Originally posted by set_n_go:
i got a gf for almost 4 years, things were fine and well. one day, my gf asked for a break up cuz she wants to move on and try a new relationship.. i was shocked and i broke down. how could she put a full stop to it and do this to me? or why the sudden she got this thinking bout moving on when things are fine? i thought i know her.. i don't deserve this and its so heartless. i don't mistreat her or anything.
she denies when i asked her whether theres anyone in the story but i found out that shes sort of seeing another guy. i was decieved and naive. my sadness is growing each and everyday.
i want to get over it and i cant. its so hard~ she told me that we can still be good friends. but FRIENDS?? how am i going to accept her as a friend when she do this to me? this is so unacceptable. and i will be more hurt if i see her in the future. sigh... thanks for reading.
Hmm l tink l can understand the pain u go through...4 yrs summore..is really a long period of time u n her are together..the efforts, everything, time, love u put in...l noe it all
My case is oso a bit like urs...my ex gf oso leave me...altot she nver inititaed breakup...but l noe she wants a breakup but she is scare of telling me..cuz she dun wan to hurt my heart..but which guys can really stand their gf not loving them fully? Seriously l cnt accept it..l dun wan such a r/s..and most imptly l dun wan her to be unhappy in her heart oso..that is y l help her say out...
Maybe u can try ask her out for a talk? Ask her the reasons if u really need to have..
Cuz l tink is like final liao lo...u juz cnt possibly force her to love u again...love is sumtinz that cannot be forced..u see...Think is the things in her heart bah...altot she nver say out what u do that irks her or make her unhappy..but all these things keep accumlating in her heart until her love for her faded....u get the point?
Suan le...l noe u are very sad and very down..if u need a tok...feel free to contact any of the forumities...Most of them are very nice ppl..and they let me noe alot of things abt life and l am motivated by them to learn more things oso...noe abt things in life..and how to look things in positive way...
And here to thank bontakun again who send me a pm to console me abt my problem that time...really own him a very big thanks =)
meanwhile use the time...to enrich urself with knowledge..learn new stuffs..make more frenz...ur right one will be coming soon de, ur gf is juz not the right one for u...u see .. ^^