Nobody's asking you to try too hard and hope that everything would just disappear overnight. The least you can do is not to go do things which would rub on your wound while you're already in pain. i.e. Go meet her, go and indulge in places / songs / things you used to share together.Originally posted by mitgalant:i will really try my best ba? i did tried very hard, i did try to forget everythin today, but haiz, i failed.
really need lots of time. i guess i am juz too deeply in the pit now. i am so sorry guys to make u all repeat and repeat. give me more time. i cant totally show u guys that i will be the new me the next day.cos i kwn it wont happened.
still tryin to do somethin to myself. i think i am already in the situation where i am too wounded to do anythin. way too wounded.
really tired. yet i am still tryin watever i can.
I suggest you stay away from girls for the time being. You know yourself best. You know how long you need. But the one thing is for sure: she is not coming back. Get involved in some activity, play some games. Go buy PS3. It's $1399 cheap..plus GST 7%, maybe more. You might forget girls after you get involved in PS3.Originally posted by mitgalant:i will really try my best ba? i did tried very hard, i did try to forget everythin today, but haiz, i failed.
really need lots of time. i guess i am juz too deeply in the pit now. i am so sorry guys to make u all repeat and repeat. give me more time. i cant totally show u guys that i will be the new me the next day.cos i kwn it wont happened.
still tryin to do somethin to myself. i think i am already in the situation where i am too wounded to do anythin. way too wounded.
really tired. yet i am still tryin watever i can.
Find things to do when you wake up already but has nothing to do.Originally posted by mitgalant:well, wont be buyin the ps3 for sure. will try my best to see what i can do ba.
the most jialet problem nw is when i wake up in the mornin. every mornin when i wake up, definately i will be very very very emtional and pek cek. also duno y. juz hate that feelin. any ways to counter it ? it juz suck every mornin to wake up and find out tat ur gf is actually gone for now.
take a very gd example. i juz woke up now. but frm 4am onwards, i have nt been slpin well until like 8.30? keep havin flashes and also keep worryin abt this and that abt her. i juz cant stop myself frm this thing every mornin.the feelin is terrible. i think if this carry on for long, i scare it will affect me mental sia. really cant stand it anymore.
You really need a lot a lot of time buddy.Originally posted by mitgalant:well, wont be buyin the ps3 for sure. will try my best to see what i can do ba.
the most jialet problem nw is when i wake up in the mornin. every mornin when i wake up, definately i will be very very very emtional and pek cek. also duno y. juz hate that feelin. any ways to counter it ? it juz suck every mornin to wake up and find out tat ur gf is actually gone for now.
take a very gd example. i juz woke up now. but frm 4am onwards, i have nt been slpin well until like 8.30? keep havin flashes and also keep worryin abt this and that abt her. i juz cant stop myself frm this thing every mornin.the feelin is terrible. i think if this carry on for long, i scare it will affect me mental sia. really cant stand it anymore.
Yes. Looking FORWARD and moving FORWARD is only one of the more practical ways to slowly leave the PAST falls behind...Originally posted by mitgalant:haiz, guess i am lackin the determination. but still i will try my very very best to accept the fact. i think i shd juz tell myself everyday its over and pls give up. maybe i am too stubborn and also i have allow myself to fall real deep inside this relationship.
well guys, thanks for everythin. although i dun knw u all, u all still help me alot and are very very very very patient with me. i really duno how to thank u all. really nice of u guys! really.
now i juz need to slowly adapt to my life. its hard, and its a long journey. but i will still try and expand my social circle. as well as start to look forward.