http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 en-US 60 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by vivasg:</div> <div class="quote_body">i'm really wonder, wat makes u think u have the right to suspect him when you already holding hands with Mr Y.<br /> <br /> If u think you have the right then you wouldn't have post this thread.<br /> betrayer yelling been betray (not even sure there's one) ?<br /> <br /> u been using ur assumption of ur reaction on ur bf. expecting tat since u betray him, so he sure betray u hahahaha wat kind of thought !<br /> <br /> just want to say not everyone is like u...</div> </blockquote> <p>I am wondering the same too. <img title="Rolling Eyes" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt= "Rolling Eyes" /></p> Fri, 17 Aug 2007 17:20:29 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:7003343 TinySue http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Vampire X:</div> <div class="quote_body">i am so angry with my bf . Yesterday I called him and a girl answered his phone. He said he has forgotten his hp at her home. I ask him what is he doing at her home? he answer that he send her home as they just had a gathering with a group of friends. I also discovered the girl's photo on his handphone when I tried to use his hp to take photo of the rain today, I saw alot of the girl's photograph with different pose somemore ..different smile at different capture .damn act Cute but Not Cute!.<br /> <br /> see liao also feel like vomitting , is he trying to hint me to break with him? So pissed off! I ask him how come got girl photo he answered that he is not aware of it and probably the girl has used it to test the camera effect. I did not check on his sms as I do not have the habit. when I ask him more than 3 questions, he say i don't trust him , making a big fuse on this matter. Now become he angry with me.<br /> <br /> Also he will be going on a week's trip with his this group of friends (including the girl) to Taiwan and not letting me to go with him. He say he know I am busy at work so did not ask me along. He never even ask me and all he do is he make decision himself. Everytime also like that. with his busy schedule at work, he never ask me to go holiday with him but he can always go holiday with his family and friends or colleagues. I wonder if he really treat me as his gf. He can even forget my birthday and went out with his friends. He refused to go out to celebrate on valentine's day saying its crowded. We never celebrate valentine's day for about 3 yrs!He also did not help me celebrate my birthday for 2 years.<br /> <br /> You think I should still trust him?</div> </blockquote> <p>Please lah, Dun let us gals down lah, just kick his ass and dick and dump him far far away. Get real gal, why stick to one rotton banana when there are so much other much nicer, big and strong bananas around.<br /> <br /> Bring out the gal intergrity and pride in it, for boys today, you dun have to please them one lah, the more you please and beg, the more they ya ya and go do their own way. Be tough and tell them off, they will come begging on knees before you...make them know we gals are not so easy get bullied, dun be so desparate as tho the world is left with one boy only ya.<br /> <br /> Be strong and tough ya, if not they will eat you raw, like me, if bf dare to cheat me, that's it, no more call, no more answering, no more talking till he confess and admit it, even then, I will try to make his life difficult so that he has to wake up his damn bloody mind.<br /> <br /> That is why me still no steady bf lah. All run like coward liao.</p> Fri, 17 Aug 2007 16:22:57 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:7003124 angel7030 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by RonDaGuy:</div> <div class="quote_body">nope. i am attached with my gf for 4 years and still going.<br /> Since secondary to poly. None of my friends in my generation<br /> has ever dated for so long. usually broke off around 1 year to 2.<br /> <br /> i am only 20 this year. going tru my NS now which is yet another obstacle.<br /> so when i am out, hopefully we will be together 6years already. After NS will be my pursuing my uni degree and when the time comes for marriage<br /> i would have been with her as boyfriend for over 8 years.<br /> <br /> I always set my goals and achieved them so far. i did all these for me and her future and i wish for her support forever.<br /> <br /> I always believe love would enter a series of hibernation around 5th year as we both are customized and ready for stable r/s. i make her believe that cheap thrills are not worth seeking.<br /> <br /> Don't tell me your parents are still as loving as they just met. asif anyone's father will still say romantic and mushy stuffs everyday. Settle down before it's too late.<br /> <br /> BE WITH someone you truly love and wish to marry. Not someone who can just give a moment of sweet love.<br /> <br /> Change your character to match each other and carry on customizing till forever. By then you would be perfect in each other's heart.<br /> Always believe that your partner makes you a better person.<br /> <br /> But i do know of guys who really sux to the core.<br /> girls please protect yourself and always be aware of a guy's intention.<br /> <br /></div> </blockquote> <p>You are a dinasour liao! At least your frens change for the better.</p> Fri, 17 Aug 2007 16:09:45 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:7003068 angel7030 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>deep down inside your heart,<br /> <br /> you've got to make a choice.<br /> <br /> no matter how hard it may be.<br /> <br /> once you've decided,<br /> <br /> stick with your choice.</p> Fri, 17 Aug 2007 11:06:09 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:7001767 Chris1988 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>A person self conflict too much will be liddat, it’s difficult for them to change unless they grow older.</p> Fri, 17 Aug 2007 08:05:58 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:7001181 T.Ryousuke http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Vampire X:</div> <div class="quote_body">There's once happened 2 years ago, when I accidentally fell down a block of stairs &amp; roll down. My legs were bleeding &amp; so pain till I cannot walk properly, he scolded me for not paying attention &amp; did not walk properly. He even added that I totally throw his face in public.<br /></div> </blockquote> <p>am i the only one who thinks that's a bit screwed up?<br /> <br /> now that i've read most of your posts...DUMP HIM! he obviously doesnt love you and probably never will so dont waste your time on him.</p> Fri, 17 Aug 2007 03:28:22 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:7001089 kikq http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by CannyOng:</div> <div class="quote_body">I bet u are a single!</div> </blockquote> <p>nope. i am attached with my gf for 4 years and still going.<br /> Since secondary to poly. None of my friends in my generation<br /> has ever dated for so long. usually broke off around 1 year to 2.<br /> <br /> i am only 20 this year. going tru my NS now which is yet another obstacle.<br /> so when i am out, hopefully we will be together 6years already. After NS will be my pursuing my uni degree and when the time comes for marriage<br /> i would have been with her as boyfriend for over 8 years.<br /> <br /> I always set my goals and achieved them so far. i did all these for me and her future and i wish for her support forever.<br /> <br /> I always believe love would enter a series of hibernation around 5th year as we both are customized and ready for stable r/s. i make her believe that cheap thrills are not worth seeking.<br /> <br /> Don't tell me your parents are still as loving as they just met. asif anyone's father will still say romantic and mushy stuffs everyday. Settle down before it's too late.<br /> <br /> BE WITH someone you truly love and wish to marry. Not someone who can just give a moment of sweet love.<br /> <br /> Change your character to match each other and carry on customizing till forever. By then you would be perfect in each other's heart.<br /> Always believe that your partner makes you a better person.<br /> <br /> But i do know of guys who really sux to the core.<br /> girls please protect yourself and always be aware of a guy's intention.<br /> <br /></p> Thu, 16 Aug 2007 18:43:37 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6998163 RonDaGuy http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by RonDaGuy:</div> <div class="quote_body">Read this thread.<br /> about crystal gal regretting what she did to her bf!<br /> <a href= "http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&amp;thread_id=273835" rel= "nofollow">www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&amp;thread_id=273835</a><br /> <br /> Don't do it.</div> </blockquote> <p>I bet u are a single!</p> Thu, 16 Aug 2007 18:29:56 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6998087 CannyOng http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>Whats more if that guy is a married man!<br /> how can he show care and concern to another woman when he is married?!<br /> so if you choose him, don't you think you are actually seeking an even worse<br /> guy ?<br /> <br /> Read this thread.<br /> about crystal gal regretting what she did to her bf!<br /> <a href= "http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&amp;thread_id=273835" rel= "nofollow">www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&amp;thread_id=273835</a><br /> <br /> Don't do it.</p> Thu, 16 Aug 2007 18:25:54 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6998086 RonDaGuy http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p><span style="color: red;"><span class="large"><strong>TS, READ THIS PLEASE:</strong></span></span><br /> why always ask people to break up?!<br /> <br /> Threadstarter, Y treats you good and showed care and concern to you...<br /> but remember this,<br /> <br /> he is single and trying to fish you away.<br /> All guys have bad intention behind them.<br /> There's no one guy who can truthfully be your best friend.<br /> <br /> Do remember that<br /> Your bf X treats you good and showed the same care and concern<br /> for you when he is wooing you or when you both are still madly in love<br /> during the first few years.<br /> <br /> What Y is doing is excatly the same. YOU never know how he will be like<br /> 5 years down the road.<br /> <br /> You and your current bf are customized to one another.<br /> 5 Years of customization. You should seek a stable life instead of cheap thrills.<br /> Thats what guys usually thinks about when they hold a r/s down the road.<br /> They expect you to understand them. You are perfect in his eyes.<br /> If you find flaws in him, customize him more! not shrink responsibility<br /> and excuse yourself to seek for another man who is single and trying his way<br /> into your pants.<br /> <br /> please... if that single guy is so great, he would have got himself a girlfriend<br /> 5 years ago.<br /> <br /> WHY CANT GIRLS THINK CAREFULLY and seek CHEAP THRILLS.<br /> If the SO CALLED Single guys out there are so attractive yet available,<br /> there must definately be something wrong in them.<br /> <br /> Girls are always dumping emotional guys who treasured love.<br /> i felt sorry for your bf who focuses on his work because of<br /> both of your future thinking that his gf can support him behind without<br /> him to worry.</p> Thu, 16 Aug 2007 18:24:07 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6998063 RonDaGuy http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by jojobeach:</div> <div class="quote_body">A good partner SUPPORTS.. NOT belittle.<br /> <br /> It seems your boyfriend don't care about how you feel, let alone how you think.<br /> <br /> Remember, in a good relationship, opinions from each other matters.<br /> Relationship is not a one way thing.<br /> <br /> Ask yourself this, " How long can I tolerate his treatment?"<br /> " Will it change for the better ?", "It has been 5 years, do I want to deal with it for the next 30 years ???"<br /> <br /> If you can afford to keep your options open. I think you should consider another person whom you think may be more suitable for you.<br /> <br /> Just because it is a 5 year relationship doesn't mean he is the RIGHT one for you.<br /> <br /> I used to have a b/f who seems to criticise every thing I do.<br /> After a while, it gets very emotionally draining.<br /> Yes I got tired of him putting me down all the time.<br /> My self-confidence just got erroded to the core.<br /> <br /> So, I seek greener pasture and I found greener pasture.<br /> <br /> My current partner gives me confidence, not take it away.<br /> <br /></div> </blockquote> <p>Yea , true..<br /> <br /> if the one you like doesnt seem to care how u think or feel.. there no love..<br /> <br /> I dont thk u love your bf like u do previously. you're hating him everyday<br /> <br /> U just scared of breaking up with him for the sake that ppl may call unfaithful or something like that but u knw urself u hate being this kind of guy... y need to tolerate if he cant tolerate how u thk ?<br /> <br /> Break up with him la.. 5 years so wat? that means 5 years n he never change.. hes a ego guy la.. break up la.. it doesnt mean the longer you both stay togehter the more stable the relationship ? this is jus a bullsyht ler..<br /> <br /> Being together doesnt mean that you love together.. it means toleration, n understanding.. Some ppl may be together for 1 year but in the 1 year, they mayb be more happier than you being in 5 years.. Leave him la..<br /> <br /> I personally hate this kind of guy thk hes alwasy correct.. if my gf is like that.. i cant bet ..5 months is the max period i can give to her to change<br /> <br /></p> Thu, 16 Aug 2007 16:56:50 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6997678 Zarks http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>u go ur way he go his way........final &amp; best for both...its sad but no choice, good luck <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /></p> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 13:19:49 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6657319 de_middle http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>VampireX,<br /> <br /> It might be possible that he is cheating on you, or at least being tempted to cheat on you.<br /> <br /> Let's look on the bright side, and suggest maybe he is a little bit led on by the other girl...<br /> <br /> Even then, I think the minimal requirement for a good bf/husband is that the gf's birthday be celebrated, even though V day can be conveniently dismissed as being too commercialized.<br /> <br /> Breaking up is hard. But it may be the correct thing to do.. and any decision should be made as independent of Y as possible.<br /> <br /> Good luck, girl..</p> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 11:34:22 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6656765 ordinaryguy32 http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>OMG, may I ask how old are you Vampire X?<br /> <br /> Seem like my Era is more peaceful then yours ?<br /> <br /> However, in my opinion, this bf cannot keep liao if he is still the same.</p> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 09:39:19 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6656230 Xlashes http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>i'm really wonder, wat makes u think u have the right to suspect him when you already holding hands with Mr Y.<br /> <br /> If u think you have the right then you wouldn't have post this thread.<br /> betrayer yelling been betray (not even sure there's one) ?<br /> <br /> u been using ur assumption of ur reaction on ur bf. expecting tat since u betray him, so he sure betray u hahahaha wat kind of thought !<br /> <br /> just want to say not everyone is like u...</p> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 08:37:27 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6655964 vivasg http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Vampire X:</div> <div class="quote_body">i am so angry with my bf . Yesterday I called him and a girl answered his phone. He said he has forgotten his hp at her home. I ask him what is he doing at her home? he answer that he send her home as they just had a gathering with a group of friends. I also discovered the girl's photo on his handphone when I tried to use his hp to take photo of the rain today, I saw alot of the girl's photograph with different pose somemore ..different smile at different capture .damn act Cute but Not Cute!.<br /> <br /> see liao also feel like vomitting , is he trying to hint me to break with him? So pissed off! I ask him how come got girl photo he answered that he is not aware of it and probably the girl has used it to test the camera effect. I did not check on his sms as I do not have the habit. when I ask him more than 3 questions, he say i don't trust him , making a big fuse on this matter. Now become he angry with me.<br /> <br /> Also he will be going on a week's trip with his this group of friends (including the girl) to Taiwan and not letting me to go with him. He say he know I am busy at work so did not ask me along. He never even ask me and all he do is he make decision himself. Everytime also like that. with his busy schedule at work, he never ask me to go holiday with him but he can always go holiday with his family and friends or colleagues. I wonder if he really treat me as his gf. He can even forget my birthday and went out with his friends. He refused to go out to celebrate on valentine's day saying its crowded. We never celebrate valentine's day for about 3 yrs!He also did not help me celebrate my birthday for 2 years.<br /> <br /> You think I should still trust him?</div> </blockquote> <p>Ohh...<br /> <br /> So did you tell that girl during the call that you are his girlfriend ?<br /> <br /> If you know that girl's contact, you should call her up and talk to her.<br /> <br /> You gotta guard your own turf girl.<br /> <br /> Wouldn't want any stray biatch to come piss in your lawn.<br /> Gota show who's the boss in this case.<br /> <br /> I believe you have let your bf led you by the nose for too long.<br /> Now he's just taking advantage of your weakness.<br /> <br /> Let him know you are not one he can mess around with.<br /> Stand up for your own rights.<br /> <br /> Why you letting your bf and that biatch walk all over you ?<br /> In other words, time to kick his butt.</p> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 03:59:37 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6655766 jojobeach http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>"F" lor.. this kind of guy u still wan ar???<br /> <br /> last time how cum like him??? must be ur eyes pa stem!!!<br /> <br /> i suggest this kind of guy dump dump dump!!!<br /> <br /> forget bdae?? kaoz... if he realli treat u as gf.. this kind of thing wun forget...<br /> <br /> dump him!!!</p> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 02:41:52 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6655476 Dormito_ger http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>i am so angry with my bf . Yesterday I called him and a girl answered his phone. He said he has forgotten his hp at her home. I ask him what is he doing at her home? he answer that he send her home as they just had a gathering with a group of friends. I also discovered the girl's photo on his handphone when I tried to use his hp to take photo of the rain today, I saw alot of the girl's photograph with different pose somemore ..different smile at different capture .damn act Cute but Not Cute!.<br /> <br /> see liao also feel like vomitting , is he trying to hint me to break with him? So pissed off! I ask him how come got girl photo he answered that he is not aware of it and probably the girl has used it to test the camera effect. I did not check on his sms as I do not have the habit. when I ask him more than 3 questions, he say i don't trust him , making a big fuse on this matter. Now become he angry with me.<br /> <br /> Also he will be going on a week's trip with his this group of friends (including the girl) to Taiwan and not letting me to go with him. He say he know I am busy at work so did not ask me along. He never even ask me and all he do is he make decision himself. Everytime also like that. with his busy schedule at work, he never ask me to go holiday with him but he can always go holiday with his family and friends or colleagues. I wonder if he really treat me as his gf. He can even forget my birthday and went out with his friends. He refused to go out to celebrate on valentine's day saying its crowded. We never celebrate valentine's day for about 3 yrs!He also did not help me celebrate my birthday for 2 years.<br /> <br /> You think I should still trust him?</p> Wed, 13 Jun 2007 01:16:25 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6654873 Vampire X http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>vivasg,<br /> <br /> ok, im out of here. Most probably she wanna keep Mr X and Y and be seen as a victim too. <img title="Rolling Eyes" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt= "Rolling Eyes" /></p> Tue, 12 Jun 2007 19:10:50 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6653067 ozon http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>ozon,<br /> <br /> I think no need advice her le lah.. let her be.. maybe she think with her ....<br /> let her bear the consequence...<br /> <br /> kiss_my (_i_)<br /> U have my support. some guy just born to be a stealer. Not worth for us to argue with them, they not even a man <img title="Smile" src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_smile.gif" alt="Smile" /><br /> <br /> I glad tat eventhough u suffer from this, but u get a better relationship in future. this is i pretty sure. so don't brood overy it. is not worth your time <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /><br /></p> Tue, 12 Jun 2007 12:24:45 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6650463 vivasg http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <p>Originally posted by Dormito_ger:<br /> my advice here is, if he treats stranger better than u.... and not being understanding... situation will get worse as time goes by. even though 5 years relationship is not something that is easy to let go off, but think in the long term- wat if his attitude towards u get worse?? wat happens?? y drag on??<br /> <br /></p> </blockquote> <p>well said!<br /> <br /> TS, u need to CUT ALL TIES with mister Y (if need be quit yr job) or you'll definitely be his mistress.<br /> <br /> I'm a guy and most guys think with their di.ck when they mix around with girls.<br /> <br /> As for your bf, maybe you should give each other some "cooling period" to sort things out? Never give in too much or he will take you for granted.</p> Mon, 11 Jun 2007 19:51:11 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6646547 ozon http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <p>i used to have an ex who is also like ur 5 years bf- always think strangers is right.<br /> <br /> i remember there was once i got into a car accident- i was stopping at the traffic light when someone guy bang onto my bumper of my car.<br /> <br /> the 1st person i called was my ex. he didnt even ask me how i was.. whether i was hurt etc etc.... and start accusing me of not driving properly... and insisted that i stop suddenli..... tats y the car bang onto my bumper. SO according to him- all accident is my fault.. and no words of concern.<br /> <br /> another accident happen 2 months after this... my hsemates have all graduated and moved out and i was alone at home then. i was scared tat day because there were two houses near my place being robbed in the afternoon, yes in the afternoon!!!! and the police haven caught the robber yet but they suspect the robber is still in the area. i called the same ex again... and all he can sae is- is ok ok one.. never mind- dunno y u make a big fuss out of it..... i insisted this time for him to come over to pei me... but all he can sae is that i am making a big fuss out of everything and no calls after to check to see if i am ok...<br /> <br /> i broke up with him after wat happen the third time.. when i was at his place asking him to direct me to a pharmacy... and he called me stupid and useless because i cannot understand what his instruction was, and i went home crying.<br /> <br /> my advice here is, if he treats stranger better than u.... and not being understanding... situation will get worse as time goes by. even though 5 years relationship is not something that is easy to let go off, but think in the long term- wat if his attitude towards u get worse?? wat happens?? y drag on??<br /> <br /> just my opinion for u.</p> Mon, 11 Jun 2007 17:35:16 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6645941 Dormito_ger http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):</div> <div class="quote_body">no, i only assume to those who always want to ruin ppl's r/s..<br /> so, if u think it's right, do it thn....<br /> <br /> and ruining ppl r/s is a sin. this is wat think..<br /> just like how u think;<br /> There is no moral code or rules in love affairs..<br /> <br /> different ppl different thinking.. <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /></div> </blockquote> <p>Deliberately ruining a relationship would be like threatening, making a nusance of themselves, extreme measures, back-stabbing and all that drama u can see on drama shows.<br /> <br /> I am neither of that. In fact, i am just a man, holding a handphone, waiting...and waiting..</p> Mon, 11 Jun 2007 17:06:29 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6645741 pinkish purple papayas http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:</div> <div class="quote_body">I don't even know the BF to call it revenge.<br /> <br /> There is no moral code or rules in love affairs. Sin or not sin, unless u can write a law book of love then u can start sentencing people.<br /> <br /> Affairs of the heart is very very situational. Like thumbprint, each relationship tells a different story.<br /> <br /> U dun know me too.<br /> From how u reply back, u assume everyone think like u too <img title="Rolling Eyes" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_rolleyes.gif" alt= "Rolling Eyes" /></div> </blockquote> <p>no, i only assume to those who always want to ruin ppl's r/s..<br /> so, if u think it's right, do it thn....<br /> <br /> and ruining ppl r/s is a sin. this is wat think..<br /> just like how u think;<br /> There is no moral code or rules in love affairs..<br /> <br /> different ppl different thinking.. <img title="Wink" src= "/images/emoticons/classic/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" /></p> Mon, 11 Jun 2007 16:52:04 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6645671 kiss_my (_i_) http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898 <blockquote> <div class="quote_from">Originally posted by Xlashes:</div> <div class="quote_body">Love is not so straight forward .. all I know is dun need to ask any1.. u have the ans.. no matter wad others think doesn't matter. Wad's wrong of breaking other ppl's r/s ? If u r better, why not give it a try ? of cos, u will face the music, so wad? If the r/s is not going to work out in the end, u r juz saving his/her time. Of cos, u have to think whether it it worth it ?<br /> <br /> Many ppl say girls gotten this way is not a good girl. but sometimes i beg to differ, not always, depends on the situation. Many ppl are juz not brave enough in r/s. However, dun jump from r/s to r/s .. if your current 1 is not bad, hang on.. if really no feeling, then no point carry on..<br /> <br /> Anyway, it is your freedom to do wadever you want. following the moral code is very tedious and may not be necessary.. in the case i may not support u, becos the other party is not attached but married.. but anyway u also wun listen to me as u already have a decision. Attraction is not a choice but you still can choose your actions.<br /> <br /> When u want to do or dun want to do something, you have thousand excuses.. but think of that consequence. Yes, follow your heart most of the time to be happy but if you always follow your heart, you may end up in hell. Occassionally , you use head.<br /> <br /></div> </blockquote> <p>I agree too.</p> Mon, 11 Jun 2007 15:24:25 +0800 sgforums.com:12:255898:6645243 pinkish purple papayas http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/255898