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i had a pri sch classmate also like that..
she used to be a v good girl fren of mine back then.
but, her parents' divorce really affected her drastically.
she went clubbing all the time, drink and sleep with guys..
juz to make herself numb.
but she's a good girl.. a kindergarten teacher. -
go get a wife from china
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Singapore girl - They're a great way to fly.
Such sad changes do come and we must learn to shrug them off. -
some day sgg will invade other countries, steal em men and break their families.
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not all fishes are from the same ocean boy
there are minnows and there are tunas.
all different ones. -
i still rmb i sold my hp to help 1 of my friend.
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Moon will turn round; People will change.
I understand how you feel dude.
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wah........poor u for having such frens..........
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Originally posted by Nuad:i have talked to many of my friends, alot of them seem to comment that singapore girls are now very wild, most of them complain that they (s'pore girls) are all now very materialistic, and um "open".
obviously this is generalizing, and i didnt really agree with them. until a few incidents concerning some female friends of mine.
well A , she was my good friend in secondary school, i actually liked A back then, its a ultra cliche liking-my-best-friend story (which was not successful). but i digress
i used to think she was angelic and the perfect girl next door.
its about 4 years later and we still are in contact, but some time last year when i was in camp(ns) for an open house, i was doing some duties when i recieved a call from a mutual friend of ours, he told me he needed to borrow some money, about $500, it was 530 in the morning, i was tired and pissed so i immediately refused. then i asked him why, he told me A was pregnant. his tone was serious, and i immediately squatted down on the ground and was thinking "WHAT!?" or "GAH!" i cant really remember.
well my mind linked it all up, to be pregnant , youd have to have had sex,
IMPOSSIBLE, i thought that was not possible with her, even worse i found out that she had gotten pregnant with an ex boyfriend, after they had broken up some months ago.
well its naive of me to think that she wouldnt have sex, but for me its shocking because i always picture her as the girl in secondary school.
but this may have happened because of lingering feelings with her ex, or so i thought, until oneday i went out with sec school pals for a gathering, i was walking with her in east coast, and she was telling me her escapades in clubs (i shall not elaborate), i was listening bewildered, what had possesed this once sweet girl?
then alchohol came, she started throwing herself at a guy. one of my good friends.
i took some of my friends who were more in contact with her aside, they said when they went clubbing with her once, she was dirty dancing with 2 guys at once, strangers.
and apparently she had went pretty far with that guy she was throwing herself at, at a chalet once held.
i slowly let it sink in, and the image of that girl i had once was destroyed no matter how i wanted to deny it.
so im wondering, are my friends right? are singapore girls like this? this is only one instance i admit, but she was the last i would expect that would be this way.and there i have other female friends like this too, perhaps i am too naive and this is the common thing?
or was i just holding some fantasy of her perfectness too much in my mind?
Beheld her as a woman embodied with angelic quality and perfection, but that's merely your perception. I am dead sure that your 'still-kept-in-contact' is but causal and superficial. Nothing too deep inside.
Chances are, you are not very close to her as well.
And that goes to show that you probably know next to nothing about her inner self, growth, experience and development of four years after graduation from secondary school.
Many things would have happen within this time frame and your perception of her is still the little girl at the age of sixteen. Of course there's much 'impression discrepancy' which you would need to update.
P.S: This has nothing to do with Singaporean Girls. Logically speaking, she cannot represent the entire woman folk as this is another isolated case. You may have a more prudent way of what woman should be and I am sure some woman wouldn't disagree with you, but that doesn't mean that your view is absolute to everyone.
Different people have different cosmic lesson in their life. That's how it always has been and will be.
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Now gal are lack of love....
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times change, ppl change also... in sec sch, she could be under control n limited so she cant xpress herself totally... so when she got free she explored n show their wild side... everyone has their wild side u got urs too so dun tink of it as something bad... not all gals are wild always, jz keep ur eyes open n u will find ur 100% GND...Originally posted by Nuad:i have talked to many of my friends, alot of them seem to comment that singapore girls are now very wild, most of them complain that they (s'pore girls) are all now very materialistic, and um "open".
obviously this is generalizing, and i didnt really agree with them. until a few incidents concerning some female friends of mine.
well A , she was my good friend in secondary school, i actually liked A back then, its a ultra cliche liking-my-best-friend story (which was not successful). but i digress
i used to think she was angelic and the perfect girl next door.
its about 4 years later and we still are in contact, but some time last year when i was in camp(ns) for an open house, i was doing some duties when i recieved a call from a mutual friend of ours, he told me he needed to borrow some money, about $500, it was 530 in the morning, i was tired and pissed so i immediately refused. then i asked him why, he told me A was pregnant. his tone was serious, and i immediately squatted down on the ground and was thinking "WHAT!?" or "GAH!" i cant really remember.
well my mind linked it all up, to be pregnant , youd have to have had sex,
IMPOSSIBLE, i thought that was not possible with her, even worse i found out that she had gotten pregnant with an ex boyfriend, after they had broken up some months ago.
well its naive of me to think that she wouldnt have sex, but for me its shocking because i always picture her as the girl in secondary school.
but this may have happened because of lingering feelings with her ex, or so i thought, until oneday i went out with sec school pals for a gathering, i was walking with her in east coast, and she was telling me her escapades in clubs (i shall not elaborate), i was listening bewildered, what had possesed this once sweet girl?
then alchohol came, she started throwing herself at a guy. one of my good friends.
i took some of my friends who were more in contact with her aside, they said when they went clubbing with her once, she was dirty dancing with 2 guys at once, strangers.
and apparently she had went pretty far with that guy she was throwing herself at, at a chalet once held.
i slowly let it sink in, and the image of that girl i had once was destroyed no matter how i wanted to deny it.
so im wondering, are my friends right? are singapore girls like this? this is only one instance i admit, but she was the last i would expect that would be this way.and there i have other female friends like this too, perhaps i am too naive and this is the common thing?
or was i just holding some fantasy of her perfectness too much in my mind? -
WTF singapore girls are the least wild in the whole world. Just go to any other country such as Australia (where im from) and girls have sex usually between the ages of 13-16. So please stop being so naive singapore girls are the most tame of them all.
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There are always 2 sides to everything. Yours is a bad example of a girl gone astray. Though good examples seem rather rare, I trust that there are and will be. Keep the faith!
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c'mon, this is 21st century.. year 2007..
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If u think Sinaporean girls are wild just go to England, Australia, America or any other country similar to those and u'll see 14 year old girls at bars smoking. Hell, I'm 15 and all my friends who are girls go clubbing and go to bars with me and most of them smoke and half of them have had sex.
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wowOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:WTF singapore girls are the least wild in the whole world. Just go to any other country such as Australia (where im from) and girls have sex usually between the ages of 13-16. So please stop being so naive singapore girls are the most tame of them all.
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well i don't find clubbing niceOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:If u think Sinaporean girls are wild just go to England, Australia, America or any other country similar to those and u'll see 14 year old girls at bars smoking. Hell, I'm 15 and all my friends who are girls go clubbing and go to bars with me and most of them smoke and half of them have had sex.
i don't know why
perhaps the mindset that people who go clubbing are bad? -
That's a horrible stereotype. There's absolutely nothing wrong with clubbing.Originally posted by gigabyte14:well i don't find clubbing nice
i don't know why
perhaps the mindset that people who go clubbing are bad? -
its nothing wrong with clubbing juz the people who go thereOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:That's a horrible stereotype. There's absolutely nothing wrong with clubbing. -
That's another stereotype I despise. Just because I go clubbing doesn't make me a bad person. I do very well in school and all that and I know a lot of good people there. There ARE a lot of people you wouldn't want to mix with at clubs but there are also a lot of decent people and you shouldn't generalise.Originally posted by darkhour:its nothing wrong with clubbing juz the people who go there -
actuali i mean the indecent people who go there...i dun mean allOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:That's another stereotype I despise. Just because I go clubbing doesn't make me a bad person. I do very well in school and all that and I know a lot of good people there. There ARE a lot of people you wouldn't want to mix with at clubs but there are also a lot of decent people and you shouldn't generalise. -
Well if you don't mess with people there you wouldn't have any problem with indecent people causing you any trouble.Originally posted by darkhour:actuali i mean the indecent people who go there...i dun mean all -
thats good right ? i mean... depends how u see it...
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nah i havnt even gone to clubbing...though wuld like to try...not too often though, too much smoking arnd=pOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Well if you don't mess with people there you wouldn't have any problem with indecent people causing you any trouble.