If she no longer wants to be in the relationship, there is nothing you can do to make her stay...Originally posted by mitgalant:Hi guys,
i am currently in a relationship of 2.8 yrs. recently i had a major quarrel with my gf. Then we stopped contactin one another for like 1 to 2 months. During this standoff, she starts to get independent and starts goin out with her frens.
Meanwhile over at my side, i am tryin my best to see if i really want this relationship. She assured me that she still want this relationship
After much consideration for a month or so, i finally got back to her. We started doin things like goin out, to the beach etc but suddenly, when i ask her, y is she so cold towards me, she replied me that she no longer feel the same in this relationship
She prefers her singlehood now. She is enjoyin herself now. Every friday night clubbin all these.
She does not seems interested in this relationship now.
What can i do to make her come back to me like the past ? I really really love her alot.
Can give me some advises. Thanks
Good luck man. She has discovered that life without you is actually better for her in her own opinion.Originally posted by mitgalant:Hi guys,
i am currently in a relationship of 2.8 yrs. recently i had a major quarrel with my gf. Then we stopped contactin one another for like 1 to 2 months. During this standoff, she starts to get independent and starts goin out with her frens.
Meanwhile over at my side, i am tryin my best to see if i really want this relationship. She assured me that she still want this relationship
After much consideration for a month or so, i finally got back to her. We started doin things like goin out, to the beach etc but suddenly, when i ask her, y is she so cold towards me, she replied me that she no longer feel the same in this relationship
She prefers her singlehood now. She is enjoyin herself now. Every friday night clubbin all these.
She does not seems interested in this relationship now.
What can i do to make her come back to me like the past ? I really really love her alot.
Can give me some advises. Thanks
have a talk with her? ask her where she wants this r/s to go, whether she still wants to keep it or not...Originally posted by mitgalant:how to make her come back to me ?
is there any other ways to make things work out better ?
how to strike her in the emotional way ?
she told me i am her ideal husbandbut she wants to have fun and might come back to me after all the fun, but i dun wan that to happened.
Time will tell........Originally posted by mitgalant:how to make her come back to me ?
is there any other ways to make things work out better ?
how to strike her in the emotional way ?
she told me i am her ideal husbandbut she wants to have fun and might come back to me after all the fun, but i dun wan that to happened.
hmm...i tink she got problem of committing to the relationship...ask her how long will she take before she returns to you? Are you willing to wait for her? And what if she meets someone else whom she thinks is more exciting and goes into a r/s with him?Originally posted by mitgalant:she juz told me that "she duno what she really want"
she told me " how she wish to have some fun and come back to me next time again"
haiz. i really dun wanna lose her. yet this is all happenin.
I am feelin very down and i am facin a very lack of confidence problem now.
U r at ur weakest now, so the only advice u wanna listen to is, "How can i get her back?"Originally posted by mitgalant:she juz told me that "she duno what she really want"
she told me " how she wish to have some fun and come back to me next time again"
haiz. i really dun wanna lose her. yet this is all happenin.
I am feelin very down and i am facin a very lack of confidence problem now.
Can you tell us what is the major quarrel about? Were you wrong? If so, quickly apologise. But I tell you, it might be too late.Originally posted by mitgalant:Hi guys,
i am currently in a relationship of 2.8 yrs. recently i had a major quarrel with my gf. Then we stopped contactin one another for like 1 to 2 months. During this standoff, she starts to get independent and starts goin out with her frens.
Meanwhile over at my side, i am tryin my best to see if i really want this relationship. She assured me that she still want this relationship
After much consideration for a month or so, i finally got back to her. We started doin things like goin out, to the beach etc but suddenly, when i ask her, y is she so cold towards me, she replied me that she no longer feel the same in this relationship
She prefers her singlehood now. She is enjoyin herself now. Every friday night clubbin all these.
She does not seems interested in this relationship now.
What can i do to make her come back to me like the past ? I really really love her alot.
Can give me some advises. Thanks
You didn't contact her within that 1-2 months' break?Originally posted by mitgalant:she juz told me that "she duno what she really want"
she told me " how she wish to have some fun and come back to me next time again"
haiz. i really dun wanna lose her. yet this is all happenin.
I am feelin very down and i am facin a very lack of confidence problem now.
why not you let her enjoy her single-hood first...Originally posted by mitgalant:Hi guys,
i am currently in a relationship of 2.8 yrs. recently i had a major quarrel with my gf. Then we stopped contactin one another for like 1 to 2 months. During this standoff, she starts to get independent and starts goin out with her frens.
Meanwhile over at my side, i am tryin my best to see if i really want this relationship. She assured me that she still want this relationship
After much consideration for a month or so, i finally got back to her. We started doin things like goin out, to the beach etc but suddenly, when i ask her, y is she so cold towards me, she replied me that she no longer feel the same in this relationship
She prefers her singlehood now. She is enjoyin herself now. Every friday night clubbin all these.
She does not seems interested in this relationship now.
What can i do to make her come back to me like the past ? I really really love her alot.
Can give me some advises. Thanks
talk with her?Originally posted by mitgalant:how to make her come back to me ?
is there any other ways to make things work out better ?
how to strike her in the emotional way ?
she told me i am her ideal husbandbut she wants to have fun and might come back to me after all the fun, but i dun wan that to happened.
i agree with rainee...Originally posted by rainee:hmm...i tink she got problem of committing to the relationship...ask her how long will she take before she returns to you? Are you willing to wait for her? And what if she meets someone else whom she thinks is more exciting and goes into a r/s with him?
Basically she wants to have her cake and eat it too![]()
to me, she wants to play with no guilt, and by that i mean get to know guys, flirt, have fun and have the freedom of a single gal.Originally posted by Gedanken:Hmm - she said she wants to go out and have fun. One interpretation of that is that you're no fun. On the other hand, she could have an odd definition of what fun is - do you have any idea what it is?
Originally posted by mitgalant:she juz told me that "she duno what she really want"
she told me " how she wish to have some fun and come back to me next time again"
haiz. i really dun wanna lose her. yet this is all happenin.
I am feelin very down and i am facin a very lack of confidence problem now.
i am not controllin her at all. in fact i gave her lots of freedom.Originally posted by Devil1976:You didn't contact her within that 1-2 months' break?
Personally.. I feel that the least you can do for her now is to give her some room and space?
Are you too controlling and possessive over her?
Dunno means her feelings to you not high enough to choose you.Originally posted by mitgalant:guys, i am devastated. i juz learnt that she actually got a guy, tat is m age and he is there for her when i am in the "cold war" period with her.
She knw tat guy for like 2 weeks only.
now i ask her to choose one, our r/s which is 2.9 mths or the guy which is 2 weeks.
she cant give me an ans!
she only say she duno and ask if can i wait? if she regret she wanna come back to me.
she said she scare she regret her choice!
What can i do now ? i dun wanna lose her. Yet i need to be fair to myself.
help me out guys! beg u all!!