I Can't Get Over Her ???

• Devil1976

  29 Jan 07, 00:50

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  dunno who i am gonna blame next maybe myself or her.....

  You're so NARROW-MINDED...? Why even bother...?
  
  Like I've said, you're the one who INSIST on keeping yourself in this sh|t hole, nobody can help you...
• smudgey

  29 Jan 07, 09:52

  Tank80,
  
  when you are trapped in a hole,
  
  We can throw down all the necessary tools for you to climb out (ladder, rope, stepping stool, etc)
  
  but if you yourself is unwilling to make an effort to climb out... no matter what we try to throw you to help will only sit there in that hole with you.
  
  Pls just get out la!
• blu_sky

  29 Jan 07, 09:55

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Now you blame army.

  oh, join the club! TS got a friend in the other thread.
• Bontakun

  29 Jan 07, 10:22

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  Tank80,
  
  when you are trapped in a hole,
  
  We can throw down all the necessary tools for you to climb out (ladder, rope, stepping stool, etc)
  
  but if you yourself is unwilling to make an effort to climb out... no matter what we try to throw you to help will only sit there in that hole with you.
  
  Pls just get out la!

  Throw bomb, skunk, faeces, nuculear reactor...
  
  This one hor, we are not in control liao. All we can do is offer our help but the TS has to decide whether he want to receive the help or not.
• Devil1976

  29 Jan 07, 12:34

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  oh, join the club! TS got a friend in the other thread.

  
• cyrusv2

  30 Jan 07, 00:26

  
• tankh80

  1 Feb 07, 20:01

  i dunno juz saw her at chinatown a few days back have a nice chat with her also from her i learnt that she has no more feelings for her current boyfriend liao i bluff her and said that i am found a new girlfriend but the truth is i am still waiting fior her really dunno what to do now.....
• norm

  1 Feb 07, 20:08

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  Is getting hot chicks really matter to you? Physical beauty and such? Wouldn't it be much better if the one you are looking for is pleasant to the eyes but a great person to everybody?
  
  Or you want girls with killer looks and body to die for? Those kind who can easily seduce guys and go astray if she is bored with you? God created you this way is for a reason. AND a GOOD one. I cannot tell you the reason. You have to find it yourself.

  You are crazy over her becos of her looks? Oh my god. Then one day when u meet another more pretty and more sexy gal, I wonder what will happen. When u go for looks, the relationship will not last. Becos u will always get to meet prettier gals in your life. Girls also go for looks too, don't forget.
• norm

  1 Feb 07, 20:10

  Originally posted by norm:

  You are crazy over her becos of her looks? Oh my god. Then one day when u meet another more pretty and more sexy gal, I wonder what will happen. When u go for looks, the relationship will not last. Becos u will always get to meet prettier gals in your life. Girls also go for looks too, don't forget.

  Relationships based on looks will seldom last. Becos the girl will grow ugly and saggy one day. You will then fall for another pretty gal.
• smudgey

  1 Feb 07, 20:19

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  i dunno juz saw her at chinatown a few days back have a nice chat with her also from her i learnt that she has no more feelings for her current boyfriend liao i bluff her and said that i am found a new girlfriend but the truth is i am still waiting fior her really dunno what to do now.....

  Seems to me that this TS only wants a place to rant/whine, and to keep an online 'diary'..... sigh
  
  *Takes a Golden Basin..... Fills it up with water.....*
  
  *Wash hands, arms and face with water*
  
• Devil1976

  2 Feb 07, 08:46

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  i dunno juz saw her at chinatown a few days back have a nice chat with her also from her i learnt that she has no more feelings for her current boyfriend liao i bluff her and said that i am found a new girlfriend but the truth is i am still waiting fior her really dunno what to do now.....

  Sorry to say this... But judging from the rate she's getting in and out of relationships... And the way she's 'having no more feelings'...? I can't help but to think that you're but only a passerby in her life, that you've totally over-rated yourself in this situation...
• tankh80

  2 Feb 07, 19:50

  i dun know what to said but haiz..... what to do this is life.....
• yuko-ogura

  3 Feb 07, 20:26

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  i dun know what to said but haiz..... what to do this is life.....

  ur doing fine so far.
  
  dun be qi4 nei3(discouraged)!
• tankh80

  10 Feb 07, 22:02

  sianz..... valentime day coming liao no one to spend it with me leh.....
• lonestar86

  11 Feb 07, 01:27

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  sianz..... valentime day coming liao no one to spend it with me leh.....

  my gf broke up with me aft i POP from BMT..
  that was abt 6 weeks ago..
  i can understand how u feel..
  cus i still can't really get over her too..
  hai~~
• Kuali Baba

  11 Feb 07, 03:01

  Ye two can have a lad's night together at the pub on Wednesday and gripe about your plights to each other.
  
  Just a suggestion.
• Devil1976

  12 Feb 07, 01:13

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  sianz..... valentime day coming liao no one to spend it with me leh.....

  So...? You won't be the only one who ain't attached that day what...?
• Bontakun

  12 Feb 07, 11:43

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  So...? You won't be the only one who ain't attached that day what...?

  He cannot think valentine's day can also be spent with friends and fostering relationship with the people he loves.
  
  His brain only has "woman, body, touch, kisses, pricate parts, etc, etc" in it.
• tankh80

  13 Feb 07, 15:20

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  He cannot think valentine's day can also be spent with friends and fostering relationship with the people he loves.
  
  His brain only has "woman, body, touch, kisses, pricate parts, etc, etc" in it.

  hey hey hey mind your words man I am not like that man.....
• Bontakun

  13 Feb 07, 15:38

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  hey hey hey mind your words man I am not like that man.....

  Then tell us what are you like?
• rainee

  13 Feb 07, 16:01

  this thread is TS' blog
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Feb 07, 16:06

  This thread abt r/s hor? I wanna read through leh, but no time. 18 page soo long.
• tankh80

  15 Feb 07, 23:06

  to me i thought that i can finally settle down when i know her get married have children and such but in the end i found out the truth she went steady with me juz coz her friends tell her to try too.... whay is she doing this only to caused herself hurt and me getting hurt in the process.....
• Dating Specialist

  15 Feb 07, 23:17

  Originally posted by tankh80:

  to me i thought that i can finally settle down when i know her get married have children and such but in the end i found out the truth she went steady with me juz coz her friends tell her to try too.... whay is she doing this only to caused herself hurt and me getting hurt in the process.....

  Seriously, do you really think she is ready to settle down and start a family, anytime soon?
  
  As a counsellor, even if you are a volunteer (I assume you've had some form of training), you should be able to gauge how long the process is going to take for her to pick up the pieces in her life, which you know as well as I do are pretty shattered now.
  
  And actually, if you realised you have fallen for you, it's strongly recommended that she seek counselling from someone else because you no longer can hold your objectiveness in counselling her.
  
  It's good to have a vision of what you want in your love life. At the same time, as with all goals, you need to ascertain if that's feasible, and what you need to do to achieve them.
• tankh80

  16 Feb 07, 09:55

  Maybe i was too down to earth or i was too high on cloud nine for me to think already that caused all this lor.....