I Can't Get Over Her ???
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Actually can leh.Originally posted by dokono:Girls...
how can we be your Prince all the time?
doko
Got typical prince charming, prince in shining armour, smart prince, handsome prince, rich prince, bold prince, attitude prince, crazy prince, stingy prince, sissy prince, la pi xiao xin prince, flashy prince, etc, etc...
Just that which prince those girls want? Coz got some princes more than one type. Some are 2 in 1, some even 3 in 1, but rarely got ALL in 1 lah. -
I can't imagine having a sissy Prince.Originally posted by Bontakun:Actually can leh.
Got typical prince charming, prince in shining armour, smart prince, handsome prince, rich prince, bold prince, attitude prince, crazy prince, stingy prince, sissy prince, la pi xiao xin prince, flashy prince, etc, etc...
Just that which prince those girls want? Coz got some princes more than one type. Some are 2 in 1, some even 3 in 1, but rarely got ALL in 1 lah.
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Hi,Originally posted by tankh80:I make a promise to her that i will wait all my life if i have to or else something bad will heappen to me and she know it...
I don't know how to call u, man or boy?
Come on..... becos of 1 girl, u gave up ur life???? There is a long way for u to walk in your future...... Don't gave up the jungle for a tree.....
Think abt ur parent that brought u up till 21 yrs old, don't u think u owe them alot rather than a girl that don't even know what is love at this age. -
Why don't you consider spending your time doing something more meaningful 1st...?Originally posted by tankh80:Hey guys i manage to get 999 xiang si dou already from pearl hill terrance there wow to my amazment there is really a lot of xiang si dou there got a whole lot there now to give it to hyer but i really dunno how to any ideas..... she said that whatever i do she won't return to me how man... -
I can't get my mind off of her what to do that's y i am doing these for her...
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Ok my bad yunnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeee.Originally posted by tankh80:I can't get my mind off of her what to do that's y i am doing these for her...
I was more of thinking besides councelling. Ya, hobbies and such wld be a good one to help lighten the mood and brighten the heart. -
Originally posted by Bontakun:Go do volunteer service.
That's a super bad choice; he was DOING it (don't know still doing anot)
Lemme refresh your memory:
He should go indulge in his hobbies or go spiritual.Originally posted by tankh80:hey thanks a lot man io read over all your post already fact is i try committing suicide in camp in the end one of my seageants stop me from doing it by informing my BOS sianz any can't they let me go and die i juz wanna end all my misery she is a bloody glue sniffer whereas i am a bloody CNB volunteer counseller i feel that i aren't doing enough to help her kick the habit when we were together also the guilt i got from her the feeling i know is true when we were together..... that's y i wan her to patch up with me so badly and the reason why i am willing to wait for her...
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You can't get your mind off her, that's why you need to be doing things FOR YOURSELF.... NOT for her.....Originally posted by tankh80:I can't get my mind off of her what to do that's y i am doing these for her... -
Tankh80,Originally posted by tankh80:Hi all I am a 21 years old NSF here recently my girlfriend just broke up with me she told me to face the harsh reality of she two-timing me. Really dunno how to get ovet this harsh times sometimes i really wanna get over with my life i try to take as much as 20 panandol with alcohol and still i am here talking to u guys, i try to commit suicide by standing in the middle of the road but the driver just manage to brake in time tell me guys am i seriously so stupid u must be thinking that i actually am right in actually fact i think i myself am very stupid why should i end my life just coz of a girl right but i really cannot get her out of my head i find that while i m driving outside i kind of like think of her suddenly and lost concentration on driving almost got into accident outside haiz sianz she is now with her new stead already and i also made a promise to her that i will wait for her to come back to me she knew about this and told me that she won't even come back to me anymore what to do man this is life anyway guys advice me on this really appreciate your help on this...
I've read through your posts and one thought comes to mind.
WAKE UP AND SMELL THE BLOODY COFFEE!!!
1) She cheated on you, is she even sorry? (from your first post she shows no remorse), she's not worth it! lets just say, IF she does decide to come back to you, Who's to say she wont cheat again?
2) You are basically using your life as a gun. saying come back or else,
Bloody INGRATE! She doesn't love you anymore! have you for once spared a thought for those around you who still love you? how would your mum feel knowing her son of 21 years have been doing all these things to himself, all for a gal?! Can you even begin to imagine the heartache?
3) She doesn't love you anymore. that part is apparent. why force her to be with you? do you think she'll be happy? If YOU really love her as much as you say you do, let her go. Let her and yourself have a chance of happiness apart.
Tankh80, I know I sound harsh, but I really cannot stand ppl who regard their most precious possesion, their life, as something so CHEAP!!!
My ex tried this. and i can tell you it won't work. it only prove to me that my decision to leave is the right one. Sad to say, he is still doing this with his current gal,
LIVE for yourself. not for her!
You CAN and WILL be happy again without her, you just have to give yourself that CHANCE!
LOOK at your mum. your dad, your grandparents, Do you really wanna break their hearts for someone who may not even shed a tear for you at your funeral?
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I think i try giving myself that chance to get over her but my mind is now made up i choose not to.....
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Your mind is YOU. You tell YOUR MIND what to do... Not the other way round for now....Originally posted by tankh80:I think i try giving myself that chance to get over her but my mind is now made up i choose not to..... -
i think you can be good friend with failureofthenation.
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tankh80,Originally posted by tankh80:I think i try giving myself that chance to get over her but my mind is now made up i choose not to.....
what u just said, it's a LOAD of CRAP!!!
you are simply acting like a COWARD!
you know that the road leading up to struggling to get over her is going to be a hard and long one. so you decided to choose the 'easy way out'
Yes, hanging on, obsessing over her, FEELING SORRY for yourself. that is the easy way out! cos this way u do not have to put in effort to make your life better, you can blame your misery on her not loving you back, you can look sentimental, faithful, to others. but this is a NEVER ENDING ROAD. Leading to nothing but more MISERY!
At least if you choose to get over her, this road will EVENTUALLY lead to you being happy again, I'm sure of that.
I do not believe in the "I can't live without you" crap! we all lived the first 10 - 20+ years of our lives without our gf/bf!!
Our Happiness is not an entitlement. it is not something that we inherit, it is not something that others are responsible to provide us with.
OUR HAPPINESS ARE OUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY!!!
so if you intend to do nothing but sit around and mop, moan, cry, and hurt yourself, don't expect your life to change for the better.
you can blame no one for your misery. only the person staring back at you in the mirror every day, cos you make a concious decision everyday to be miserable.
Bear that in mind tankh80. we here at AA have said almost all we could to help you. but the decision is ultimately yours. Choose WISELY! -
You know, certain guys cannot afford to be in a r/s.
TS, I think you are one of them. I don't think you should ever be attached again. Never ever get into a r/s again unless you dun take women seriously.
To think you can afford to die for her shows how weak and silly you are. You need to not take r/s so seriously. Just have fun. If there's no fun, goodbye. Find a new lover, new fun again. The cycle repeats until you see the light. There are certain girls to avoid and certain girls to keep. If your girl doesn't love you anymore, why should you keep her? You need to not take girls too personally.
Even after what I have said, it will still not sink into your head.
Oh well, up to you...
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I have face r/s problem before, feel hurt, despair cos mine ended quite badly. Think, do u wan to carry such a burden on ur shoulder that becomes a hurdle to a bright future that lies ahead?
Do u wan to be a better man establishing a career in life, providing for your family or rather spend a large portion of your life thinking abt the past knowing that all has come to a halt?
There will be alot of problems lying ahead of us, be it ur studies, career, family etc. If you cant face up with failure, how can you tackle all the problems in future? Making yourself miserable does not formulate any solutions to your problems.
I am not a brave guy as well. I took quite awhile to understand what i am lacking and what I need to do in order to move on.
U need time and read more from what others had suffered and what are the advices given. U will learn from it. -
I admit i am a coward i am a failure i choose the easy way out and such but i am sure u guys know how i am feeling right now looks to me like i wanna choose the easy way out..... so as to forget her totally ...
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u are contridicting yourself again once more.Originally posted by tankh80:I admit i am a coward i am a failure i choose the easy way out and such but i am sure u guys know how i am feeling right now looks to me like i wanna choose the easy way out..... so as to forget her totally ...
Pleas don't choose the easy way out.
trust me you'll get over her once you put your mind to it. Come on!!
I'm sure all your friends and the AA gangs will rally around you in support. But first u have to want it!
Pls make the right decision.
Although dokono's post was a bit extreme, donko is right in a way,
you should learn to love yourself more before attempting to love others. however unlike what dokono said, I'm sure you'll find love again, and you should, u deserve to find love and be in a relationship again, just not now. Love yourself first, cherish what you have in your life now.
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hey man, since u dun want to own ur life......why not give it to me? i can make full use of it beyond what u can. DEAL? give it all to me
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heeheeheeOriginally posted by nightage:hey man, since u dun want to own ur life......why not give it to me? i can make full use of it beyond what u can. DEAL? give it all to me
we got another devil in our midst!!!!
hehehe
As if one Devil is not enough!!!
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i also want lehOriginally posted by nightage:hey man, since u dun want to own ur life......why not give it to me? i can make full use of it beyond what u can. DEAL? give it all to me -
oh wow i cant believe people are finding this funny and that people are actually joking about this whole thing
if you have nothing better to say just go somewhere else to +1 -
if you have nothing better to say just go somewhere else too
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tankh80... u have to believe us when we tell you that some of us (me included) have been through this and it hurts hurts hurts but it WILL BECOME BETTER!
tell yourself honestly if you do anything silly to yourself you are only trying to make her feel guilty and come back to you... its not the "easy way out". the easy way out is to everyday lie in bed don't do anything except cry and stone...
look for your frens to talk with and go out with them. you really have just got to give it a try... -
I think i wanna shut myself out from the outside world...
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hey dumbassOriginally posted by tankh80:Hi all I am a 21 years old NSF here recently my girlfriend just broke up with me she told me to face the harsh reality of she two-timing me. Really dunno how to get ovet this harsh times sometimes i really wanna get over with my life i try to take as much as 20 panandol with alcohol and still i am here talking to u guys, i try to commit suicide by standing in the middle of the road but the driver just manage to brake in time tell me guys am i seriously so stupid u must be thinking that i actually am right in actually fact i think i myself am very stupid why should i end my life just coz of a girl right but i really cannot get her out of my head i find that while i m driving outside i kind of like think of her suddenly and lost concentration on driving almost got into accident outside haiz sianz she is now with her new stead already and i also made a promise to her that i will wait for her to come back to me she knew about this and told me that she won't even come back to me anymore what to do man this is life anyway guys advice me on this really appreciate your help on this...
you are only 21 years old!if you can live for another 20 years or more so, you will have the chance to face more rejections in life, more pain, more woman treatingyou like a piece of crap!so take control of your life, take revenge on womanhood, be the best player in town!
by the way , you are such a loser. over a girl you want to kill yourself
she is not worth it, you have yet to find the person that will love you like you love her
dumbass wake up!
instead of taking panadol take steroids!