Conflicts
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i and my gf have some issues.
she has gone to US eastern coast, Australia, beijing, shanghai, turkey, inner mongolia.
I on the other hand has gone to england, france, taiwan, hongkong, beijing, shanghai,
we started thingking abt where we would like to have a holiday 3 mths ago.. we settled on taiwan despite i have gone there b4.. but i've only gone to taipei and gaoxiong during my NS.. so i lose out a bit ... but cin cai lah u noe..
so we now thinking on where to go next.. next year..
I wan to go US in jan.... she wants to go europe...
ok i think i'm complicating things here..
basically, why always i accomodate her.. can't she accomodate me? i feel like i'm always sacrifcing.. but she say no means no likedat.. haiz.. upset.. -
You must understand girls la.. you know gf very difficult to find nowadays leh.
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Ask yourself does it matter more where you go with her....or who she decides to go along with
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this time u go europe with her
next time she go US with u loh
can cham siong one mah -
simple
play scissors, paper, stone
see whoever wins, go to the country, that whichever person desire lor -
Then I suggest you think long and hard if you want her to be your future life long partner. A life long partner must accomodate each other and if she is so set in her ways you might have a big problem. Since you posted here that means it's not really a small matter as it bugs at you otherwise you wouldn't bother posting it to vent your frustration.Originally posted by ahhaoz:i and my gf have some issues.
she has gone to US eastern coast, Australia, beijing, shanghai, turkey, inner mongolia.
I on the other hand has gone to england, france, taiwan, hongkong, beijing, shanghai,
we started thingking abt where we would like to have a holiday 3 mths ago.. we settled on taiwan despite i have gone there b4.. but i've only gone to taipei and gaoxiong during my NS.. so i lose out a bit ... but cin cai lah u noe..
so we now thinking on where to go next.. next year..
I wan to go US in jan.... she wants to go europe...
ok i think i'm complicating things here..
basically, why always i accomodate her.. can't she accomodate me? i feel like i'm always sacrifcing.. but she say no means no likedat.. haiz.. upset..
When you said you always accomodate her does that mean in almost everything in normal daily occurence? If yes then you sure have a big issue pal.
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niceeee planOriginally posted by allentyb:simple
play scissors, paper, stone
see whoever wins, go to the country, that whichever person desire lor
combine with FI's solution
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waa... like this also issue?!Originally posted by ahhaoz:i and my gf have some issues.
she has gone to US eastern coast, Australia, beijing, shanghai, turkey, inner mongolia.
I on the other hand has gone to england, france, taiwan, hongkong, beijing, shanghai,
we started thingking abt where we would like to have a holiday 3 mths ago.. we settled on taiwan despite i have gone there b4.. but i've only gone to taipei and gaoxiong during my NS.. so i lose out a bit ... but cin cai lah u noe..
so we now thinking on where to go next.. next year..
I wan to go US in jan.... she wants to go europe...
ok i think i'm complicating things here..
basically, why always i accomodate her.. can't she accomodate me? i feel like i'm always sacrifcing.. but she say no means no likedat.. haiz.. upset..
hahaha just go to both la.... first europe then US la! haiyo go holiday with your gf tian mi mi still complain? -
oh man ! just a "small" problem, just let her go europe lo.as the sayings go, girls is mend to be pamper. bla bla, but u two must be rich man..go so many place
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i always do that to settle on decisionsOriginally posted by allentyb:simple
play scissors, paper, stone
see whoever wins, go to the country, that whichever person desire lor
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stopover at europe
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sounds like you haven't been to INDIA.........
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Why not both of you go to a new destination that neither of you went before. I heard Japan is a very nice tourist destination.
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do my style: compromising. that's literally the only thing you can do.