feeling like there no topic wif her to talk abt..

• radioactivelk

  14 Jun 07, 15:55

  as topic.
  abt to 1month wif my current gf le... but seem like both of us has nth to talk abt. last time used to talk in phone, go out etc..
  thn tis few days wanna call her, she will say her mum at home, using phone blah blah blah..
  when i miss call her, she will call back 1.. but nw no more
  
  ytd i ask her out for anniversary, she say she wanna stay at home takcek
  (she alrdy say her mum doesnt let her out b4 i ask her out)
  
  i noe tat the relationship is having problem le.. and her feeling is nt the same as b4. so i wanna seek help from forumer.. anyway i can do to save tis relation?
• de_middle

  14 Jun 07, 15:57

  erm, only a month & ur already feeling this way. Time to re-think maybe, take this period to chill out maybe
• Pitot

  14 Jun 07, 15:58

  u get into a relationship to talk about stuff?
• darkhour

  14 Jun 07, 16:02

  Originally posted by radioactivelk:

  as topic.
  abt to 1month wif my current gf le... but seem like both of us has nth to talk abt. last time used to talk in phone, go out etc..
  thn tis few days wanna call her, she will say her mum at home, using phone blah blah blah..
  when i miss call her, she will call back 1.. but nw no more
  
  ytd i ask her out for anniversary, she say she wanna stay at home takcek
  (she alrdy say her mum doesnt let her out b4 i ask her out)
  
  i noe tat the relationship is having problem le.. and her feeling is nt the same as b4. so i wanna seek help from forumer.. anyway i can do to save tis relation?

  there will b a period when u feel like u dun haf much to talk one...but 1 mth is seriously quite fast la...do u call her everyday?n what lv of education r u at?
• rainee

  14 Jun 07, 16:08

  Hmm one month? Do the two of you very different to begin with? What makes you get together with her?
  
  Try to find out what she is interested in, then get her to do those things, then accompany her to do those. Maybe those outings will provide both of you something to talk about...
• sillyme

  14 Jun 07, 16:09

  Go out with other friends, then tell her about what happened lor.
  You need to have a balance social life to make yourself interesting.
• radioactivelk

  14 Jun 07, 16:38

  haha.. tat wad i am thking.. 1mth only, and i am thking tis way..
  currently i sec5.. and shes sec2..
  izzit age gap?
• rainee

  14 Jun 07, 16:40

  Originally posted by radioactivelk:

  haha.. tat wad i am thking.. 1mth only, and i am thking tis way..
  currently i sec5.. and shes sec2..
  izzit age gap?

  why u get together with her? wat attracts you to her?
• darkhour

  14 Jun 07, 16:43

  Originally posted by radioactivelk:

  haha.. tat wad i am thking.. 1mth only, and i am thking tis way..
  currently i sec5.. and shes sec2..
  izzit age gap?

  dun tink age gap la...3 yrs nia ok la...what r ur common interests?n u all can talk abt everyday life loh...that part the girl shld haf lots to talk what...juz listen n comment a little...hmm she streaming this yr, u O lvl this yr...mayb she wants u to concentrate on ur studies oso loh...
• akinos

  14 Jun 07, 17:42

  Honeymoon Period Over lor..
  
  She might be interested in other guys maybe? Or she is finding the conversations boring. Try something(her interests) to spike her up abit, or something irregular or unique that both of u can cherish.
  
  And pls! NO S*X...
• Darkness_hacker99

  14 Jun 07, 17:44

  Give her some surprises. Girls love surprises.
• Eiizumi

  14 Jun 07, 17:55

  Lacking in sex.. oh.. underage..
  
  just pet and kiss lah.
• radioactivelk

  14 Jun 07, 18:10

  dunno.. juz love her very much..
  
  wad kind of surpise u suggest? she cant even go out / call her
  
• darkhour

  14 Jun 07, 18:12

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Give her some surprises. Girls love surprises.

  experienced worx
  
  eh TS any special days coming soon?
• dbowie

  14 Jun 07, 18:13

  Originally posted by radioactivelk:

  haha.. tat wad i am thking.. 1mth only, and i am thking tis way..
  currently i sec5.. and shes sec2..
  izzit age gap?

  
  better if you break apart..if I were you i would because literally she could find someone closer to her age..and you are graduating so that makes you both drift further
• Darkness_hacker99

  14 Jun 07, 18:16

  Originally posted by darkhour:

  experienced worx
  
  eh TS any special days coming soon?

  Me go gf yet. I am still learning..
  
  Thanks to this thread and other advisary threads.
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=259024
• darkhour

  14 Jun 07, 18:21

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Me go gf yet. I am still learning..
  
  Thanks to this thread and other advisary threads.
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=259024

  yea i knw...everyone learns things here lol
• ilovethesun

  14 Jun 07, 20:38

  Originally posted by radioactivelk:

  haha.. tat wad i am thking.. 1mth only, and i am thking tis way..
  currently i sec5.. and shes sec2..
  izzit age gap?

  omg.. still so young!!!
  
  yES.. should concentrate on your studies 1st..
• browniebaobao

  14 Jun 07, 20:50

  honeymoon period is over.
  
  maybe she finds u boring liao.
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  14 Jun 07, 20:53

  hAha.. do something to make her feel wanted and romantic
• Imotep

  14 Jun 07, 20:56

  hmmmm, just surprise her with some flowers at her dooorsteps. Or try to do something radical... something out of the ordinary.
  
  well, why not take a step backward and ask her what's wrong?
• Cool-gal

  14 Jun 07, 23:40

  one month only such thing happens.
  be prepare for the worst, sorry to say tat.
  
• boka

  14 Jun 07, 23:46

  Stop msging her but if there's a need too,make the reply straight and indifferent,when she calls dun pick the phone straight away but call back only after a few hours[5-6 hours or the next day]
  keep her wondering.
• LordIcarus

  14 Jun 07, 23:49

  Originally posted by boka:

  Stop msging her but if there's a need too,make the reply straight and indifferent,when she calls dun pick the phone straight away but call back only after a few hours[5-6 hours or the next day]
  keep her wondering.

  good tactic. but, if the feeling is not there... be prepared to face it.
• ispyyy

  14 Jun 07, 23:51

  Originally posted by radioactivelk:

  dunno.. juz love her very much..
  
  wad kind of surpise u suggest? she cant even go out / call her
  

  It is yr gf wat... how do we suggest ???
  Of coz, I do wish there is standard operating procedure to surprise girls...
  Just follow the standard steps can liao... and the girls will be happy
  Then, guys no need to trouble and think...
  
  But too bad for guys, there is no such thing as SOP on surprising girls...