you want... btw there's lotsa other girls out there lolx
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It isOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:IMHO, I think long dist r/s doesnt last long. -
Most girsl like that.... mens are visual animals we derive pleasure just by looking at our sweet gf.... Girls are different they are audiotory
U must spend more time communicating with her and get to know her heart ... try to do something together go for a game or karaoke interact more ... good luck loh -
ur first gf then u say all the girls like that?Originally posted by raymond_sianz:Has a girlfriend for the past 3 months. She live very far. So normally i will either meet her up at central or go to school which is at west side to see her. No matter how tired I am I will still travel down to see her once a week. Sometime even just accompany her for just 4hrs looking at her doing her project make me quite happy. Even though sometimes she don't want to go out on Saturday (actually is most of the time. She want to stay at home and watch Tv. By the way her parents don't know about our relationship.) I also never really say anything. Yesterday wanted to meet her up, But she told me she wanted to watch tv becos last episode. So I say ok loh, if you wanna stay home just stay home. So she say since we meeting on Saturday. Then ended up she came home at 11pm and told me she was having fun with her friends and forget about the time. I really sometime don't understand her. I never been spending much quality time with her since she doing her school project. After she finished her project, the first thing she want is to watch tv or go out with her friends which she see almost everyday. I feel frustrated, she say i am didn't concern about her and just want to see her only. I think she taking me for granted. I feel i'm more inferior to a TV. She rather watch TV at home then to meet me up. I seriously don't know what goes wrong. What is wrong of wanted to meet her up which i almost meet her up sometimes not EVEN A BLOODY 1 once a week. I have been with her for 3 months. I meet her only like 12 times. I can EVEN COUNT. WHAT THE HELL. Seriously why do girls sometimes like to take things for granted. All the girls around me since to be like that. Is it because I'm always give in in things that they see I'm quite tasty to eat. By the way this is my 1st girlfriend. So please advise on that. Thank you.
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Mi also got such problem by behaving like this too...
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at least ur have a gf
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i felt she is not committed to you.
do you really love her very much and she can be your wife in future?
if yes, be more understanding and know her friends more so you can go out with them together in future.
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Suan le la.... l last time oso face such problems
when the gal is behaving in such a manner, it is like disrespect to u le...so y u tolerate...juz giv her up since she dun cherish u le...
u see, she rather be with her frenz than being with u, and she thinks the tv is more better than u....from what u say....
isit right for a gf to behave like this?
u think for urself lo...
giv it sum serious thoughts...u and her onli 3 months...dun drag and tolerate until 1 day she dun love u animore or make u feel more bad...
l regret taking up an r/s and was quite native in the past.... -
break up. It obviously isn't going to last for long.
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its the end of the relationship.
break up. if u dun, its ok. she will dump u anyway. -
long dist!?!
is this counted as long dist?!
this is the small country singapore -
sometimes both of you can be living in the same block but yet feel like a long distance relationship.
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Sounds like you are just satisfied to see her and watch her. Maybe she didn't think its enough. Though love is meant to be simple and pure, you need to have a sense of romance and try to stir up some surprise for her. Maybe for now, she just thinks you are too boring a person.
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just dump her la.
waste your time only, whole day antagonize you. No point in carrying on a relationship that makes you feel like shit right?
Wait later she dump you worse, get heart broken -
hmmm same problem here with my gf nw.... she enjoy her tv more than time spent with me plus she is damn LAZY...
Well I never give her as I still love her a lot so I try to slowly change her or even try to find some things to do when not wiht her maybe u can try out like what u guys say talk to her.. tell her how U feel..
Don't break up if u still love her or u might regret for yr life.. -
1st love usually dun last....
but not to worry almost everyone like dat... 
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u r still young..
since she prefers her schoolwork than having a relationship w u...
then let it be...this kind of r/s will not last long.
y not concentrate on your studies as well..
most imptly, brush up your english too.. thats my advice -
Why do people say that 1st love don't last?