how can you tell whether a girl likes you a not???
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x2Originally posted by marchieaddict:eheheh think so hard for what?
just open your mouth and ask..
if she likes you, she might agree to explore further..
if she doesn't, she will reject..
either way, better than guessing right?
I'm a gal.. and i find this so much easier and better too... i've been in situations whereby the guy just asked me out to outings with his friends and stuff and i know he is interested and i kind of like him.. but he didnt take action at all.. till when someone else comes along later and was more aggressive.. i gave up waiting and just went out with the other guy... what for? All these guessing games.. tiring...
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When she gets comfortable with a friend, it's her move.
To make her interested in you and to make yourself desirable to her, it's your move.
so what shuuld be my move like? -
ya...when talkin to her exaggerate on ur assets.how long , how thick , how powerful. she did probably impress by it and fall for you. good luck =DOriginally posted by nanren4ever:Then i guess I just to try harder to make her not only comfortable with me, but also fall in love with me ah? -
u see too much mediacorp show liao lar.Originally posted by ifish:funny.. isnt it most likely the guy save the girl? -
easy JUST ASK HER... you will get a very clear answer...Originally posted by nightlord24:Yes like what the title said. What are the signs a girl will be showing if she likes you??? both answers from ladies and guys are appreciated thank you~ -
Originally posted by cAr|n:
Haiz, if these are the signs that a girl likes the opposite sex, then ok. But the thing is, if the girl is friendly to almost everyone u know, and goes out with them alone, that's the problem.
haha sometimes even girls also mix up friendly feelings and romantic feelings
but generally if i like someone i'll talk to him, till late at night, and don't mind going out alone with him
i think if a girl likes u u should be able to feel it ba (i hope)
Gosh, I don't know why I just keep falling for "friendly" girls.
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You can't, that's the whole point of the game.Originally posted by nightlord24:Yes like what the title said. What are the signs a girl will be showing if she likes you??? both answers from ladies and guys are appreciated thank you~ -
Agree. You think it is mathematics? got formula?Originally posted by ditzy:You can't, that's the whole point of the game. -
i think the reason why most guys are afraid to ask because, if the gal reject, the gal might start to avoid the guy. Which then affect their friendship. Which what the guy dont want to happen.
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totally agree with ifish, cant we just be friends after that???
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was wondering, if u just get to know a girl
- how will it be possible for u to make her wanna know u more?
- if u are not given the chance, like say she reply ur sms half heartedly?
i find it very difficult to show her ur inner beauty, thats why! how to unlock this mentality ? -
Originally posted by marchieaddict:eheheh think so hard for what?
just open your mouth and ask..
if she likes you, she might agree to explore further..
if she doesn't, she will reject..
either way, better than guessing right?
I'm a gal.. and i find this so much easier and better too... i've been in situations whereby the guy just asked me out to outings with his friends and stuff and i know he is interested and i kind of like him.. but he didnt take action at all.. till when someone else comes along later and was more aggressive.. i gave up waiting and just went out with the other guy... what for? All these guessing games.. tiring...
Hello, marchieaddict, I share the same sentiment. Will do the same! Ya, so tired about the guessing game or "ai mei" games. Guys, is it very fun to play such games with gals? Many gals including myself don't like such games. Gals prefer guys to be sincere and make the move. Playing games many times will lead to nothing! -
i think this depend on the girl's character... in most cases if she likes u as a fren in the first place after she knows that u like her if she not interested romantically, should not make a difference and can continue to be frens or even close frens. i am gd exampleOriginally posted by ifish:i think the reason why most guys are afraid to ask because, if the gal reject, the gal might start to avoid the guy. Which then affect their friendship. Which what the guy dont want to happen.
became close frens with some of them whom expressed interest but i not interested..
but of cos initially after she reject u if u keep moan and groan or keep trying then she will not want to hang out with u lah. so if not mutual just move on and look forward to be frens instead and dun hope anymore lor.
i also tink guys should jus ASK if they are interested!! of cos not very fair why always the guy must do the asking but aiyah if one party must do it then let the guys take the lead in this area... -
AgreedOriginally posted by loti39:i think this depend on the girl's character... in most cases if she likes u as a fren in the first place after she knows that u like her if she not interested romantically, should not make a difference and can continue to be frens or even close frens. i am gd example became close frens with some of them whom expressed interest but i not interested..
but of cos initially after she reject u if u keep moan and groan or keep trying then she will not want to hang out with u lah. so if not mutual just move on and look forward to be frens instead and dun hope anymore lor.
i also tink guys should jus ASK if they are interested!! of cos not very fair why always the guy must do the asking but aiyah if one party must do it then let the guys take the lead in this area... -
With ref to my post on the guy should just ask...Originally posted by ifish:i think the reason why most guys are afraid to ask because, if the gal reject, the gal might start to avoid the guy. Which then affect their friendship. Which what the guy dont want to happen.
Outcome 1: Gal also like guy.. Gal and Guy continues dating etc.. Bingo!
Outcome 2: Gal not sure but willing to know guy better.. Continues to date and give guy chance.. Bingo!
Outcome 3: Gal not interested to know guy better...Guy should just give up hope and move on or alternatively can still continue to show his interest (but please dun suffocate her..confirm will make her avoid you at all cost) and eventually give up when next target comes along.. Bingo!
I feel that if the girl is mature enough (not sure average age of guys asking this question), she will be able to handle the situation beautifully without making you feel bad. Having said that, if she has no interest and rejects you, you still wanna hang around meh? No right? Then worry about friendship being affected for wot??? Weird la u....