I Can't Get Over Her ???
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Originally posted by smudgey:heeheehee
we got another devil in our midst!!!!
hehehe
As if one Devil is not enough!!!
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Why don't you go counselling or see a professional or something...?Originally posted by tankh80:I think i wanna shut myself out from the outside world... -
I simply don't see how much easier it is since you've ALREADY suffered so much... Just maybe depriving yourself of opportunities to lead a better and more meaningful life in the future maybe...?Originally posted by tankh80:I admit i am a coward i am a failure i choose the easy way out and such but i am sure u guys know how i am feeling right now looks to me like i wanna choose the easy way out..... so as to forget her totally ...
I'm beginning to see why she shouldn't even be interested in you at all now...
Because you're simply worthless... Worthless because of the way you're making yourself to be.... Without gaining back your self-worth, I simply fail to see why anyone should be interested in you at all....? -
I lose all my self confidence already juz said whatever u wan lah...
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go find this game called texun.exe, beat 130 seconds then come back to me. i give you 5 bucks. Use a decently fast com though.Originally posted by tankh80:I lose all my self confidence already juz said whatever u wan lah...
okay. i've given you new meaning in your life. stop thinking of her -
that is not related to the tpoic here lor...
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hey Tankh80,Originally posted by tankh80:I lose all my self confidence already juz said whatever u wan lah...
Pls listen to Devil. go talk to a counsellor. I'm sure Devil can pass you the numbers...
pls, if you do not wanna do this for yourself, do it for all those who still love you.
It'll get better, it will!!! pls give yourself another chance. -
U need to talk to someone who can straighten up ur priorities. U cant continue dwelling into the past. Stop looking back. Think abt the future.
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It is like my mind is already made up i wanna go back to the past or forever stay in the past the three months we had together..... i really cannot forget it...
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ok guys...
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what do i do guys i am very confused now...
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Tankh80, I've already said all i can to advice you. I've already outright told you what to do (which is to make up ur mind to live happy),Originally posted by tankh80:what do i do guys i am very confused now...
but you refuse to listen. and YET you are still asking us what you should do. I'm beginning to think you are only here for the attention. that all of our efforts are for nothing!
Tankh80! Wake up! If i could slap you now I will! Wake up and see that ONLY YOU can save yourself, ONLY YOU can make yourself feel better! NO ONE ELSE CAN HELP YOU!
so Stop Whining.!!! AND ACT LIKE A MAN and live happy! -
TS
the loser is not you.
the loser is not your ex.
the loser is your parents and siblings and close friends.
Think about it.
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Originally posted by tankh80:what do i do guys i am very confused now...
You are not confused - you are just extremely obstinate.
You just want to do things your own way - like a spoilt brat disregarding the world as you fling your arms in the air and kicks the floor furiously as you make demands of having your woman. When reality refuse you, you chose to continue your annoying scene by remaining on the spot as if mummy will return and pacify you.
OH GAWD! Fcuking grow up.... grow those maturity for god sake. tankh80? You are probably 26? Please act like one?
Here you are walloping in self pity as she make merry with her new beau.
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Here's a typical conversation that she would have with her new beau:
'Hey, just curious, how was your ex-boyfriend?'
'You mean tankh80? It has never been better to leave him.'
'That bad?'
"Trust me, you would never want to know.'
*** It's just a fcuking failed relationship, involving a woman who has two timed you and you had to moan like you had it worst.
Every fcuker here has their own sad story and eventually, they have to wake themselves up because they realise this world doesn't stop for them - they stagnant their own growth.
Just fcuking grow up.
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hey she juz broke up with her new boyfriend ok..... and she isn't this type of person...
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I am amazed how this person just brushed your post off....Originally posted by Yunhaier:Just fcuking grow up.
Period
First time seeing it. 
Arh neh. -
Hi guys, after seeing so many pages of posts revolving the same guy's issue, so many consolations, advises, scoldings but the threadstarter still refuses to open his eyes despite obvious good reasons.
I've seen such people quite a few times in my life before. Spells only one thing. He is a moron who only like to play victim in order to attract sympathy.
Let's ignore this idiot and let him dwell in his own fallacy of self pity. Such men deserves no pity. If he wants to die, I think no one can stop him.
Some of your advises are very sound even though some are blunt. Let those people who help themselves receive these advises rather than waste them on someone not worthwhile. -
Don't give up on him.Originally posted by MS:Hi guys, after seeing so many pages of posts revolving the same guy's issue, so many consolations, advises, scoldings but the threadstarter still refuses to open his eyes despite obvious good reasons.
I've seen such people quite a few times in my life before. Spells only one thing. He is a moron who only like to play victim in order to attract sympathy.
Let's ignore this idiot and let him dwell in his own fallacy of self pity. Such men deserves no pity. If he wants to die, I think no one can stop him.
Some of your advises are very sound even though some are blunt. Let those people who help themselves receive these advises rather than waste them on someone not worthwhile.
Maybe if are in his shoes, you might think differently.
Give him time to be patient with himself.
All we do are only write in posts, exercising our fingers.
I dunno if that is called a lot of help.
Some people just need more time.
This forum is just one of the few places for his ranting.
doko -
I'd suggest - he should PM those whom he think could listen to him and counsel him well.Originally posted by dokono:Don't give up on him.
Maybe if are in his shoes, you might think differently.
Give him time to be patient with himself.
All we do are only write in posts, exercising our fingers.
I dunno if that is called a lot of help.
Some people just need more time.
This forum is just one of the few places for his ranting.
doko
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Let those who have the compassion to help him PM him.
And guide him at a personal level.
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He's not stupid, he just needs more time.Originally posted by MS:Hi guys, after seeing so many pages of posts revolving the same guy's issue, so many consolations, advises, scoldings but the threadstarter still refuses to open his eyes despite obvious good reasons.
I've seen such people quite a few times in my life before. Spells only one thing. He is a moron who only like to play victim in order to attract sympathy.
Let's ignore this idiot and let him dwell in his own fallacy of self pity. Such men deserves no pity. If he wants to die, I think no one can stop him.
Some of your advises are very sound even though some are blunt. Let those people who help themselves receive these advises rather than waste them on someone not worthwhile.
And currently, I would think he's more valuable than many of you might think he's not for him to just die like that... -
Like I've told you, stop thinking WITHIN her STRINGS of THOUGHTS...Originally posted by tankh80:hey she juz broke up with her new boyfriend ok..... and she isn't this type of person...
GET YOURSELF FOCUSED 1st. OTHERWISE you'll just LOST YOURSELF. And ULTIMATELY HER and the REST of the OTHERS who is IN NEED of your HELP. -
Wow! This thread is still goin on!?
Devil is really patient. Impressive. -
no sympathy for people who say they want to die
only encouragement for people who say they want to live! -
Haiz...Originally posted by M©+square:I am amazed how this person just brushed your post off....
First time seeing it.
Arh neh. 
Ok enough words le... don't want to fuel this self pity nature of his anymore.
I should just speak to the girl man.
Cheers -
Right now i am like in a dilemma whether to let her go or to hold on...