how to stop being paranoid?
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i always feel people talk bad about me
sometimes people joke with me using those father mother jokes, i get the feeling like its really insulting me
am i too sensitive? -
relax lah.. like wad u say, its a joke.
but if u cannot tahan, do tell them about it. -
u sec sch rite? aiya,.. ur friends dun mean it 1... so relax... jus laugh it off..Originally posted by Fragger:i always feel people talk bad about me
sometimes people joke with me using those father mother jokes, i get the feeling like its really insulting me
am i too sensitive?
my friends also joke about mother and father... haha.. aiya.. it's ok... -
Cenarious
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Eric Clapton
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TS
It has nothing to do with your parents. -
Just relax... Don't be too sensitive towards certain things...
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I can totally understand how you feel coz your description sounded just like how I used to be. Sometimes, I would become angry too but not anymore. I 've learnt to live and let live. Other peoples' mouths are in their faces. They can say wad they like. You can't stop them. So the way to tackle them is building up your own self-confidence. Once you feel very secure, you won't even bother wad is said behind your back coz you zhuo de wen, zhan de zhi ma. Let other people judge for themselves whether the rumours about you are true or not. Ching zhe zhi ching!
If there's no truth in wad's said about you, the rumours will stop automatically. especially when you dun react, people will get bored talking about you and stop by themselves! -
normally i would voice out if the joke gets too far, eg: father or mother involve.
other than tat, im pretty cool abt jokes. -
of course, the ts may be a closet psycho...
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laugh with them
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ur friends can come up with better jokes then about mother and father...
if I, I also feel it is a insult... -
In fact please scold my parents as much as you want. I hate them.Originally posted by NotFromVenus:Cenarious
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Eric Clapton
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It has nothing to do with your parents. -
stop being it la. take it as a joke
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they are actually not joking around according to my experience
they are going a long way to shoot you
friends won't insult or come close to insult your family members @ all
not even in a joke
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Tell them "I don't like you joking about my parents." Then forget it. The next time they do it again, tell them... "I don't like you joking about my parents." Then forget it.Originally posted by Fragger:i always feel people talk bad about me
sometimes people joke with me using those father mother jokes, i get the feeling like its really insulting me
am i too sensitive?
If next time they continue with this type of joke... continue to tell them... -
i think father mother jokes are the worst to use.
everytime i see my friends, i always insult/joke about their skin colour. Anything negative I also can link to their skin colour..earthquakes, traffic jams, etc. -
Can I joke whether you are gay?
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according my experience , good or even best friends do joke about parents.Originally posted by ghimpheng:they are actually not joking around according to my experience
they are going a long way to shoot you
friends won't insult or come close to insult your family members @ all
not even in a joke
Tell them off -
No you are not being too sensitive. They are talking about you and what are you going to do about it?Originally posted by Fragger:i always feel people talk bad about me
sometimes people joke with me using those father mother jokes, i get the feeling like its really insulting me
am i too sensitive?
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Paranoia is a lie made up by schemers.
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haha my soccer friends never ever joke about parents oneOriginally posted by givemeluck:according my experience , good or even best friends do joke about parents.
even those smoking and clubbing ones never joke about parents
o well maybe different experience -
mahahaa...
