i am sad....
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perhaps someone is the group is back-stabbing you?
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It is damn obvious that they don't like you... No point whining about it cos it won't change a thing. options: just go make new friends or sit at a corner and cry; your choice.
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Yea..some ppl treat u like nothing..some value ur friendship..have to observe to choose who u want to be wif la..I also kena this type of xue-te b4 de. Dun be put down by such obstacles ba..
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Search for the golden rule in google. Dun always assume ur friends are wrong, look upon urself first
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yeah........
ur right, today i found out that yesterday they go to LAN shop instead of library.....
and and i have accepted the fact that they are not appreciating my friendship and things i helped them but repayed with lies and pretentious act.......
so.... i am feeling better today.....also, still sad
yeah and today 2 more things that he just take my words as pass-by wind...
one ear go in other out.....
haiz..... but i believe in retributions......
retributions as in making them noe that i am treating them as friend and let them treat me as a friend too.......... not like hoping them to fall sick...
yeah i had thought bout it long enough b4 i started a thread....
i had thought bout the bad things i done to them, and the possible reasons of making them doing this to me.......
yeah... guess he dont like me...
but wierd... if he dont like me, he said b4 that i am his true friend......
perhaps he said that cuz i helped him when he is in his dark times.....
haiz....... anyway this had make a great progress for my growth mentally.....
words just cant express my feelings, or my vocab is too weak............
hope things turn out better..........
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who is the leader for the group?
anyways how is ur study? it is good or poor?
how u study for test? keep chatting and joking around or really study?
u can ask ur trusted friend for help. -
u abit too sensitive leh... be more of a man and ignore such things. Bu Fang Zhai Yen LiOriginally posted by ItchyArmpit:hi guys...
today, my friends made me sad, but not to the extend of suiciding....
this was wat happened,
i am in a basketball CCA (most of my friends are in basketball) , and today is one of the holiday training, after training, everyone was unusual and changed to casual clothes instead of just going home straight away.
i was curious, i asked them why they were wearing this being so unusual.......
they answered me, we are all going to library to do homework......
for the last few days, i have been asking them whether they want to do homework together at somewhere like a library...... then they just bo chap bo chap, and didnt gave any answers, until today i saw them wanting to go to library to do homework together, i asked them immediately that why didnt they tell me about this, they said, if i tell u, u want to go meh?
i am sad because if i really didnt want to go, they should at least tell me that they are going to library for homeworks...... wats more, i have been asking them and suggesting to them the same thing, yet they just didnt put it in mind or just one side came in the other side came out.......
i mean, they are my friends afterall right?
if not how are we related after chatting and being together for yrs....
i am somehow sad and dissapointed at them........... and when i said next time got outing must tell me ma, then they like dont care bout me.......
guys out there,
any suggestion that can improve our relationship as friends and let them treat me better.... nowadays, i somehow feel that they treat me like ...... a playground always ready for them.........and this is not the 1st time......
sorry about my bad english......
in advance,
thanks for all ur comments....
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no leader in the groups....
i joke when it is time to joke.... i noe it........when i study for test they are making fun of me....... and i was serious.........
a man needs friends too......
so cannot say bu fang zai yan li -
aiya its like tt de lah.. when exam period come, they treat u like god.. buddy here buddy there..Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:no leader in the groups....
i joke when it is time to joke.... i noe it........when i study for test they are making fun of me....... and i was serious.........
a man needs friends too......
so cannot say bu fang zai yan li
after exam, they treat u like shit majiam like invisible.. like those normal hi bye fren.. -
worse that hi bye fren,Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:aiya its like tt de lah.. when exam period come, they treat u like god.. buddy here buddy there..
after exam, they treat u like shit majiam like invisible.. like those normal hi bye fren..
for example : i ask them wats the next bball training date, they will like very bo chap or annoyed...... but when other ppl ask, they straight away give ans...
haiz..... even some ppl of the group of friends also realise their attitude changing............... -
just too bad