I need somone to guide me
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I have never been in a relationship and i am 23 this year. I have no first hand experiences and know nuts about BGR relationship so can someone please lend me a helping hand. THank U!
Scenario:
I recently got to know this girl through a very extraordinary way not like those common boy meet girl scenario. I known her for about 1 week but we never really chat except exchanging of HIs and BYEs. Then on this particular day i was quite bored so i just started to initiate a chat with her but the moment she open her mouth and started talking. I just got engrosed in it and out of a sudden there was a adrenaline rush and I had this funny feeling that is very difficult for me to describe. I try to cover up and quickly ended up my chat with her saying that i was going home. So it ended. The next day i was back there, i wanted to see her but i the moment i saw her my heart started to race and it was pumping fast. OMG so i decided to keep a distance from her and i didnt chat up with her except smiling at her at a distance to let her know that i am aware of her existense.
I have never felt this way before. For your information My work place have tons of girls but i never got into this awkward situation before. So any advices for me or wad do u think i should do? -
It just a crush dude...
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Well... everyone has a first time... What you're experiencing now is probably just a crush? Infatuation maybe? No one knows for sure except yourself...
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If I were the girl, I will be confused and probably think that you are not keen.
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why don't you ask her go for lunch with you? lunch is always a good start. good things, habits, types of conversations she likes etc you can find out during lunch. be casual when u ask. don't be afraid. if not this particular day u want, then arrange another day at the local canteen or makan place or whatsoever.
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Hold your horses, take your time. Spend more time to know her and give her the chance to know more about you too. Even if your heart iseager and pulse racing like mad, rushing things forward prematurely will destroy the process.
Like what M© and others has discussed in a thread: brewing soup takes time. When is the right time, we still do not know. You are not there yet. The soup is still not cooking at the moment.. -
Hmmm you can start out as friends first....
Then slowly get to know each other....patience is virtue =) -
Such a big & fast response...hmm...is it really something else besides physical attraction to e lady?
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outdated puppy love.
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I tght it's a innocent one but has loads of potential and positiveness in his description.Originally posted by MichelleTan:outdated puppy love. -
u have mental problems...go c doctor....
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Originally posted by curryman:u have mental problems...go c doctor....
Its just a crush la. -
it was lust right?
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x2Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:
Its just a crush la. -
it's just a crush?Originally posted by cosmocanyon1:I have never been in a relationship and i am 23 this year. I have no first hand experiences and know nuts about BGR relationship so can someone please lend me a helping hand. THank U!
Scenario:
I recently got to know this girl through a very extraordinary way not like those common boy meet girl scenario. I known her for about 1 week but we never really chat except exchanging of HIs and BYEs. Then on this particular day i was quite bored so i just started to initiate a chat with her but the moment she open her mouth and started talking. I just got engrosed in it and out of a sudden there was a adrenaline rush and I had this funny feeling that is very difficult for me to describe. I try to cover up and quickly ended up my chat with her saying that i was going home. So it ended. The next day i was back there, i wanted to see her but i the moment i saw her my heart started to race and it was pumping fast. OMG so i decided to keep a distance from her and i didnt chat up with her except smiling at her at a distance to let her know that i am aware of her existense.
I have never felt this way before. For your information My work place have tons of girls but i never got into this awkward situation before. So any advices for me or wad do u think i should do?
take a deep breath and continue
but isn't anyone curious... "I recently got to know this girl through a very extraordinary way not like those common boy meet girl scenario."
what's this extraordinary way? -
An advice to you
Take is slow, and be normal
Just be normal friends with her. Things will follow suit.. Trying to hard will not get you anywhere.
I am sure you have friends right? How u relate to a friend, do the same to her.
Dont think and think of all the thousand ifs and whys, but just do it..
Its not too difficult to be a friend right? -
already said, take it slow.. but if u reali enjoy talking to her then continue to talk to her but as fren 1st cos u dun know if she is reali ur ideal gal character wise... so enjoy ur journey... dun get her as a gf jz becos she is chio.. know more abt her and let her know more abt u... most impt thing -> check if she got bf anot 1st....Originally posted by cosmocanyon1:I have never been in a relationship and i am 23 this year. I have no first hand experiences and know nuts about BGR relationship so can someone please lend me a helping hand. THank U!
Scenario:
I recently got to know this girl through a very extraordinary way not like those common boy meet girl scenario. I known her for about 1 week but we never really chat except exchanging of HIs and BYEs. Then on this particular day i was quite bored so i just started to initiate a chat with her but the moment she open her mouth and started talking. I just got engrosed in it and out of a sudden there was a adrenaline rush and I had this funny feeling that is very difficult for me to describe. I try to cover up and quickly ended up my chat with her saying that i was going home. So it ended. The next day i was back there, i wanted to see her but i the moment i saw her my heart started to race and it was pumping fast. OMG so i decided to keep a distance from her and i didnt chat up with her except smiling at her at a distance to let her know that i am aware of her existense.
I have never felt this way before. For your information My work place have tons of girls but i never got into this awkward situation before. So any advices for me or wad do u think i should do? -
You have special feeling for the gal..
Try to control your emotional and you might win her hand..
Good luck dude...
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Do u have her MSN or hp number? CHat with her thru MSN or sms to know her more will do good.
Do not rush into a date with her like lunch or dinner unless by chance.
Thru the conversation,if u know her in depth and really think she is the type of gal u want,then proceed to date like a lunch or outing -
He did described a 'adrenalin rush.' which result in him needing to go home.Originally posted by browniebaobao:it was lust right? -
my sentiments exactly...good luck TSOriginally posted by soulwinner:You have special feeling for the gal..
Try to control your emotional and you might win her hand..
Good luck dude... -
Take it easy... nothing to write home about. This is very common.Originally posted by cosmocanyon1:I have never been in a relationship and i am 23 this year. I have no first hand experiences and know nuts about BGR relationship so can someone please lend me a helping hand. THank U!
Scenario:
I recently got to know this girl through a very extraordinary way not like those common boy meet girl scenario. I known her for about 1 week but we never really chat except exchanging of HIs and BYEs. Then on this particular day i was quite bored so i just started to initiate a chat with her but the moment she open her mouth and started talking. I just got engrosed in it and out of a sudden there was a adrenaline rush and I had this funny feeling that is very difficult for me to describe. I try to cover up and quickly ended up my chat with her saying that i was going home. So it ended. The next day i was back there, i wanted to see her but i the moment i saw her my heart started to race and it was pumping fast. OMG so i decided to keep a distance from her and i didnt chat up with her except smiling at her at a distance to let her know that i am aware of her existense.
I have never felt this way before. For your information My work place have tons of girls but i never got into this awkward situation before. So any advices for me or wad do u think i should do?
So what you should do is date her out and see if she accepts your dates... then get to know her better and see if you can get along with her... step by step like that... -
Puppy love?
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take your time
date her out let her understand you and you understand her -
Do you have her email ? Or any form of text messaging contact ?
Just send her this.
Hi ( Insert name),
Thank you for the interesting chat we had the other day. You seem like a very friendly and nice person. It will be nice if I can know you better as a friend. Hope to chat with you again soon.
( Insert Name )
If she replies you replies with a thank you note on the compliments.
Good.
If not, forget it, she is not interested.
If she replies, ask her out for a lunch or other group activities.
Keep it informal, keep it casual. Remember U are not out for the kill.
All you want to do is to get to know her more.