When u were 15..
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How much freedom did u get?
Like weekdays must return home by what time? Go out need to call parents inform anot? Weekends lei?
I just find that my dad, is really abit overboard at times. Weekdays when I go out, he kpkb.. den now i dont go out at all already. Cuz always kena scolding. Friends ask me out, I just say tio grounded, even though in actual fact, I have not been grounded, but my present circumstance can already be matched up to being grounded.
Weekends I have to be back by 6 pm..
I mean is this what a 15 yr old boy should get? This sort of freedom? I dont smoke or anything. I dont have a single disciplinary record since sec1. And yea this is what i get..
Even up till now when its the holi's, the same rule applies.. Wth man, i think life as a 15 yr old for me in my family just sucks. reali.
And for gods sake, im not a girl... argh.
Another qns, do results really come along with freedom? Im currently in NA, used to be in express last year, din study and dropped to where I currently am. But so what, in sec2 i was still treated the same way. Wth man.. -
that was how i was treated when i was 5
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i just got a small scolding when i came back at 4am after a meetup last christmas
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its for ur own gd boy....
from express drop to na...all the more must curfew -
glc, u the only child?
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nope.. i got a bro and hes 20 dis year..Originally posted by Rock^Star:glc, u the only child?
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funny, u look like the only son. ur parents are a little stricter than the avg parents. It can be stifling but it's like that. The day that u take ur allowance from them, u have to listen to them.Originally posted by gLc:nope.. i got a bro and hes 20 dis year..
Practise some patience here and when u enter jc or ns, things may be different -
When I was 15, I was in a triple science class. I rarely go out. But whenever I do, I get to be home by 11pm.
Now, I have to be home by 10pm. I'm 18. But I go out every weekend. -
is ur elder brother still under curfew?
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I know! Ask Him to bring you out! Then after both you and your brother walked out of the house, go out with your friends lor.Originally posted by gLc:nope.. i got a bro and hes 20 dis year.. -
single parent?
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i dont know why.. but its just my dad alone. Times when my dad isnt in Sg, my mum allows me to wreck havoc and go out and do whatever i want. As my mum and dad actually work at the same workplace, my mum knows when my dad is going back home or not. Times my mum would just give me a call telling me when my dad is going home..Originally posted by Rock^Star:funny, u look like the only son. ur parents are a little stricter than the avg parents. It can be stifling but it's like that. The day that u take ur allowance from them, u have to listen to them.
Practise some patience here and when u enter jc or ns, things may be different
I reali appreaciate what my mum does.
Times i get so fustrated and pissed that during the day i just DOTA and MAPLE all the day even though countless reminders have been told to make me study. I attribute my results and failures in academic studies to my loss of freedom. I envy my friends when they can go out catch a movie after school, go play pool and stuff.. and return home by 9 pm on weekdays itself. Weekends they are allowed not before 2 am. Whenever i think of this, i just cannot bring myself to study and put in the work. The more my dad tells me me to study, the more i rebel and not study as i hate the way im given my freedom.
Life sux.
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wah piang. The age difference 5 years.. how to pretend to go out together, he has his own frens and stuff already!Originally posted by shade343:I know! Ask Him to bring you out! Then after both you and your brother walked out of the house, go out with your friends lor. -
can la.Originally posted by gLc:wah piang. The age difference 5 years.. how to pretend to go out together, he has his own frens and stuff already!
i got go out with pri 6 kids. -
nope....Originally posted by Ito_^:single parent? -
u pedo bear!Originally posted by Ito_^:can la.
i got go out with pri 6 kids.
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U can't possibly change ur dad's way of thinking right? It's difficult yeh cos at this age, u wana belong to groups of friends and do what they do right.Originally posted by gLc:i dont know why.. but its just my dad alone. Times when my dad isnt in Sg, my mum allows me to wreck havoc and go out and do whatever i want. As my mum and dad actually work at the same workplace, my mum knows when my dad is going back home or not. Times my mum would just give me a call telling me when my dad is going home..
I reali appreaciate what my mum does.
Times i get so fustrated and pissed that during the day i just DOTA and MAPLE all the day even though countless reminders have been told to make me study. I attribute my results and failures in academic studies to my loss of freedom. I envy my friends when they can go out catch a movie after school, go play pool and stuff.. and return home by 9 pm on weekdays itself. Weekends they are allowed not before 2 am. Whenever i think of this, i just cannot bring myself to study and put in the work. The more my dad tells me me to study, the more i rebel and not study as i hate the way im given my freedom.
Life sux.
Try to ask ur mum why ur dad functions the way he does and if possible, have a talk with ur dad too. put yourself in his shoes and don't always feel that u are always being severely restricted. parents may seem to an absurd way of thinking at times but they love u very much. try ur best to understand why ur dad is so strict.
Sometimes, it's a matter of how we re-position our mindset. U don;t have a choice here, cos if u rebel against ur dad openly, there's gona be no more harmony in the family. -
WHen I was 15, I was also in a triple science class. Since I had above average results, I could go out and do what I want and den come back late.Originally posted by Quinsy:When I was 15, I was in a triple science class. I rarely go out. But whenever I do, I get to be home by 11pm.
Now, I have to be home by 10pm. I'm 18. But I go out every weekend.
I came back at 5am before. My parents didnt say anything becos I submitted a report on my observations of what went on at Pasir Ris Mrt from 1-4am. -
I can do what ever i want, couse they know me, im a good boy!!
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/kick chiu!!!Originally posted by gLc:u pedo bear! -
Hmm, ok what, you can tell your dad you going out with his friends...Originally posted by gLc:wah piang. The age difference 5 years.. how to pretend to go out together, he has his own frens and stuff already! -
But...but...you watch porn!Originally posted by sand king:I can do what ever i want, couse they know me, im a good boy!! -
And yea.. I have taken part in cs competitions and won money.
My mum actually encourages me, she wishes me the best of luck before the competition.
My dad on the other hand hates me playing the com, so of course he doesnt know I take part in competitions, and close to winning dota compy! My dad doubts my skill, he believes that studying would be the only way to support myself, to provide him the means to play golf next time, to take care of him, its like giving birth to me would secure hes old age.
And back to the topic, I have not only won one tourney but quite a few already from just cs-ing alone. My dad and I once argued he wouldnt give a crap bout me if he takes away the com, as thats what he hates me doing. Many atimes I give in as I kinda got daily training schedules, but lately, I cant take it anymore.. And im gonan just fark him upside down when the report books comes back. I dont give a fuck anymore. -
thanks for ure constructive reply!!Originally posted by shade343:Hmm, ok what, you can tell your dad you going out with his friends... -
study for your own good, not his.Originally posted by gLc:And yea.. I have taken part in cs competitions and won money.
My mum actually encourages me, she wishes me the best of luck before the competition.
My dad on the other hand hates me playing the com, so of course he doesnt know I take part in competitions, and close to winning dota compy! My dad doubts my skill, he believes that studying would be the only way to support myself, to provide him the means to play golf next time, to take care of him, its like giving birth to me would secure hes old age.
And back to the topic, I have not only won one tourney but quite a few already from just cs-ing alone. My dad and I once argued he wouldnt give a crap bout me if he takes away the com, as thats what he hates me doing. Many atimes I give in as I kinda got daily training schedules, but lately, I cant take it anymore.. And im gonan just fark him upside down when the report books comes back. I dont give a fuck anymore.
i suggest u use something else to piss him off.