I am untidy and my Gf is pissed
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I have always been disorganised and messy. (Well, I am organised in my own ways) I have a gf who loves cleaniness. She wipes her bags, desk and cupboard everyday. now my gf is pissed and ask me what happens when we eventually get married.
I know i cant keep up with her standard because i havent been doing such things for as long as i remember.
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hmM~ nobody like untidiness de.. Try to change abit bah..
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Tell her clean for u la..
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Is she a virgo?
She got 'jie pi'.. loves cleanliness.
I dun clean my desk, my cupboard etc everyday also.. Is there a need?
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You're agonising over this? There're 3 feasible options :Originally posted by twenty47:I have always been disorganised and messy. (Well, I am organised in my own ways) I have a gf who loves cleaniness. She wipes her bags, desk and cupboard everyday. now my gf is pissed and ask me what happens when we eventually get married.
I know i cant keep up with her standard because i havent been doing such things for as long as i remember.
1.Be more organised
2.Get her to accept your messiness
3.Change your girlfriend -
how agony, could this be?
ok since you are still a kid, and probably a teenage
look, WAKE UP YOUR IDEA
and start to do some personal grooming
jesus, does anyone need to do tell you the reason why you need to do so?
oh oh wait, i think you must be thinking, it must be so 'cool' to be untidy -
Tell her she can do what she does daily to your belongings too lor...
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make it a habit to be tidy..
no need very lei but...at least tidy up abit -
either u change or she change...
or she get a new bf u get a new gf... -
you should be tidier and cleaner
for ur own good
but anyway, wipes table, bags and cupboardd everyday sounds a bit...urm -
Be more tidy loh...
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i think i had to be more tidy.. but what was agonising is that she chooses to focus on such meaningless thing and ruin her day and my day rather than to focus on more meaningful things such as how much i care for her in many other ways.
btw, for those who viewed my profile and thought that i am a teenager, its false. -
be clean abit wun die la
u treasure her dun u? so u should make HER HAPPY ! -
I virgo leh, but i'm just like TS lolsOriginally posted by browniebaobao:Is she a virgo?
She got 'jie pi'.. loves cleanliness.
I dun clean my desk, my cupboard etc everyday also.. Is there a need? -
Well , start cleaning up ~.
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wow...
ur gf gettin ready for bmt ah???
clean everyday...
LoL...
make it a habit to have a bit of organization...
i pack my things sometimes...
but most of the time i just give up...
LoL...
my gf is worst...
she's like livin in a pig sty...
she comes to my place n mess it up even more..
LoL...
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i dun clean my desk/cupboards everyday. My mum did it for me each week. haha
but i can't stand messy layout. At the end of the day after work, i make sure i tidy my desk before i go.
File all the things and put away all the documents to other people's tray or where they shd go..make my table as 'paper free' as possible.
coz when u start to keep them, it will pile up and up.
It get very difficult to find yr things, especiallly when i got to deal with so many papers each day. -
Tell her when you both eventually get married then say.
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Act cute, tie her up and clean your place up in front of her...
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i would love to do that... but seriously speaking, old habits die hard. I dont know how long can i keep up the tidiness. If i tell her I will definitely do all that she ask for, I would be lying to her as well as myself.Originally posted by pierre^^:be clean abit wun die la
u treasure her dun u? so u should make HER HAPPY !
of course i can try... but i still feel being angry at me doesnt solve anything... being supportive will likely be more constructive, towards changing me and building a better relationship... -
at least it's a good start dat u realise ur prob...
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I'm opposite! I'm untidy and my hubby gets pissed sometimes
I'm also hopelessly blur, and he can tell me REPEATEDLY to put certain things back but I'll still forget one.
Living together in the beginning was a .. learning experience
Actually its not that I LIKE mess. Its just that, I tend to do things by 'projects' while a project is taking place everything is everywhere. When it is complete, I tidy everything up. But that can be 3 months later. Now he understands that I also have a tolerance level for mess just that I am *cough* MORE tolerant than him.. heehee
I make an effort to compromise and what I try to do is to find chores which I know I can 'tahan' and will do them (most of the time) so these become my responsibilities. Luckily, MOST times he is very understanding and everytime I wash the plates, he will attempt to nod approvingly (though sometimes he will say ARGH! why u never keep the dry dishes FIRST before u put the wet dishes on the drainer!!!!)
We also have 'space' My workspace is where I can be messy. (Actually not messy, err I just like to have my work spread out so i can organise it easily.. see? hee) BUT BUTBUTBUTBUT I cannot make other living areas messy Like u, I also cannot understand the big deal over a small pile of mess. Esp when my hubby is kampong boy maaa.. can walk around in the mud type. But oh well, be realistic, sincere and compromise. And I am sure u can work things out. -
Well here's an easy tip to make yourself neat -->
Chuck all the things u do not need into a box and never touch till the end of the day. I have boxes of papers stacked at one corner for that reason and my table's a whole lot neater.
Excluding the fact that I lost a lot of important documents in that process. XD -
i have a lot of boxes.Originally posted by Artiwizoras:Well here's an easy tip to make yourself neat -->
Chuck all the things u do not need into a box and never touch till the end of the day. I have boxes of papers stacked at one corner for that reason and my table's a whole lot neater.
Excluding the fact that I lost a lot of important documents in that process. XD -
If you love her, you will do it for her!