How? How?

• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 15:48

  in a few hours time i will be having dinner with my family.
  
  i have not had dinner with them for 3 years because of my anxiety problems.
  
  i have been nervous all day and the feeling is getting from bad to worst.
  
  
• FireIce

  9 Feb 07, 15:49

  go take a nap
• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 15:51

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  go take a nap

  if only i can sleep...
  
  
• Ito_^

  9 Feb 07, 15:53

  go whine in my one line whine thread.
• smudgey

  9 Feb 07, 15:54

  Originally posted by dragg:

  in a few hours time i will be having dinner with my family.
  
  i have not had dinner with them for 3 years because of my anxiety problems.
  
  i have been nervous all day and the feeling is getting from bad to worst.
  
  

  take a deep breath... and do something to help you relax....
  
  like.... play game, read a book.... etc.
  
  remember they are FAMILY.... They'll love you no matter what
• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 16:44

  actually it is not just about my anxiety.
  
  i have never look forward to reunion dinner with my siblings.
  
  i have hardly anything to say to my high-income brothers and sister. we have dai gou. it is damn tiring having to make conversation or pretend to enjoy chatting.
  
  
• LinYu

  9 Feb 07, 16:50

  it's only a meal. go over and get it done. don't have inferior complexity. you are YOU.
  
• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 16:53

  Originally posted by LinYu:

  it's only a meal. go over and get it done. don't have inferior complexity. you are YOU.
  

  not inferiority complex.
  
  i dont enjoy talking to them but yet have to pretend, sibei sianzzz.
  
• audlenelee

  9 Feb 07, 16:56

  Originally posted by dragg:

  not inferiority complex.
  
  i dont enjoy talking to them but yet have to pretend, sibei sianzzz.
  

  then dun talk lor.
  pretending is no good...
• InnoHippo

  9 Feb 07, 16:58

  Originally posted by audlenelee:

  then dun talk lor.
  pretending is no good...

  then dun go .....
  
  pretending to be mute is worse
• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 16:59

  Originally posted by audlenelee:

  then dun talk lor.
  pretending is no good...

  then how?
  
  play mute even when they talk to me?
  
  
• audlenelee

  9 Feb 07, 17:00

  Originally posted by dragg:

  then how?
  
  play mute even when they talk to me?
  
  

  just smile n nod or shake head lor.
• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 17:04

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  then dun go .....
  
  pretending to be mute is worse

  if i can dont go, i wont be so troubled.
  
  
• InnoHippo

  9 Feb 07, 17:06

  Originally posted by dragg:

  if i can dont go, i wont be so troubled.
  
  

  fake sickness or something lah
• Devil1976

  9 Feb 07, 17:08

  Originally posted by dragg:

  in a few hours time i will be having dinner with my family.
  
  i have not had dinner with them for 3 years because of my anxiety problems.
  
  i have been nervous all day and the feeling is getting from bad to worst.
  
  

  FOCUS on the FOOD
• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 17:10

  maybe i should hang a sign around my neck, "dont talk to me, i am just here to eat!!!"
  
  
• dragg

  9 Feb 07, 17:12

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  fake sickness or something lah

  out of 365 days i am sick on the day of the dinner???
  
  
• NotFromVenus

  9 Feb 07, 17:35

  Originally posted by dragg:

  out of 365 days i am sick on the day of the dinner???
  
  

  Usually you skip dinner for Supper?
• InnoHippo

  9 Feb 07, 18:16

  Originally posted by dragg:

  out of 365 days i am sick on the day of the dinner???
  
  

  caused by anxiety mah
• pervertboi

  9 Feb 07, 18:29

  pretend they are all naked....
• DeadPoet

  9 Feb 07, 18:30

  Discuss poetry with them. Confirm they will stop talking to you. Well it works with my friends and relatives.
• Ito_^

  9 Feb 07, 18:32

  dinner soon le.
  
  MUST TAKE PICS!!
• fatslob

  9 Feb 07, 18:37

  Remember, u have more posts in sgforums than them!!!!
• Ito_^

  9 Feb 07, 22:46

  dinner nice anot?
• LinYu

  9 Feb 07, 22:56

  see? no problem right? its all in your mind