hi ladies/mum/wife
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what do u think of 1 of the minister annou tdy paper that one should retire later to have enough money for old age, what do u think, and they want woman to continue working even with family.
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To feed their salary.
LOL...manz....you are asking that of the wrong crowd here.
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what do u do if yr kids start to lie and steal from u? i am very disapponted, i took my kid few $. and promise her to return i forgot, ok i put my $ in my drawer, and told my kid to take $10, and next day i realised i lost my $40 and ask around no one admit, i guess the cuplirt must be my child, and they just don't want to admit keep very quiet and deny, i was so very angry and scolded them and until now i can't forget that betray, i feel they really need disclipline and real hard teaching, id on't know how, i am wandering is it my fault that all this is happneing, they don't seem to respect or scared of me at all, but they regret and said sorry won't do again, but i still am afraid they grow up bad. i am worried now.should i give them big lecture and punish them? beside this they r sweet and lovely.
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YOUR KIDS ARE YOUR FUTURE INVESTMENT.BEING A HOUSEWIFE IS A FULLTIME JOB.IT IS MUCH MORE TIRING THAN WORKING IN THE OFFICE.SO THINK CAREFULLY BEFORE U DECIDE.BUT IT SURE PAYS OFF COS U ARE THERE FOR THEM EVERY STEPS THEY TAKE INTO ADULTHOOD.BUT THERE ARE WOMAN THAT ARE ABLE TO RAISE GREAT KIDS WHILE MANAGING THEIR CAREER TOO.SO IT IS REALLY UP TO YOU HOW U JUGGLE YOUR TIME.
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Earlier post, you state you only has 1 daughter.
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i am so sorry on the 's' sorry mis-spelled.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Earlier post, you state you only has 1 daughter.
Now you have kids.
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You need to educate them on finances now.Originally posted by alba:what do u do if yr kids start to lie and steal from u? i am very disapponted, i took my kid few $. and promise her to return i forgot, ok i put my $ in my drawer, and told my kid to take $10, and next day i realised i lost my $40 and ask around no one admit, i guess the cuplirt must be my child, and they just don't want to admit keep very quiet and deny, i was so very angry and scolded them and until now i can't forget that betray, i feel they really need disclipline and real hard teaching, id on't know how, i am wandering is it my fault that all this is happneing, they don't seem to respect or scared of me at all, but they regret and said sorry won't do again, but i still am afraid they grow up bad. i am worried now.should i give them big lecture and punish them? beside this they r sweet and lovely.
There is course available for children now, on budgeting, managing finances & learning how to save and grow their own money.
Once they pick up those skills, they wouldnt borther to steal anymore. Because by then, they have the confidence on handling their money.
You might need to attend the course with them too. I think. *cheeky* -
I think you should tell her that if she takes your thing without telling you is call stealing and it is wrong. Tell her that - in future if she is going to take anybody 's thing, she must tell them before doing so. Good habits must be cultivate while they were young.
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you have to impress on her the importance of honesty and intergrity.. or else when she grows up she might be amenable to "grab" any loose change that she could get away with, and 1 day she'll get caught and its very hard to regain other people's trust again. stealing is 1 of the worse things u can do to your close ones. people can forgive but will never forget. when similar cases come up she'll be the first one to be suspected, and then whether its actually her fault or not she'll must likely be the one who gets blamed. It really isnt neccessary to scold her.. just have a long and serious talk with her to impress on her the seriousness of this, impress on her the importance of not stealing.. you could do all these even without directly accusing her of stealing
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yeah, i scolded her and got very angry when i found out, i never give her chance, she cried terribly, i te,ll her she is a liar, cheater, stealer adn she can end up in jail, i don't know she scared or not, i told her if she do it again, i send her to jail, i hope she believe. i say she is a bad girl, so small dare to steal and talk lie, i don't trust her anymore, iam afraid of my own kid now, i am thinking how to disclipine and teach her, keep thinking of stop working and teach her.
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don't know hwy everyday going to work cos me so much agony, just fele like staying at home and be a good mum and wife, but ppl say hey u like never go school, ppl no school stay at home, is it? i hear so many comments abt this, when i say i wanna stay home they say that is for no education ppl, stay at home and be housewife, but i feel great being a good great mum able to help yr kids, but outsider look at me likeno education mother. so sad. hubby say keep money first then can think of stop and stay home.
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today the most saddest day, my kid fall sick and i 've to go to work, she cried pleaded me not to go to work, she want to stay at home wiht me, she enjoyed staying at home with me, i took leave to care for her for 1 day and now got to go to work,she never understand and cried and blame me for being bad mum, she don't want to go to ppl house she just want to stay at home with me, she scolded me why u never take longer leave to stay with me, she don't want us to send her to ppl house to stay for 1 day, she hate it she said, it make me so guilty sad and disappointed in myself , now i reaklly feel i am the worst mum in this world then i blame it on myhubby for not letting me stop work.alot of resentment here,
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just a curious question. Is it possible to find a husband in singapore to allow you to be a tai tai?Originally posted by Quinsy:If I can be tai tai, I won't mind.
If not are you willing to stay aboard in order to be a tai tai.
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Alba I have studied your case very carefully and I would like you to answer a few of my question first before I start on my advice.Originally posted by alba:today the most saddest day, my kid fall sick and i 've to go to work, she cried pleaded me not to go to work, she want to stay at home wiht me, she enjoyed staying at home with me, i took leave to care for her for 1 day and now got to go to work,she never understand and cried and blame me for being bad mum, she don't want to go to ppl house she just want to stay at home with me, she scolded me why u never take longer leave to stay with me, she don't want us to send her to ppl house to stay for 1 day, she hate it she said, it make me so guilty sad and disappointed in myself , now i reaklly feel i am the worst mum in this world then i blame it on myhubby for not letting me stop work.alot of resentment here,
1) Very strangly I found that your husband is rarely mention by you, can you help me in explaining his role in the family? His working hours, his habits, anything about him.
2) I found that you talk about baking alot and feel that if you turn to baking it will solve some of your problems. Have you ever bake cookies and let strangers taste you cookies before.
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it depends on what you deemed as "worth"Originally posted by alba:hi will u give up your career and be a full time housewife and mum to your kids, is it worth it, but what abt yr future. after the kids grown up, what will u do?
some pple are not cut out to be stay home mums so for them "worth" will be their ability to provide.
some pple refer to raise their kids alone, so their "worth" will be them being always there for the kids.
just as importantly, the husband. what is his contribution? if both work will he help with child bearing? if wife stays home, will he be able to bring home enough for the family? -
yes. you can extend the a person working age, but how could the old people ( pass 55) to work when they are already weak and physically slow. Dont they deserve to be given a little 'livelihood monies' if they are jobless by that age, for they have been a loyal citizen and old women who have ever help in baby production in sg?Originally posted by alba:what do u think of 1 of the minister annou tdy paper that one should retire later to have enough money for old age, what do u think, and they want woman to continue working even with family.
dont sights of old folks scavenging over dustbin to collect drink cans on the streets unbearable. -
it is nice to stay home at look at yr kids face with so much love and really i tried few days i can see sparkle and happinese in her face, but no mney of course, don't know i can live witout moneyor not, i am considering. actually very happy to make kids happy. but money can make ppl go mad, i see my hubby like going mad thinking every day abt money, why so tough things here?