Originally posted by ahhaoz:
i and my gf have some issues.
she has gone to US eastern coast, Australia, beijing, shanghai, turkey, inner mongolia.
I on the other hand has gone to england, france, taiwan, hongkong, beijing, shanghai,
we started thingking abt where we would like to have a holiday 3 mths ago.. we settled on taiwan despite i have gone there b4.. but i've only gone to taipei and gaoxiong during my NS.. so i lose out a bit ... but cin cai lah u noe..
so we now thinking on where to go next.. next year..
I wan to go US in jan.... she wants to go europe...
ok i think i'm complicating things here..
basically, why always i accomodate her.. can't she accomodate me? i feel like i'm always sacrifcing.. but she say no means no likedat.. haiz.. upset..
Then I suggest you think long and hard if you want her to be your future life long partner. A life long partner must accomodate each other and if she is so set in her ways you might have a big problem. Since you posted here that means it's not really a small matter as it bugs at you otherwise you wouldn't bother posting it to vent your frustration.
When you said you always accomodate her does that mean in almost everything in normal daily occurence? If yes then you sure have a big issue pal.
