i try to be very happy, try to be like nothing happen... try to cheer up my self...
but i just feel so sad when i think of her... think of her, when she told me those thing...
i'm really scared i'll suicide to get rid of this feeling...
i just cannot accept this thing is happen to me...

do u knw how pain is me.... i just so hate this kind of feeling..
when i think of her... i will start crying... i dont knw is this normal for a guy to cry over a relationship problem... maybe i'm too weak...

ke shi wo jiu shi hen bu gan xin... wo hen bu gan xin wo fu chu le si nian de gan qing dao zui hou ni yi ju hua gao su wo, wo dui ni mei gan jue le jiu he wo fen shou...

u not even give us a chance...

feeling tell me u going to stead with tht guy...

i'm just so sad now...
so so sad...

guys.... pls help me...

i really try to cheer up my self... but it really hurt me so much...

/pat pat your back

do take care of yourself

for me, she is a very nice and faitfully girl..
i really cannot believe wat she have just done..

Originally posted by allentyb:

/pat pat your back

do take care of yourself

i cried without tears... really..

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

for me, she is a very nice and faitfully girl..
i really cannot believe wat she have just done..

She brought the guy to your house? what for?

Originally posted by Ladi:

She brought the guy to your house? what for?

thy went to pub with a group frens.. drank some alcohol..and rest at my house..
she tell me,

just rest only..

hopefully.....

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

i cried without tears... really..

I understand how you feel. This feeling is horrible.

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

for me, she is a very nice and faitfully girl..
i really cannot believe wat she have just done..

haiz

woman heart are hard to fathom

do take care of yourself

and take this time, to sulk and try to move on bah, initially it will be hard, but after a while, when you get used to it, you will feel better, and start to date again

just don't become like me, who thinks that singaporean woman are over rated

Aiyo

They said guys r open bastards ...but then girls are the real silent killers...sigh..

Nothing can change the facted that you have been betrayed...but you can
hang in there and survive it.

Good Luck and best wishes.

lesson wat ive learn...
never ever trust a woman..

at first thy tell u wat love only u, need only u, care only u..
at the end.. go fcuk urself..
damn!

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

i'm in love with someone else..
and the guy went to my house(this is wat the security guard told me)
i'm very dissapointed..

/me pat pat

Cheers

Now you can officially go after other girls liao...

Seriously when a girl has a change of heart, just let her go...

Four years ain't a short period of time spent, lots of memories were formed and casted... These can't be erased and disappear from your mind soon...

She has been destined to be part of your life and now the time's up, you got to move on to show to her you could move on without her...

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

lesson wat ive learn...
never ever trust a woman..

at first thy tell u wat love only u, need only u, care only u..
at the end.. go fcuk urself..
damn!

/pat pat your back again

oh well, woman heart are hard to fathom

Originally posted by dork3d:

Now you can officially go after other girls liao...

Seriously when a girl has a change of heart, just let her go...

Four years ain't a short period of time spent, lots of memories were formed and casted... These can't be erased and disappear from your mind soon...

She has been destined to be part of your life and now the time's up, you got to move on to show to her you could move on without her...

i love her so much like hell, my heart is already in her body in her soul, and now she fcuking telling me this, dont she ever think abt how will my feeling will be?
dont she ever think for wat she has promised..?
it's 4 years not 4 months!
u're not playing with ur kitten u knw?!
u're just so damn selffish unreasonable!

and lastly, how u wxpect me to move on without her.. i'm already get use of tht kind of life be with her....

It is unfortunate that this should happen but this is indeed a test of how strong your r/s with your gf is. Do you still trust her? It's high time that both parties have an open heart-to-heart talk now to determine where each stands....... Try to work it out lor.........

Originally posted by :

It is unfortunate that this should happen but this is indeed a test of hoow strong your r/s with your gf is. Do you still trust her? It's high time that both parties have an open heart-to-heart talk now to determine where each stands....... Try to work it out lor.........

i ask her, if there's still any chace, should we continue or dont?

she keep quite..
after awhile i ask her again, she answer,
yes..

i can see, she a bit guily..
and i ask her, so u want to be with tht guy?
she say no...

maybe there's still chance?
i dont knw..
but i really very in love with her..
just like how i love my mum, even more thn my mum..

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

i love her so much like hell, my heart is already in her body in her soul, and now she fcuking telling me this, dont she ever think abt how will my feeling will be?
dont she ever think for wat she has promised..?
it's 4 years not 4 months!
u're not playing with ur kitten u knw?!
u're just so damn selffish unreasonable!

and lastly, how u wxpect me to move on without her.. i'm already get use of tht kind of life be with her....

i know how you feel, so calm down now, take a deep breath, and relax abit, he is trying to cheer you up, i been through what you are, right now, it is ok to sulk, and it is better for you to look for a friend, to talk about it, and pour out your feelings, i have cried horrible, and talk to my friend tones of times, before i finally get over her

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

i love her so much like hell, my heart is already in her body in her soul, and now she fcuking telling me this, dont she ever think abt how will my feeling will be?
dont she ever think for wat she has promised..?
it's 4 years not 4 months!
u're not playing with ur kitten u knw?!
u're just so damn selffish unreasonable!

and lastly, how u wxpect me to move on without her.. i'm already get use of tht kind of life be with her....

When the moment she decided to end this relationship with you, she won't be thinking of all the promises she had made for you...

On top of that, she won't have given a thought on how would you feel or react to this change...

It will be hard and tough to step out that first move without her... You've accustomed to having her for four years... Like what me've mentioned, four years ain't a short time, there are bound to be flashes of memories of her... But right now, have she given you the chance?

She has denied you the chance and straight off jumping ship to another... Maybe she has her reasons, maybe she has been influenced by others, we don't know...

Move on make that first step... Arrange with her a meeting and have a talk with her why she has to leave you...

Give yourself an opportunity to hear what she has to say, and let her hear what you have to say...

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

and lastly, how u wxpect me to move on without her.. i'm already get use of tht kind of life be with her....

if it's a matter of habit, i can assure u habits can be changed de... it may seems rather impossible at the moment, but it's really not so.

ask urself, it is more painful to live w/o her or to live with her bearing the hurt she caused? if u r able to forgive and both willing to work things out then good lah...

if not, give urself time to mourn and let the emotions out...
get support from friends... or simply hang out and relax with friends... get on with ur life, esp. ur social life...

life sux but life goes on....

Originally posted by allentyb:

i know how you feel, so calm down now, take a deep breath, and relax abit, he is trying to cheer you up, i been through what you are, right now, it is ok to sulk, and it is better for you to look for a friend, to talk about it, and pour out your feelings, i have cried horrible, and talk to my friend tones of times, before i finally get over her

i really wish i can talk to my mum, my sis but and cry out loud! but, my mum will be very disappointed, as my family already treat her like own family member...
bu ke neng i need to tell thm she fall in love with some1 else..
yet now i still want to cover wat she did to me.. wake up edison!!

oh hell... wat should i do

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

i really wish i can talk to my mum, my sis but and cry out loud! but, my mum will be very disappointed, as my family already treat her like own family member...
bu ke neng i need to tell thm she fall in love with some1 else..
yet now i still want to cover wat she did to me.. wake up edison!!

oh hell... wat should i do

sulk, and grab a beer to drown your tears, and listen to music, talk to friends,

it is ok to sulk at this time, i know it will be hard for you to move on, i know, it took me 8 months to get over my ex, and now it is fine that you are depress, but once you got tired of talking about the same thing, then you will probably get over her already

now i understand why do some ppl Suicides…

Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):

now i understand why do some ppl Suicides...

don't be silly or foolish, no woman in this world, is worthwhile for you to commit this sort of act

seriously..ditch her...

if u marry...she will be promicious.

Originally posted by tare:

if it's a matter of habit, i can assure u habits can be changed de... it may seems rather impossible at the moment, but it's really not so.

ask urself, it is more painful to live w/o her or to live with her bearing the hurt she caused? if u r able to forgive and both willing to work things out then good lah...
if not, give urself time to mourn and let the emotions out...
get support from friends... or simply hang out and relax with friends... get on with ur life, esp. ur social life...

life sux but life goes on....

yes i'm...
coz she once forgive me...

and i very hate her...
hate her with still loving her just no longer believe to....