Gone case liao?
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if a ger sms you and say this confirm gone case liao??
"i always tink that there can be true friends p between ppl of different gender, do u agree"
even though we always go out 1 on 1 date?? -
Different gender?
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I'm more interested in finding out e reply from e threadstarter. Can share?
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Get ready to be single
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huh......wat u tell her before this msg?
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in order not to "spoil" the friendship now, i answer. " of cos"
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I presume you didn't mean what you said in e reply to her hence e dilemma...right?Originally posted by seaworld:in order not to "spoil" the friendship now, i answer. " of cos" -
Going out 1 on 1 basis does not imply a lead to a progress in a r/s.
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Ditto & Bull's Eye!Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:Going out 1 on 1 basis does not imply a lead to a progress in a r/s. -
Cos she say she is not as good as i tink...Originally posted by FireIce:huh......wat u tell her before this msg?
then i reply no one perfect..and i ask wat she tink of me..
she replyi am okie as a friend. -
YA! GONE CASE!
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/me pass TS some tissue paper.
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thats a female's rejection pal, its one thing i hate, they will never say "no" directly, they will give all sorts of explanations to not "hurt your feelings", so they say "lets be friends".Originally posted by seaworld:Cos she say she is not as good as i tink...
then i reply no one perfect..and i ask wat she tink of me..
she replyi am okie as a friend.
unfortunately when they do that they are killing you even more slowly. FUCK
sure people say if you're matured and crap you can forget and just think of her as a friend, like snap and all the feelings are gone. well i think its not as easy as that. bullsh!t -
face it..its a gone case most likely.
it sucks..i understand..i faced rejection b4 too..there was this initial period when the pain was so unbearable..tots jus kept appearing in the head..as to in which wae i wasn't gd,where i've went wrong etc. then even tot of more solutions to tao2 hao3 ta1 (impress her).
anyway,she avoided me like plague for 2 weeks la..but i finally plucked up the courage to talk to her...
"hey..let's be good friends.i dun wanna lose u as a fren,alright?"
this was wad i said to her.
she smiled.i gave her exactly wad she desired for..a pure frenship and nth more.
been 2 yrs since that happened.
time really heals all wounds. at least nt that painful le. -
happened to me too.
use friendship as a substitute, you can still love her, just in a different way. -
Not gf not gf lor.
If its me i rather go out cheehong with a girl thats my good female friend.
Rather then being attached. More burden. -
it's obvious she wants to keep it platonic
now is whether YOU can keep it platonic
guys bery wat one leh
even cannot be bf-gf, girls usually still wanna be frens
but guys will think.....aiyah, mai waste time, find next one..... -
gone case liao.....
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x2.Originally posted by FireIce:it's obvious she wants to keep it platonic
now is whether YOU can keep it platonic
guys bery wat one leh
even cannot be bf-gf, girls usually still wanna be frens
but guys will think.....aiyah, mai waste time, find next one..... -
Originally posted by FireIce:
I don't agree with the last part.
[b]it's obvious she wants to keep it platonic
now is whether YOU can keep it platonic
guys bery wat one leh
even cannot be bf-gf, girls usually still wanna be frens
but guys will think.....aiyah, mai waste time, find next one.....[/b] -
MAybe its best that u two sort things out. Thats the best solution i have rather then u assume things and make matter worse =)
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it's time to carry on and not harbour any thoughts abt her liao... if one doesnt wanna give, there's no point giving ur anything... there's always another gal who will appreciate u for who u r, and willing to give her very best to u...
loving some1 hurts, sometimes, being loved is better...
but if the feeling is mutual and strong, it's the best tt u can ever have... hope u find the special some1 in the future.. -
I think TS should read my sigg.
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I would reply the message like this (consider that i like the girl)Originally posted by seaworld:if a girl sms you and say this confirm gone case liao??
"i always think that there can be true friends between people of different gender, do u agree"
even though we always go out 1 on 1 date??
"yup i agree and believe there can be true friends between people of different gender.
I also believe that most love come between people of different gender.
And I also believe that love can be found between two true friends of different gender."
what do you think of this reply? wha i hope a girl said this to me man... -
agreed!Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:Going out 1 on 1 basis does not imply a lead to a progress in a r/s.
I go out 1 on 1 with quite a few of my guy friends, and it's platonic Both ways!