erm..i like a girl who is steadless. But she told me that she still love her ex very very much! n she wan to patch with him. i can feel that she love her ex alot too. i still haven’t confess to that girl yet but i think she know i like her. What can i do? keep pestering her? make her like me?? lol… any ideas? or someone can tell me what to do? i really duno…should i give up???

Originally posted by lalaTearz:

erm..i like a girl who is steadless. But she told me that she still love her ex very very much! n she wan to patch with him. i can feel that she love her ex alot too. i still haven't confess to that girl yet but i think she know i like her. What can i do? keep pestering her? make her like me?? lol... any ideas? or someone can tell me what to do? i really duno...should i give up???

"steadless" - errr hello? that sounds so.... correct term is Single.

ok english lesson over... hehehe

lalaTearz, let's recap what you know :

1) She is Single
2) She is still in love with her ex.
3) She is still hoping to reunite with her ex.
4) She may know that you like her.

If knowing all these (esp points 2 & 3) and you are still thinking if you should go ahead to woo her,

Then my advice is. go woo her. Try your best to win her over.

but don't 'pester' her.... the word pester comes from the word pest. and no one likes a pest.

However, pls don't be too hopeful.. If she is really still in love with her ex, then your chances are low. know when to give up.

Last advice, Give her time to fully get over her ex. be careful not to become her rebound...

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i think u shd jus leave her alone if she is not ready to accept a new rship

use ur sincerely to move her.. be friends with her first, ask her out, ask her opinion about stuff.. etc.

Originally posted by smudgey:

"steadless" - errr hello? that sounds so.... correct term is Single.

ok english lesson over... hehehe

lalaTearz, let's recap what you know :

1) She is Single
2) She is still in love with her ex.
3) She is still hoping to reunite with her ex.
4) She may know that you like her.

If knowing all these (esp points 2 & 3) and you are still thinking if you should go ahead to woo her,

Then my advice is. go woo her. Try your best to win her over.

but don't 'pester' her.... the word pester comes from the word pest. and no one likes a pest.

However, pls don't be too hopeful.. If she is really still in love with her ex, then your chances are low. know when to give up.

Last advice, Give her time to fully get over her ex. be careful not to become her rebound...

thread carefully

sorry..my english not very gd...

Originally posted by lalaTearz:

sorry..my english not very gd...

hahaha that's ok.

I sense a hint of desperation in your post.....nonono.

Take it easy yeh......try to be a "fun" friend to be with first and then see how it goes.

Originally posted by lalaTearz:

erm..i like a girl who is steadless. But she told me that she still love her ex very very much! n she wan to patch with him. i can feel that she love her ex alot too. i still haven't confess to that girl yet but i think she know i like her. What can i do? keep pestering her? make her like me?? lol... any ideas? or someone can tell me what to do? i really duno...should i give up???

i think u must say that you like her many times until she started to think of you than her ex. Buy her present will melt her heart.

wait lst…..

I think you should leave her alone too.

If you try to woo her, she'll just feel uncomfortable because you're so nice to her but she is not ready to let go and reciprocate.

yes. leave her alone, even if eventually she agreed to be yr girlfriend she will still be tinking of her ex, which would make you and her even more miserable..

I can't say you leave her alone.

Just be her friend by her side.

But remember not to cross the line when she's not ready or else everything is gonna turn to nothing.

Respect her right and decision.

You will have to control the amount of love for her, so that you'll not give her pressure.

Originally posted by smudgey:

"steadless" - errr hello? that sounds so.... correct term is Single.

ok english lesson over... hehehe

lalaTearz, let's recap what you know :

1) She is Single
2) She is still in love with her ex.
3) She is still hoping to reunite with her ex.
4) She may know that you like her.

If knowing all these (esp points 2 & 3) and you are still thinking if you should go ahead to woo her,

Then my advice is. go woo her. Try your best to win her over.

but don't 'pester' her.... the word pester comes from the word pest. and no one likes a pest.

However, pls don't be too hopeful.. If she is really still in love with her ex, then your chances are low. know when to give up.

Last advice, Give her time to fully get over her ex. be careful not to become her rebound...

thread carefully

Good post

She is not ready for a new relationship. She still loves her ex.

Are you confident that you will be able to let her forget her feelings for her ex?

If she needs a long time to forget her ex, are you ready to stay with her, despite being under the shadow of her ex?

These are questions you need to ask yourself. If you're confident you can do both of them, then yes, fight for your love.

If you aren't confident, stay as a friend first. Heartbroken girls are fragile, and vulnerable. A hasty entrance, without consideration of your own determination, will only harm your chances. On the other hand, this is also the period where you can make the greatest impact on her.

Originally posted by curryman:

wait lst.....

stay around & wait i you can, best of luck

Originally posted by lalaTearz:

erm..i like a girl who is steadless. But she told me that she still love her ex very very much! n she wan to patch with him. i can feel that she love her ex alot too. i still haven't confess to that girl yet but i think she know i like her. What can i do? keep pestering her? make her like me?? lol... any ideas? or someone can tell me what to do? i really duno...should i give up???

date her out and date her out and date her out until she likes you or go back to her ex.... what you want? Life does not come with warranties...

Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:

Good post

Arigato!

Originally posted by smudgey:

"steadless" - errr hello? that sounds so.... correct term is Single.

ok english lesson over... hehehe

Hello. teacher, you are wrong... it is not equivalent to "single"

He meant, single and unattached, without a "steady". So the correct term is not "single" but "unattached"

ok english lesson really over... hehehe

she still love her ex..u push things now may end up being spare tyre..let her be..

Originally posted by lalaTearz:

erm..i like a girl who is steadless. But she told me that she still love her ex very very much! n she wan to patch with him. i can feel that she love her ex alot too. i still haven't confess to that girl yet but i think she know i like her. What can i do? keep pestering her? make her like me?? lol... any ideas? or someone can tell me what to do? i really duno...should i give up???

You think only.... But you don't know if she knows you like her....

Originally posted by smudgey:

"steadless" - errr hello? that sounds so...

i hate it when people use "stead" in that context.

i heard someone say "wo men ke yi go stead ma?" and i nearly vomitted.

Originally posted by lalaTearz:

erm..i like a girl who is steadless. But she told me that she still love her ex very very much! n she wan to patch with him. i can feel that she love her ex alot too. i still haven't confess to that girl yet but i think she know i like her. What can i do? keep pestering her? make her like me?? lol... any ideas? or someone can tell me what to do? i really duno...should i give up???

Why do you like her ?

You are just like this nerd :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7BLF8AAbvo

OK- take your time, but always be there for her...let her move at her own pace..... ''

Originally posted by alveo:

i hate it when people use "stead" in that context.

i heard someone say "wo men ke yi go stead ma?" and i nearly vomitted.

and did you go stead with the wo/man that asked you? What was your answer, considering that the question almost made you puke?

Since u have planted a love seed in her, just wait for it to grow lor.
Too much water or too much sunlight, will kill it...

U cannot expect love committed to have returns.
U just have to wait for it to grow within her.

Haha.. meanwhile, u can keep yrself busy to kill yr anxious feeling. Or u can spread more love seed around ... sure got one that grew to be a tree :p