i am so sorry on the 's' sorry mis-spelled.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Earlier post, you state you only has 1 daughter.
Now you have kids.
You need to educate them on finances now.Originally posted by alba:what do u do if yr kids start to lie and steal from u? i am very disapponted, i took my kid few $. and promise her to return i forgot, ok i put my $ in my drawer, and told my kid to take $10, and next day i realised i lost my $40 and ask around no one admit, i guess the cuplirt must be my child, and they just don't want to admit keep very quiet and deny, i was so very angry and scolded them and until now i can't forget that betray, i feel they really need disclipline and real hard teaching, id on't know how, i am wandering is it my fault that all this is happneing, they don't seem to respect or scared of me at all, but they regret and said sorry won't do again, but i still am afraid they grow up bad. i am worried now.should i give them big lecture and punish them? beside this they r sweet and lovely.
just a curious question. Is it possible to find a husband in singapore to allow you to be a tai tai?Originally posted by Quinsy:If I can be tai tai, I won't mind.
Alba I have studied your case very carefully and I would like you to answer a few of my question first before I start on my advice.Originally posted by alba:today the most saddest day, my kid fall sick and i 've to go to work, she cried pleaded me not to go to work, she want to stay at home wiht me, she enjoyed staying at home with me, i took leave to care for her for 1 day and now got to go to work,she never understand and cried and blame me for being bad mum, she don't want to go to ppl house she just want to stay at home with me, she scolded me why u never take longer leave to stay with me, she don't want us to send her to ppl house to stay for 1 day, she hate it she said, it make me so guilty sad and disappointed in myself , now i reaklly feel i am the worst mum in this world then i blame it on myhubby for not letting me stop work.alot of resentment here,
it depends on what you deemed as "worth"Originally posted by alba:hi will u give up your career and be a full time housewife and mum to your kids, is it worth it, but what abt yr future. after the kids grown up, what will u do?
yes. you can extend the a person working age, but how could the old people ( pass 55) to work when they are already weak and physically slow. Dont they deserve to be given a little 'livelihood monies' if they are jobless by that age, for they have been a loyal citizen and old women who have ever help in baby production in sg?Originally posted by alba:what do u think of 1 of the minister annou tdy paper that one should retire later to have enough money for old age, what do u think, and they want woman to continue working even with family.