What did it take to make you finally give up?

• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:16

  As e topic may suggest...my query leans towards relationships...hope I havn't ever picked at a scab where I shouldn't with this nagging thought of mine~
  
  Anyone care to share?
• R3SsH|n

  1 Apr 07, 23:17

  give up chasing someone?
  
  or give up a relationship?
• Patrik

  1 Apr 07, 23:17

  Someone better than her.
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:19

  Originally posted by R3SsH|n:

  give up chasing someone?
  
  or give up a relationship?

  Either...could be in a relationship but you decided to call it quits for instance
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:20

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Someone better than her.

  In e midst of e relationship you decided to forgo it because of someone else?
  
  Hmm...nothing to say to that...but it does sound a tad "cold"
• Patrik

  1 Apr 07, 23:21

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  In e midst of e relationship you decided to forgo it because of someone else?
  
  Hmm...nothing to say to that...but it does sound a tad "cold"

  I tot u were referring to waiting for someone.
  
• xShevchenkox

  1 Apr 07, 23:22

  well..giving up is really very painful when u really love ur other partner
  
  l decided to giv up...cuz l feel that my gf is not loving me anymore le..her love for me is slowly vanishing
  
  and l was thinking..while her love for me hasnt really vanished...l decided to back off and giv her up...at least the love still got a bit in her...l cnt bring myself seeing her to be very sad and stress..
  
  altot she nver initates breakup with me..l noe she wants it..as she feel very tired and the feeling for me is slowly gone..but she scare break my heart, and she nver says..
  
  On that day... l rushed down to her house...and then l told her let break bah...after l say this..l cried out..l am very sad..l told her that my heart is shattered into pieces..and l hug her...after that...l left le..
  
  really ...the pain is really unbearable..
  
  
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:23

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  I tot u were referring to waiting for someone.
  

  Haha! Thanks for clarifing~ I'm still lost though
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:24

  Originally posted by xShevchenkox:

  well..giving up is really very painful when u really love ur other partner
  
  l decided to giv up...cuz l feel that my gf is not loving me anymore le..her love for me is slowly vanishing
  
  and l was thinking..while her love for me hasnt really vanished...l decided to back off and giv her up...at least the love still got a bit in her...l cnt bring myself seeing her to be very sad and stress..
  
  altot she nver initates breakup with me..l noe she wants it..as she feel very tired and the feeling for me is slowly gone..but she scare break my heart, and she nver says..
  
  On that day... l rushed down to her house...and then l told her let break bah...after l say this..l cried out..l am very sad..l told her that my heart is shattered into pieces..and l hug her...after that...l left le..
  
  really ...the pain is really unbearable..
  
  

  *Pats* Pretty decent of you...but I cringe at e thought of your ex
  
  Hope you didn't misread her intent
• browniebaobao

  1 Apr 07, 23:26

  when i finally see his true colours.
• Patrik

  1 Apr 07, 23:27

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  Either...could be in a relationship but you decided to call it quits for instance

  As in?
  You find out that your partner is cheating behind your back?
  The trust is gone?
  
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:27

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  when i finally see his true colours.

  In e midst of e relationship or before? Then again...I probably shouldn't probe further
• browniebaobao

  1 Apr 07, 23:28

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  In e midst of e relationship or before? Then again...I probably shouldn't probe further

  in the midst or after.
  
  watever happened before i met him or together with him, wun affect me at all.
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:28

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  As in?
  You find out that your partner is cheating behind your back?
  The trust is gone?
  

  Yep yep...this is a definite one way ticket to calling it quits...a woman's wrath comes into it some part of e way of course~
• X-men

  1 Apr 07, 23:30

  Giving up on someone you fancy and giving up on a relationship is completely different.
  
  To give up on someone you fancy, takes another one.
  
  To give up on a r/s, takes the person in it to loss hope with it.
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:30

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  in the midst or after.
  
  watever happened before i met him or together with him, wun affect me at all.

  Thanks for sharing~
  
  My gal-friends keep consoling me my next one will be better...so keeping my fingers crossed
• browniebaobao

  1 Apr 07, 23:32

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  Thanks for sharing~
  
  My gal-friends keep consoling me my next one will be better...so keeping my fingers crossed

  huh?
  
  what happened?
  
  something went wrong with ur r/s ar?
  
  can pm me if u prefer it that way..
  
  but it's ok if u dun wana share.
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:32

  Originally posted by X-men:

  Giving up on someone you fancy and giving up on a relationship is completely different.
  
  To give up on someone you fancy, takes another one.
  
  To give up on a r/s, takes the person in it to loss hope with it.

  Hmm...either way its blown when a party losses hope with it just like you said
• xShevchenkox

  1 Apr 07, 23:33

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  *Pats* Pretty decent of you...but I cringe at e thought of your ex
  
  Hope you didn't misread her intent

  her intentions l noe de..cuz how to say ah..l noe how my gf feels de..we being together for 6 mths..l noe her thinking and etc de..
  
  cuz after that..l ask her lo..she oso admits it all out..
  
  but still l hav to thank her la..altot alot of problems...she did giv me memorable time...we spent sum quality times together...and she do her part as a gf..making me happy..
  
  hold my hand when we are outside, sai jiao to me..and she wear sexy clothes for me lo...only let me see
• X-men

  1 Apr 07, 23:33

  Having said what I said...
  
  this is the key... "its never easy"
  
  Life is a balance of holding on and letting go.. the challenge is knowing when
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:35

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  huh?
  
  what happened?
  
  something went wrong with ur r/s ar?
  
  can pm me if u prefer it that way..
  
  but it's ok if u dun wana share.

  Haha! Nope! No current relationship to speak of...not that I'm complaining of course~
  
  Thanks for e offer though...if it does happen *touch wood* I'll know who's shoulder to lean on
• browniebaobao

  1 Apr 07, 23:35

  Originally posted by X-men:
  Having said what I said...
  
  this is the key... "its never easy"
  
  [b]Life is a balance of holding on and letting go.. the challenge is knowing when[/b]

  true..
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:36

  Originally posted by xShevchenkox:

  her intentions l noe de..cuz how to say ah..l noe how my gf feels de..we being together for 6 mths..l noe her thinking and etc de..
  
  cuz after that..l ask her lo..she oso admits it all out..
  
  but still l hav to thank her la..altot alot of problems...she did giv me memorable time...we spent sum quality times together...and she do her part as a gf..making me happy..
  
  hold my hand when we are outside, sai jiao to me..and she wear sexy clothes for me lo...only let me see

  Ermm....too much information there haha! Topic is what made you give up...not what made you cannot forget
• browniebaobao

  1 Apr 07, 23:37

  Originally posted by Xiao Jun:

  Haha! Nope! No current relationship to speak of...not that I'm complaining of course~
  
  Thanks for e offer though...if it does happen *touch wood* I'll know who's shoulder to lean on

  then what's with the "My gal-friends keep consoling me my next one will be better...so keeping my fingers crossed"?
  
  oh ya, u have Mr P to lean on ya.
• Xiao Jun

  1 Apr 07, 23:38

  Originally posted by X-men:
  Having said what I said...
  
  this is the key... "its never easy"
  
  [b]Life is a balance of holding on and letting go.. the challenge is knowing when[/b]

  Well put...so what was your reason to exit?