
I'm opposite! I'm untidy and my hubby gets pissed sometimes

I'm also hopelessly blur, and he can tell me REPEATEDLY to put certain things back but I'll still forget one.
Living together in the beginning was a .. learning experience

Actually its not that I LIKE mess. Its just that, I tend to do things by 'projects' while a project is taking place everything is everywhere. When it is complete, I tidy everything up. But that can be 3 months later. Now he understands that I also have a tolerance level for mess

just that I am *cough* MORE tolerant than him.. heehee
I make an effort to compromise and what I try to do is to find chores which I know I can 'tahan' and will do them (most of the time) so these become my responsibilities. Luckily, MOST times he is very understanding and everytime I wash the plates, he will attempt to nod approvingly (though sometimes he will say ARGH! why u never keep the dry dishes FIRST before u put the wet dishes on the drainer!!!!)
We also have 'space' My workspace is where I can be messy. (Actually not messy, err I just like to have my work spread out so i can organise it easily.. see? hee) BUT BUTBUTBUTBUT I cannot make other living areas messy


Like u, I also cannot understand the big deal over a small pile of mess. Esp when my hubby is kampong boy maaa.. can walk around in the mud type. But oh well, be realistic, sincere and compromise. And I am sure u can work things out.