Worrying of my gf past...
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Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance...
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urself is first-hand?
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Hahaha.
Virginity has lost its value.
If u still can find a virgin girl out there,its a treasure.
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It is good that your gf come clean with you and tell you the truth.Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance...
She got jolly well just keep it from you and keep you in the dark....
If you think from that perspective, i think you will feel better....
It is not surprising that couples pet/have sxx 4 times a week esp when they are young and/or just know each other..... -
if u really love her, this issue shouldn't be bothering u..
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go online and buy those virgin bride lohz.
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my bike first hand.
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Did you know of her past before you dated her or after?Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance... -
Hmm btw are u 1st hand good or not..if u arent...then u shld not hiam her oso mah...and if u really mind her past...then l tink u left her bah...told her that u mind it lo...Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance...
l can understand ur feelings a bit...tinking that ur dear having sex with other guys before...is a bit..how to say ah...the FEELING IS TERRIBLE!!!! Worst if u know the the guy that do with ur gf
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At least yr gf tell u the truth right? Shows she honest with you!Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance...
Haha, you should accept her for who she is if you really love her. -
Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance...
I always believed that such knowledge are best kept private - really wonder why would she tell you. And if you cannot take such truth at face value, you should also avoid asking, if that's where the conversation led... to the truth of her past.
You dated her, being oblivion to her past, and fell in love. Now that you knew her a little more, you felt like you are being compromised. When love juxtaposed chastity, it seemed that a piece of membrane has more consideration than love itself.
If you cannot look beyond the subject of virginity, then I guess your love is probably worth just as much.
And if you decide to treat her any lesser than before, I suggest you give this relationship up because with such narrow mindset, it will likely to haunt you forever. Although you have the right to desire a virgin mate if you are one yourself (otherwise you are just another hypocritical, typical-MCP guy), I think it's also fair for her to want a man who appreciate her for who she really is and love her as a complete entity and not selective in nature.
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so.. you want to be her future while thinking of her past?
what is over cannot be undone.. so.. you love her? if so, what does it matter? -
Ya...so now what choice are u going to make...
juz tell her u mind it and break off...or continue to love her?
Is ur own decision liao...
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I am sorry, but it seems that this thing about her not being a virgin will be a potential source of conflict for both of u. U will most probably raise this matter up in times of quarrel, and this will only show the gal just how narrow-minded u are.Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance...
Now, I am not saying that u are narrow-minded, but the thing is,you have 2 let it go, and not let it bug u, or else it may cause tension and conflict btw u two in the future. -
Why are you worried about her past (him & her) when you should be showing more concerned about your future (you & her)?Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance... -
[quote]Originally posted by James1:
[b I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff
She is second hand only if you keep treating her as an object.If you dowan just pass her to me....I would treat her as brand new!
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2nd hand stuff? you think you buying and selling goods izzit? if you really love her you will not even think of this question...Originally posted by James1:Though I had been with my gf for about 4 months, and I was struggling to forget about her past, she told me that she and her ex had did uncountable times of heavy petting or sex at her place, what I mean uncountable was like 3 to 4 times weekly without failed and you know as a bf of hers, I felt I was having an 2nd hand stuff, you guys get what I mean? How to forgo her history? Had any one of you had the smiliar situation as me? Thanks in advance... -
So what happens when your GF ex-BFs all start feeling terrible when they think about what you are doing to their Ex-GF now???Originally posted by xShevchenkox:l can understand ur feelings a bit...tinking that ur dear having sex with other guys before...is a bit..how to say ah...the FEELING IS TERRIBLE!!!! Worst if u know the the guy that do with ur gf 
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accept what is she now why bother so much about her past. nothing can be done to change the past .....
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But the problem is they hav broken le mah, what for bring in the ex gf and ex bfs?Originally posted by Short Ninja:So what happens when your GF ex-BFs all start feeling terrible when they think about what you are doing to their Ex-GF now???
Now the TS is having a r/s with the gal lehz... -
if u love her, den dun think abt it, love her as she is...
otherwise u hurt pple... -
Whatever that is broken...love can fix.You tinkOriginally posted by xShevchenkox:But the problem is they hav broken le mah, what for bring in the ex gf and ex bfs?
Now the TS is having a r/s with the gal lehz... love is only for FARK IZZIT?? -
If love is for fark then every erection is an infactuation!!
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second-handed stuff?
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too bad
break lo