would u?
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would u go to a like group dinner if u are invited and yet, u know the person dun really intend u to go in the 1st place?
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then why invite in the first place?
so gey zua leh. -
kena pressured by some ppl in the group.. so how. shd i go?
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if u dun have to pay, go
and stick ard with ur clique -
I'll not go. No body can force me to do what I don't like.
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organize another outing with another group of friends at the same place same time.
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thing is no one force me or anything..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:No body can force me to do what I don't like.
just that the inviter invite some ppl to go.. then that group ask sth like.
"then they all leh?" (refering to us)
than the inviter hesitate abit than say.
"if they wan, they can come lor.."
thing is the inviter is treating so no need to pay. -
hmM~ see lor, usually this kind of invitation I'll not go de.Originally posted by club18:thing is no one force me or anything..
just that the inviter invite some ppl to go.. then that group ask sth like.
"then they all leh?" (refering to us)
than the inviter hesitate abit than say.
"if they wan, they can come lor.."
thing is the inviter is treating so no need to pay.
"if they wan, they can come lor.."
Not soo sincere... -
to avoid the awkwardness, dun go lor..
but if u are going, bring a gift if it's bday or wat la.. -
I wun go.
I wun stya or hang around with people whom dun need me or dunno how to appreciate me.
It's like,i will feel so unwanted..it hurts.
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go.
juz to piss em off.
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i will politely decline the invitation
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save money dont go
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think u think too much. wont ask u if dun intend u to go what.
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Yes, and pay my own meal.
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Follow your heart...
What's your thoughts are?
If you bother about how the person feels, how about reflecting on how you feel about the person?
If you are not comfortable, then politely inform the host that you can't make it and thanks him for his thoughts and invitation... -
This is good advise.Originally posted by dork3d:Follow your heart...
What's your thoughts are?
If you bother about how the person feels, how about reflecting on how you feel about the person?
If you are not comfortable, then politely inform the host that you can't make it and thanks him for his thoughts and invitation...
And if its because all your friends are going, and you didnt want to be left out.
Then go, but either pay for your own food or bring along a gift to the host.
A small bouquet of flowers if the hosts is female, a cheap bottle of wine with a easy to decant bottle stopper to drink with the meal if all of you are adults or you can try to scrape together some $$$ to buy the desserts to share with everyone and the host.
A, you treat us, we also treat you back something kinda returns is always welcome. -
I know what you mean Club you mean as in actually the host dont intend to Invite you..Originally posted by club18:would u go to a like group dinner if u are invited and yet, u know the person dun really intend u to go in the 1st place?
But end up some of your friends that are invited ask why didnt invite you/or your group along..
And the host dont want other people to think that he dont intend to ask you to go so he agree on letting you go to the dinner..
Here an advice for you If the host never call you up and asked you to go then say goodbye to the dinner..If he did himself not by other friends as he sincerely asked you then you should know what to do..^^ And u Enjoy your Dinner
Never go a Dinner/Party if the host never personally invite you..=P And if he did dont think too much that the person dont intend you to go..^^Hope this helps -
would u go to a like group dinner if u are invited and yet, u know the person dun really intend u to go in the 1st place?
Of Course la ! Free Lunch Especially when people BEG you to help them in heir studies.... -
dont go lo...
if really must go there...meet up with the 1 u know ..or rather wished u to go.
then leave after awhile...
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your boss?Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:I'll not go. No body can force me to do what I don't like. -
I can't be bother to go for dinner and outing..
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it depends on how that host views you... if he hates you or dislike you very much, but for sake of pleasing those he invited and thus inviting you along... then i guess it is best that you dont go... you may feel awkwardness and perhaps tension...
But if that host don't really have negative views on you... just that he is not close to you... then maybe u can go... stick with your clique... -
yah....tts why u are unable to date meOriginally posted by X-men:save money dont go -
If it's my boss, I'll threaten it with his wife lor.Originally posted by Mid9Sun:your boss?