Virgin problem.. Pls advice....
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Hi AA, i hope to get some precious advices to my problem.
My girl is still a virgin, & i have a problem trying to enter her. She is quite wet tough when we're doing it, but somehow, when i tried to finger a little bit in, she said it is painful, & thus i can't enter.
I really need advice on how to overcome this problem. She also say she dono why, and dono how to let me go in. Coz its too tight n painful for her. Is it normal for a girl 1st timer to be painful? We have lotsa foreplay tough, but somehow it just comes dry after awhile...
Just FYI we are both of legal ages..
Can you give me some advices? Thanks & i really appreciate alot.. -
tell her to bear wif the pain, soon the pain will become shiok until she ask for more!
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Originally posted by 798:tell her to bear wif the pain, soon the pain will become shiok until she ask for more!
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try lubricant? maybe shes too tensed. when all else fails you can still take her to see a gyne. ^o^
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my usual reply
how about i help you for one night?
then next time, it will be easier for you to enter already -
Use lubricant and enter quick?
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Originally posted by DjiSamSoe:Hi AA, i hope to get some precious advices to my problem.
My girl is still a virgin, & i have a problem trying to enter her. She is quite wet tough when we're doing it, but somehow, when i tried to finger a little bit in, she said it is painful, & thus i can't enter.
I really need advice on how to overcome this problem. She also say she dono why, and dono how to let me go in. Coz its too tight n painful for her. Is it normal for a girl 1st timer to be painful? We have lotsa foreplay tough, but somehow it just comes dry after awhile...
Just FYI we are both of legal ages..
Can you give me some advices? Thanks & i really appreciate alot..
Your girlfriend might be suffering from vaginism.
I suggest that she seek professional medical advice on this.
Cheers -
an obvious answer from a future cane convict.Originally posted by 798:tell her to bear wif the pain, soon the pain will become shiok until she ask for more! -
no offence, but was wondering if this thread is surpose to be in AA?
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ROM first please ...
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I think both of you should settle down and thin it over.Sex is not everything but it is something important.So make a good decision.Don rush if not it will hurt like hell.Wait for the right moment for love to be ripe.When u get older, i guess would be a safe bet,you will get more exposure to the outside world.
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Actually i have the same problem many years ago....Originally posted by DjiSamSoe:Hi AA, i hope to get some precious advices to my problem.
My girl is still a virgin, & i have a problem trying to enter her. She is quite wet tough when we're doing it, but somehow, when i tried to finger a little bit in, she said it is painful, & thus i can't enter.
I really need advice on how to overcome this problem. She also say she dono why, and dono how to let me go in. Coz its too tight n painful for her. Is it normal for a girl 1st timer to be painful? We have lotsa foreplay tough, but somehow it just comes dry after awhile...
Just FYI we are both of legal ages..
Can you give me some advices? Thanks & i really appreciate alot..
we both really really want it.. but each time i tried to enter. she will "tensed" up... either cannot go in becos it is too tight.. or her stress/pain expression will make me "give up".
we tried for months and months...and she was getting more frustrated then me...
ultimately we are able to do it... and once we did it once, the rest of the time no problem...
i think the key is for the gal to relax the vag ina... so that theopening is relaxed...and when u poke in... there is an "intiial" discomfort which according to her isn't as bad as she thot... and then after that,, ok and can rock and roll already...
what i did is that instead of always focusing on trying to poke in, there was one time i slowly inserted my finger.... in thepast she will tensed up and i can't poke in.. but once she relaxed enough for me to put my finger in...
after that i withdraw my finger and my co-k is able to go in.
according to her, she can't "help it" when she tensed up... like a reflex action...
but over time she is able to overcome...
my advise is don't be discouraged.... keep trying... but don't be too "stressed out", there are other parts of the r/s to develop also.... and u guys can have oral or petting etc.. rather then intercouse in the interim.
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Hi there, really thanks alot for your precious advice. It really does help me clear some of my doubts & answered my question. Thank you so much, will keep trying~ CHeers & take care~Originally posted by spencer99:Actually i have the same problem many years ago....
we both really really want it.. but each time i tried to enter. she will "tensed" up... either cannot go in becos it is too tight.. or her stress/pain expression will make me "give up".
we tried for months and months...and she was getting more frustrated then me...
ultimately we are able to do it... and once we did it once, the rest of the time no problem...
i think the key is for the gal to relax the vag ina... so that theopening is relaxed...and when u poke in... there is an "intiial" discomfort which according to her isn't as bad as she thot... and then after that,, ok and can rock and roll already...
what i did is that instead of always focusing on trying to poke in, there was one time i slowly inserted my finger.... in thepast she will tensed up and i can't poke in.. but once she relaxed enough for me to put my finger in...
after that i withdraw my finger and my co-k is able to go in.
according to her, she can't "help it" when she tensed up... like a reflex action...
but over time she is able to overcome...
my advise is don't be discouraged.... keep trying... but don't be too "stressed out", there are other parts of the r/s to develop also.... and u guys can have oral or petting etc.. rather then intercouse in the interim.
good luck. -
oh yesOriginally posted by Quiet Guy:ROM first please ...
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Solution: Don't enter her.Originally posted by DjiSamSoe:Hi AA, i hope to get some precious advices to my problem.
My girl is still a virgin, & i have a problem trying to enter her. She is quite wet tough when we're doing it, but somehow, when i tried to finger a little bit in, she said it is painful, & thus i can't enter.
I really need advice on how to overcome this problem. She also say she dono why, and dono how to let me go in. Coz its too tight n painful for her. Is it normal for a girl 1st timer to be painful? We have lotsa foreplay tough, but somehow it just comes dry after awhile...
Just FYI we are both of legal ages..
Can you give me some advices? Thanks & i really appreciate alot.. -
Devil1976 so experienced.... Must have many such encounters before?Originally posted by Devil1976:Solution: Don't enter her. -
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Perhaps giving her more foreplay - at least min 30mins till she's sexually aroused, than as you lick her (if you're open to the idea) till you get her wet enough, than you finger her first, but for 1st time you insert, do it gradually while she's relaxed, thus it will the pain she will not close up her walls inside which bar you from entering (meanwhile you lick her to give her more pleasure - divert her attention elsewhere in this case, more orgasm) than you can slowly finger her till she like it, than you enter her.Originally posted by DjiSamSoe:Hi AA, i hope to get some precious advices to my problem.
My girl is still a virgin, & i have a problem trying to enter her. She is quite wet tough when we're doing it, but somehow, when i tried to finger a little bit in, she said it is painful, & thus i can't enter.
I really need advice on how to overcome this problem. She also say she dono why, and dono how to let me go in. Coz its too tight n painful for her. Is it normal for a girl 1st timer to be painful? We have lotsa foreplay tough, but somehow it just comes dry after awhile...
Just FYI we are both of legal ages..
Can you give me some advices? Thanks & i really appreciate alot..
Lol.
For alternatives, or better ideas, PM me privately as this is afterall a public forum with some people still underage, thus it's not convenient to pose the details here. -
Are you really dat urgent? Common, do it yourself and try it yourself, it is more worth it and at least you do feel proud when get to do it! LOLS
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like this also must post in aunt agony??Originally posted by DjiSamSoe:Hi AA, i hope to get some precious advices to my problem.
My girl is still a virgin, & i have a problem trying to enter her. She is quite wet tough when we're doing it, but somehow, when i tried to finger a little bit in, she said it is painful, & thus i can't enter.
I really need advice on how to overcome this problem. She also say she dono why, and dono how to let me go in. Coz its too tight n painful for her. Is it normal for a girl 1st timer to be painful? We have lotsa foreplay tough, but somehow it just comes dry after awhile...
Just FYI we are both of legal ages..
Can you give me some advices? Thanks & i really appreciate alot.. -
this is 50:50 in AA and Bar.
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Originally posted by 798:tell her to bear wif the pain, soon the pain will become shiok until she ask for more!
