tell your mom "whoa PRC girl last time stole your BF right you loser"Originally posted by troubledguy2006:hi there! I got this problem with my mum and my gf.. I have a gf, as stated in the topic, she is a PRC... she is just like any other normal gal... i find her less materialistic than most singaporean gals.. ( sorry for tat.. ) she is very caring towards me... and she bought things back for us( me and family), whenever she goes back to china for holiday or visit her parents... but problem is... my mum have a very strong biasedness against them... she insists that all PRC gals are bad... they are open minded, and they are cheap and sIutty... can u imagine tat? I dont dare to tell my gf all these... I afraid will break her heart... She treat my mum not bad... buying things for her whenever she come across soemthing nice or wad... but this is wad my mum did to her.. sigh... And my mum insists i break off with her now and find a singaporean gf... But I love my gf very much... and she does too.. den i told her tat some singaporeans gals are materialistic too..she dont believe... she thought singaporean are 100 % good... unlike PRC girls... and when i try to talk to my mum tat she got buy things for us whenever she went back to china, she will say tat the PRC are good in buying people's heart... and she will not fall for tat... Sometimes I really very fed up with my mum... for wad she had said... i know she do this for my own good, as she is afraid me will be cheated... but... isn't she abit too far too? oh ya... btw me and my gf is together for 6 mths... i know it is short... I will let the time be the judge... hopefully my mum's opinion will change... can anyone here give me some opinion?
you have this kind of attitude you still complain about them?Originally posted by dreamykite:But do you find the things they bought for you are usually cheap stuff from china. Nothing to be appreciate of.
Get ur gf to ur house more often for meals or just to chill out. If ur girlfriend is really good as u say, ur mum will sooner or later find out for herself too. That's the only way for her to drop her bias.Originally posted by troubledguy2006:hi there! I got this problem with my mum and my gf.. I have a gf, as stated in the topic, she is a PRC... she is just like any other normal gal... i find her less materialistic than most singaporean gals.. ( sorry for tat.. ) she is very caring towards me... and she bought things back for us( me and family), whenever she goes back to china for holiday or visit her parents... but problem is... my mum have a very strong biasedness against them... she insists that all PRC gals are bad... they are open minded, and they are cheap and sIutty... can u imagine tat? I dont dare to tell my gf all these... I afraid will break her heart... She treat my mum not bad... buying things for her whenever she come across soemthing nice or wad... but this is wad my mum did to her.. sigh... And my mum insists i break off with her now and find a singaporean gf... But I love my gf very much... and she does too.. den i told her tat some singaporeans gals are materialistic too..she dont believe... she thought singaporean are 100 % good... unlike PRC girls... and when i try to talk to my mum tat she got buy things for us whenever she went back to china, she will say tat the PRC are good in buying people's heart... and she will not fall for tat... Sometimes I really very fed up with my mum... for wad she had said... i know she do this for my own good, as she is afraid me will be cheated... but... isn't she abit too far too? oh ya... btw me and my gf is together for 6 mths... i know it is short... I will let the time be the judge... hopefully my mum's opinion will change... can anyone here give me some opinion?
Originally posted by troubledguy2006:Since it is your classmate I don't think your mother has to worry too much.
hi there! erm... I get to know my gf in school... I am currently having tertiary education... she is my classmate..and... as someone asked... she came from a middle class family... not so rich nor poor... ya.. i agree with one of the forumite, tat bringing her to my house once in a while to chill out, and to let my mum decide for herself if she is really a nice girl... oh ya... one of the forumite asked... if the things she bought is always cheap and from china, hmm... not really... some are bought in singapore itself... only those she bought fromchina, is whenever she goes back for holiday...
but my mum still worries... she still insists tat PRC gals are bad... no matter wad... even they got diploma or degree.. .also no use... they are sIutty... sigh...Originally posted by Skibi:Since it is your classmate I don't think your mother has to worry too much.
yea i agree with bringing her often too, let ur mum see how she is over long term...even if she still thinks she is no good(quite possible since nowadays older ppl can b quite stubborn), at least it wun that strong towards her...eh but one thing to point out...buy goods cheap no good meh?china there the things cheaper go there buy got wrong meh?its a way of saving money oso what, whats wrong with that?whoever said u MUST buy expensive things then can please...hate this kinda mentality la plz loh...its the thought that counts, not the cost...Originally posted by troubledguy2006:hi there! erm... I get to know my gf in school... I am currently having tertiary education... she is my classmate..and... as someone asked... she came from a middle class family... not so rich nor poor... ya.. i agree with one of the forumite, tat bringing her to my house once in a while to chill out, and to let my mum decide for herself if she is really a nice girl... oh ya... one of the forumite asked... if the things she bought is always cheap and from china, hmm... not really... some are bought in singapore itself... only those she bought fromchina, is whenever she goes back for holiday...
Originally posted by the.owl:tell your mom "whoa PRC girl last time stole your BF right you loser"![]()
With the availability of so many negative reports from the media on PRC, it is no doubts that your mum had such bad impression on themÂ…Originally posted by troubledguy2006:hi there! I got this problem with my mum and my gf.. I have a gf, as stated in the topic, she is a PRC... she is just like any other normal gal... i find her less materialistic than most singaporean gals.. ( sorry for tat.. ) she is very caring towards me... and she bought things back for us( me and family), whenever she goes back to china for holiday or visit her parents... but problem is... my mum have a very strong biasedness against them... she insists that all PRC gals are bad... they are open minded, and they are cheap and sIutty... can u imagine tat? I dont dare to tell my gf all these... I afraid will break her heart... She treat my mum not bad... buying things for her whenever she come across soemthing nice or wad... but this is wad my mum did to her.. sigh... And my mum insists i break off with her now and find a singaporean gf... But I love my gf very much... and she does too.. den i told her tat some singaporeans gals are materialistic too..she dont believe... she thought singaporean are 100 % good... unlike PRC girls... and when i try to talk to my mum tat she got buy things for us whenever she went back to china, she will say tat the PRC are good in buying people's heart... and she will not fall for tat... Sometimes I really very fed up with my mum... for wad she had said... i know she do this for my own good, as she is afraid me will be cheated... but... isn't she abit too far too? oh ya... btw me and my gf is together for 6 mths... i know it is short... I will let the time be the judge... hopefully my mum's opinion will change... can anyone here give me some opinion?